Our Findings on Big Dicks Unzipped!

Eva Sless Eva Sless on 13 July 2015    141 comments
Woman sitting in bed smiling at a naked man standing in front of her

Hands up how many girls (and some guys) have received a message like this over the years...  “Hey, baby.  I've got a raging ten inch cock all for you...”

Yep. Thought so. Me too. Heaps. 

Beyond the obvious response of “Go away, idiot” that I have when I get these sorts of messages (Seriously, have you ever thought of just saying “Hello”?) there are a few more things I'd like to point out, just in case you're the sort of person who brags like this.

  1. No. Actually you probably don't. Let me give you a little breakdown in mathematics. Ten inches converts to 25.4 centimetres. To put that into a visual scale you may find easier, a two litre bottle of milk is just under ten inches long. A 1.25 litre coke bottle is just over ten inches. Two and a half tins of spaghetti stacked on top of each other is about ten inches... So, now we've established exactly how long ten inches is (it practically comes to my knees), we can probably establish that yeah, you don't have one.
  2. According to the Kinsey Institute the average penis size is around five to six and a half inches, and several other surveys by condom companies and other sex-based companies say very similar. That doesn't mean there aren't some monster cocks walking around the place, it just means it's not particularly common and, again with the maths, considering how many people claim they have one... Well it just doesn't add up. 
  3. I know a couple of guys who really have got ten inch (or close to) penises and none of them go around announcing it in every conversation, message, and text. They just don't. Why? Well I asked one of them and he said, quite simply, “Because it's irrelevant” and, for the most part, he is absolutely right. The thing is, if a woman wants a man with a big penis and you tell her you have one and it turns out you're full of shit and are actually closer to the average size, she probably won't have sex with you. This is because not only are you not what she is looking for, you've also just outed yourself as a liar and that's not particularly conducive to getting laid. I will mention that my friend also said that, if it gets to the stage of a conversation or date where they may end up having sex, he does mention it. Not to brag, but to inform. And that takes me to my next point.
  4. And this here is the kicker and one to remember, a lot of women actually don't like them that big at all. It doesn't matter what porn has told you. It doesn't matter what your mates say in the bar. A lot of women, when confronted with a very large penis, back off and think “No WAY is that going inside me”.The thing is, the average vagina when aroused (yep, we grow too, guys) is only about 4.75 inches long (do the maths) and, just in case you didn't know, is topped off with a barrier called the cervix. While some women don't mind their cervix being pushed heavily against in sex, quite a few find it rather painful and, although a vagina can increase in width by about 200% (hello babies), a very thick penis can cause quite a lot of discomfort. Even with lots of lube. Most guys I know with larger penises have to really learn and refine their technique so they don't cause pain or discomfort.

Now before the guys with the actual big cocks jump all over me for dissing them, I'm not. I personally love a super cock. But, after surveying some of my girlfriends and asking their opinions on the “perfect” penis size for them here are just a few of the responses I got.

“To me the perfect cock is like a doorknob. Short and fat. Stretches me but doesn't push on my cervix”
“7-8 inch is the size I'd buy in plastic, but when it comes to flesh, I make the best of it, regardless of size! The size does not a good lover make!!”
“5 to 6 inches is my ideal but considerate, larger lovers have also rocked my world”
“Honestly, size isn't really a big deal for me. The only time it is, is when it's too big. Cos that can really hurt.”
“I don't know. Normal size? I think my boyfriend is around five or six inches? I don't know. Works for me.”
“I've cum with small ones, I've cum with big ones. Honestly it doesn't matter when it comes to shagging but to look at, I must say, I like to LOOK at 7+ inches... But I don't always like to fuck 7+ inches.” 
“Penis shmenis. Can they use their tongue?”
"If it fits correctly in a regular size condom, then that's great. Occasionally a small one is good too because it rubs right on my g spot."
"An ex had a larger penis, however didn't use it well. No 'preamble' and no talent - He had a hammer and he could only do one thing with it. I'm now with someone much smaller and it's the best I have ever had."
"4-8 inches. 1-1.5 inch diameter. Anything smaller or bigger than that is not fun. Anything longer than 8 and they need to not put it fully in or it hurts my cervix."
"5-7in, circumcised or uncircumcised not an issue, manscaped a must, and CLEAN."
"I reckon big and thick. Eight or nine. But only if they know how to use it."
"I think 7-8 in to look at does it for me. I've heard some women say they are so ugly to look at. I think they are beautiful."

