The thought of being labelled as a slut is something that many women struggle with when they consider swinging, or engaging in wilder sexual acts.

There’s a veritable smorgasbord of sexual possibilities, so why limit yourself to meat and three veg (with vanilla ice-cream as a special treat!)? Unless of course all you actually like is meat and three veg. I keep stressing that there are no ‘shoulds’ in sex, the important thing is to find out what is real for you and honour that.

There are multiple ways to satisfy your swinging appetite and if you haven’t tried private parties, clubs or events, then you should. You just never know what you might be missing!

A friend asked me recently what my top 10 tips for a vagina would be. Good question! So many women feel disconnected from their genitals. So read on and find out my top 10 tips for your vagina.

Someone who’s a connoisseur of sex is interested in savouring sex, whether it’s a late night cuddle under the covers or a weekend of erotic delights. It’s the quality that counts, not the quantity. They know how much is enough because they’re in tune with the subtle aspects of sex.

While reading a book written by Dr John Gray Chantelle Austin was surprised by the introduction where he described an encounter with a rather bold lady who gave him an indecent proposal. For a moment she thought he was considering swinging!

Overall we had a great night at The Monkey Club and again we were completely impressed with the quality of the venue, the hosts and the other couples that came. And if you make it along to one of their awesome parties, tell them Chantelle sent you! Oh and maybe I’ll see you there, we might just become regulars at this rate…

ThePussyKats is night for swinging couples and select singles (guys and gals) to meet in a very classy environment in Melbourne for mingling and ongoing fun, for those who want to join in.

We are a voyeuristic species but just like too much chocolate is unhealthy too much porn can interfere with your true sexual connection with your partner.

So carrying on from my previous two posts, what is real – are humans monogamous or not? Is monogamy a natural state that all humans gravitate to, or is it a social norm superimposed upon a different biological basis?