Trust me, guys. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being of average size. Nothing! If a girl likes you enough to want to see you naked and put your bits inside her bits then you've won half the battle anyway! And if you think good sex is purely down to penis size and penetration then you're probably not particularly good in the sack anyway. Mouths, hands, eyes, body language, words ... these are all part of what will make you a great lay.  So stop stressing. Stop bragging. We actually don't care all that much, and we're all different.

Work on being a nice, respectful, fun person, and all the rest will fall into place.

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  • bi4bi6969

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    Halleluya!!!! I hope all men read this. Loved reading it.
    >4w
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  • phallux.

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    I was telling a GF about a guy I used to play basketball with, John Green (for want of a better name). John was taller than the rest of us, he thought that was cool, and all he needed to be a good basketballer. I said I called it the John Green Syndrome. Later, after the GF and I had gone our different ways, I heard she was dating a guy, who was reputed to be carrying around a fair sort of schlong, and next time I met her, we chatted and the new BF got a mention. I delved into his reputation and she said; "Yes, very true.". And added; "But you know what? He suffers John Green Syndrome..."
    >4w
    • Footlongnfat

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      My girl friends say the opposite ... small dick syndrome is rife ! Lol
      All jest aside I've heard it's at the large end of the scale too ...
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    bloodclaws
    37M 34F Wellington, NSW,
     AU

    I'm not convinced
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  • Letsenjoymore

    Letsenjoymore
    63M Newcomb, VIC,
     AU

    its right on, well said, the world gets caught up in crap hype
    >4w
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  • thickalx

    thickalx
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    female pornstars reckon 6 inches long is more than enough its the thickness were it counts.
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  • HW.fun

    HW.fun
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    We have chatted to a few guys lately who have been well endowed so to speak, but from chatting to them we have come to one realisation, "A guy with a big dick is most usually a big dick himself".
    >4w
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  • Camille202

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    It's not so much that big pointy thing banging against a cervix; it's the awful pain when it slips sideways and stretches beyond the cervix .. Aargh. And an enormous penis is a marvellous thing if all he does is put it in, and we get to squeeze and massage with our bodies. The problems start if he wants to move; a penis needs friction for release.
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  • Eloquant1

    Eloquant1
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    OMG... yum yum yum. I say, the bigger, the better - and lots of them ;O
    >4w
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  • GCLonelyLady

    GCLonelyLady
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    I prefer one that nicely fits my mouth... and i hate hair in my teeth.
    >4w
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  • Cumwithme247

    Cumwithme247
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    It really isn't the size that brings a woman to orgasm.
    It is the mood, the foreplay, the teasing and all that prep work which sets the scene for success.
    And then when it comes to entering her, it is not just simple plunging motion that does it for her it is if you can hit her G-spot which is only 2-3 inches inside which makes her really enjoy it.
    So if the average size is 6 inches, there is more than enough rope for her to enjoy you.
    >4w
    • laylasparkles25

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      Agree! It's the amount of ground work you put in that makes great sex!
      >4w
    • Footlongnfat

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      One of the The reasons why serious size can be so good is that the g spot is hit whilst the y p and a spots are ... making for insane orgasming
      But without the groundwork for most women I couldn't agree with u more ...
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  • KLXisback

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    I think most women have a 'secret preferred size', but its certainly not a deal breaker, its how it's used. Some men however can be jealous of other men with big dicks, but its not a blessing at all to have one, imagine not being able to 'grind' :-(
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  • Lookingforfwb

    Lookingforfwb
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    Loved this article...well done! There's no bigger turn off than a guy bragging about how BIG his Dick is!! Do you know how to kiss, use your tongue and hands? This is a much better turn on for me! Come on guys stop trying to impress with pics and bragging. Just put words into action I say!!
    >4w
    • Cumwithme247

      Cumwithme247
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      Absolutely, I hear you sister.
      >4w
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      Icelady121
      65F Geelong, VIC,
       AU

      Great story ! I agree entirely , 6 ins is perfect & allows me to work it well ! Grind , move it everyway I can when riding him !
      7 ins is my limit or it's painful, unless he's considerate & refines his technique .
      >4w
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      andy0071
      55M Boronia Heights, QLD,
       AU

      So true
      >4w
    • Lord Richard

      Lord Richard
      67M Kempsey, NSW,
       AU

      Your not wrong I think its Xmas and he drops his pants and what do we see nothing!!! Well nothing worth mentioning LOL
      >4w
    • Footlongnfat

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      They're trying to get the action ! That's why there's words and pics lol It's an online forum ... what else is there ? Honestly Get on as a guy and try ... see what it's like. Look I completely get women have the horrid task of dealing with so many guys at them ... saying incredibly cringe worthy stuff. I'm cringing at my own message to you right now ... but most are just over being ignored ... they're struggling to get someone to respond and then actually see them ...
      Now that's not to say there's a huge amount of tossers amongst us and we're our own worse enemy .., but just know why even good guys do what they do :)
      >4w
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  • Tobnaughty01

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    Thank you. Great article. Its great to hear women's thoughts. Its a trade secret to men. You have restored my confidence of normal size is best.. Some of us normal /average men feel that we are inferior and can't fulfil women. Thank you its a blessing confidence against the larger man.
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    FlamePrincess
    44F Adelaide city centre, SA,
     AU

    Amen to this article!!!!
    >4w
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  • SassySandy

    SassySandy
    75F Ocean Shores, NSW,
     AU

    Spot on!! great talk!!! Most guys under 40 are braggers, watching tooo much PORN then expect the same, I'm always asked what I like having done to me.....My response....... just go with the flow!! best way!!! I know a few guys with at least 10inch..OMG!!! nice to look at BUT can hurt and nothing worse than painful sex, too long for deep throat aswell, give me 5 - 7 inch any day..mmmmmmm
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    sexybitch35
    54F Melbourne, VIC,
     AU

    Great story , can AMM do more like that - breaking myths for both men and women
    >4w
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  • Bunnykinsfun

    Bunnykinsfun
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    Spot on. My two husbands hung, hated sex, so uncomfortable. Just grinning and barring it, not fun
    >4w
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  • Cob1958

    Cob1958
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    I love big cocks. The bigger the better. I must be out of the norm. Oh well, each to their own I guess
    >4w
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    Switchingplay
    36F Sydney, NSW,
     AU

    Thank god somebody has said it. Sick of dudes bragging about their size like its going to seal the deal.
    >4w
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  • 9inchofun

    9inchofun
    42M Robina, QLD,
     AU

    I think you will find there are as many different opinions on this as there are people. Each to their own I say.
    >4w
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    downundermumma
    68F Mildura, VIC,
     AU

    I have been with men with very large cocks and also been with men that have had tiny cocks.
    In reality it really came down to the man themselves regardless of their size to get a woman off
    >4w
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  • RoknRollGoddess

    RoknRollGoddess
    52F Lilyfield, NSW,
     AU

    For me, as long as the guy you are with is really hard for you size doesn't matter... unless it's too big ouch.
    Agree with the article and we are all sooooo different
    >4w
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    bluejade
    58F Perth, WA,
     AU

    Mmmmm very interesting each to there own hehe ... me dont mind 6/7 if got girth (lol good word l learn from my toyboy lover ) he mean thickness... Tho I like 7/8 with thickness or say mouth full (what I can put in my mouth lol) other wise if bigger 9-11inc dont think there be any enjoyment unless want to be banged anal ewwww no not my cupa T
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  • julesv60

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    Yet there seems to be so many size queens on AMM
    >4w
    • Maturelover2

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      Yes,,this is a true comment after reading a nice profile,those words most guys don't want to see,,must be hung, no small cocks,,or big cocks only apply,, wtf.. I'm pretty sure real intimacy or pleasures including more, a lot more than the size of the cock he is carrying,,
      >4w
    • Footlongnfat

      Footlongnfat
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      Yes undeniably true ...
      >4w
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    Hoopcat
    57F Bulla, VIC,
     AU

    I adore a large cock and if it's thick all the better but having great sex depends on technique not size so better to be skilled than hung. Finding a "utility penis" is so workable fitting all holes
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    PartywithAmber
    52M 49F Melbourne, VIC,
     AU

    What we have found is most guys claim to have a large cock but don't, I think their ruler is either broken or they're starting at 10cm.
    I like thick and long.
    >4w
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  • mytimeforfun88

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    I have cum with mid sized guys but only ever squirted with bigger ones. I like bigger. That doesn't mean guys with small dicks can't be nice lovers, just my pref.
    >4w
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  • gis0170

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    Pleasure is in giving pleasure. Big cock, big tits, big clit; small cock, small tits, little clit; breast size, nipple size - who cares? When you match and are prepared to give, then you both receive - pleasure. If you are not interested in the person, say so. If you are, then give. Bodies change over-time, attention to all the 'bits' changes the person and the 'bits'.
    Just to fuck, fine, then ignore this comment, to experience pleasure, then open yourself to the experience of you partner first, then you. The pleasure will be returned.
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  • mytimeforfun88

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    Have literally just confirmed I like bigger. My first aff pick up since I left the site five years ago. Was awesome!!!
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  • mytimeforfun88

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    And he was a totes gentleman. Yay.
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  • CuteBBW001

    CuteBBW001
    56F Neerim, VIC,
     AU

    Great article!
    I hope a lot of men read this. Personally 6-7 inches and thick. Anything longer and OUCH!! And of course, he has to be able to use it well.
    >4w
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  • sweetangelic2

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    I love this... your definitely right about what you write here... as i was once told... Ïts not the size of the prick that does the trick... Its the throb of the knob that does the job."size is really irrelevant cos if your partner has you horny enough you will fit to his size.... and still orgasm....great read
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  • freetogiverall

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    Great reading. I'm 6.5 circumcised and happy, can't complain about that !!!
    >4w
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  • secretthings69

    secretthings69
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    Thanks for your point in section 4. Until I joined this site I have never really come across anything bigger than 6-7 inches. I have had an IUD in the past and recal how far she needed to insert it so when I see the length on here as being BIG I think would love to try but been afraid due to the hurt factor. I am longer than the average inside so maybe I will brave it up as LOVE the look of a larger one and give it a go. Actually good info and something I did not know that it grows to when aroused.
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    Oceananearth
    58M Helensvale, QLD,
     AU

    I'm perfectly happy with my 7 and a bit inches, circumcised, I don't brag, it is what it is. I get off on a mutual reaction in the moment......
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    mistresslooking
    58F Tamworth, NSW,
     AU

    loved reading this. It is refreshing to see words that actually empower men and women in this ridiculously too serious a subject of sex. The more openness and communication about all of these so called taboo subjects the better I say. We all have something that we don't like other people knowing about our bodies or ourselves but in the end it's all about the people not the parts.
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  • merlin4432

    merlin4432
    55M Newcastle city centre, NSW,
     AU

    I agree I'm around 6 inches give to take half depending on how aroused. Some ladies have told me that guys with larger cocks tend to cum too quick as their increased size gets more stimulation from a tighter vagina. Well I'm happy to say that most of the time I do get good results with my average sized cock. If my cock fails my tongue usually gets the job done.
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    smoothnthick
    55M Perth, WA,
     AU

    Great write up, motion in the ocean? If these guys with the 9in were builders their work would all come up short lol glad my tape measure starts at 0 and not 5.
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  • Enigma1975

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    These articles come and go but at the end of the day it always equates to the same outcome with women's wants - which is looks and penis size. Women are not the advanced full of detail and substance beings they like to betray to men. Women are basic, simple and lazy with no rules except one and that is looks. Money/reputation and status items come in second. This may sound harsh but I'm not trying to be it's just the truth. I never say things like "wait till you try my 8 inch hammer you'll love it"....or...."wanna get pounded by a stud". If you're decent and average looking you get no where with women...you get completely ignored and not even noticed.
    >4w
    • krow16

      krow16
      39M Sutherland, NSW,
       AU

      Unfortunately very true of the average woman who claims to value things other than whatsoever really does. LOL. Is it a wonder that so many women complain about meeting dickheads. While we would like to believe Eva, it's even less true of women on 'sex sites.' Period. All about looks...and on amm, that includes dick size.
      >4w
    • KissesEtc

      KissesEtc
      53M Kingston, ACT,
       AU

      Exactly. Women can be just as shallow as men.
      >4w
    • Suki69

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      I don't agree, yet I do like men tall and thin and in proportion.....what I really dislike is turning up to coffee and a guy has gained ten years in age, shrunk six inches in height and gained fifty kilos in weight ....even if he's the nicest guy in the world I'm not going to bed with someone who has no problem lying. In this day of smart phones it's not hard to take a new photo every few months and delete the old, out of date ones.
      >4w
    • DeliciousEva

      DeliciousEva
      48F Reservoir, VIC,
       AU

      Well, yes. It is all down to what she wants and likes to look at.
      Funny thing is, what women like and want to look at is different for every woman.
      Some women like beards. Some like blondes. Some like tall men. Some like men with lots of muscles. Some like slimmer men. Some women like big penises. Some like smaller ones.
      So yep.
      If that's basic and lazy... Well that's humans for you.
      :)
      >4w
    • Footlongnfat

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      Interesting ... I've had a few profiles Over the years ... whenever I had pics of my cock up I got a lot of response ... I even had a terribly written ramble where I tried to sound like a dick and guess what ... almost as much response ...
      when I wrote a beautifully put together profile with nice pics and no cock shots with size descriptions I got next to nothing ...
      then I tried my young good looking pics just to see what would happen ... a little response Still not much Nowhere near as much as the massive cock pic profile with the idiotic profile blab ...
      honestly I don't know exactly what to make of it ... it's hard for women as they are outnumbered the men massively on here and online in general so it's a tricky one ...
      just to be clear I was always honest about what I'd done for that short time I used young pics ... told them what I was doing and posted current as of then pics ... after all I am an ugly bastard these days ...
      but it was a fascinating little test ...
      I still think Eva's overall take is close to the mark ... I just think the really big cock thing will definitely attract a lot women who otherwise wouldn't be ...
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  • voodoo660

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    In my books, anything more than 7 inches is a waste because don't like my cervix being banged (too) hard... that said, I prefer a cock that is of substantial girth (approx 5-6 inches in circumference mid-length). Skinny dicks makes squirting less likely.
    >4w
    • Footlongnfat

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      If they're hitting your cervix then they're doing it deliberately or because they're stupid ... the head has a lot of feeling ... u can avoid the cervix easily. And with some effort the cervix can be avoided easily with angle and full physical arousal ...
      >4w
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  • CptnHook75

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    Great Article. Could I put in a request for an article that discusses the shape of a penis and what women's thoughts are on them. Mine has a downward curve obviously from my profile pics and I have mixed results with partners, the majority being positive. However there are ones that curve upwards, downwards, to the left, right, at an angle. I am sure gentlemen in similar situations such as myself would appreciate the information.
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  • Austphil

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    I often see adds putting down guys with average cocks. Or asking for monsters. Ive been holding Gang bang parties, for 22 years and have seen more cocks than most women will ever see well over 1000. I have never seen a genuine 10 inch cock! A few years ago after having requests from ladies for the elusive monster, I ran a challenge, I would put together a reverse gang bang, for any guy who could post a picture of his erect cock along side a tape measure. Simple take a picture of your cock along side a tape, prove you really have 9 inches or more and I will supply the 4 or 5 girls to gang bang you. I got some nasty replies claiming they were still huge but not one single guy ever posted a picture of his cock with a ruler or tape on the top side showing his cock was over 9 inches. I seriously think some guys are measuring it from there ass. Interestingly, I also never see profiles by guys asking for tighter pussies? With all due respect, you would think the average woman would be built for the average cock and in my experience she is. Just for the record I'm around 7 inches and can bottom out on most ladies.
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  • **Lee311**

    **Lee311**
    47M Broadmeadow, NSW,
     AU

    who cares how big what is`as long as everyones having fub :D
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  • xanderking

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    Brilliant!!!
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  • serg685

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    I am a big man and trust me is not the size helps but is no how big it is basically is how u use it!! So go and have fun and make sure she enjoy it as well as you thats the trick guys!!
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  • SEQsParties

    SEQsParties
    Group Brisbane, QLD,
     AU

    I think the first para of the article is spot on. Many people do not know what ten inches or nine or eight inches actually is.
    There is one regular guy at our parties who is constantly being told he has a big/huge cock but it is not much longer than 7" in reality.
    I see womens' profiles asking for nothing less than 9 inches. Having seen hundreds of dicks at many parties over the years I have seen probably one dick that size.
    If their requirement is 9" or nothing then these ladies would be getting nothing.
    >4w
    • 1DoorMan

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      Been to many a party and can honestly say have only seen one 9 inches long and a coke can round. Only one petite lady could sit on it all the way down she did the moving and really enjoyed herself all the other lady's that tried all got off.
      >4w
    • monstercockdom

      monstercockdom
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      Steve that guy was a moron and seq parties spot on ...
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  • 1DoorMan

    1DoorMan
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    This so true guys average 5 to 6 inches is all you need its all about the surrounding environment your in and how comfortable and relaxed is the lady your pleasing do it right you will be asked back for more get it wrong get on your bike see ya babe.
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  • Hotlipsforyou42

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    I like a larger penis with girth. I've met a few men that are 9 inches and a couple even larger of course it's useless if you don't know how to fuck it's not everything but it's rather nice
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  • polox73

    polox73
    51M Marian, QLD,
     AU

    you've got to play with the dick you're born with.. no use wishing otherwise. its more about satisfying your partner than worrying about how big you are/ are not.. lips, tongues and fingers do wonderful things
    >4w
    • Titianslady

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      Definately agree it's the whole package that counts, not just the cock ,in saying that I'm a big lass ,big ass need a little bit longer for doggy.lol
      True about hitting the cervix too it can be very painful. I've not had kids either so still very tight even for the average cock. But it's all in how you work it, the foreplay etc. Do you just aim for ground zero or excite your partner first. I go for excitement first a big buildup up.lol
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  • longhornie

    longhornie
    46M Sydney, NSW,
     AU

    Can we get a similar article on Breast Size? A friend of mine was absolutely obsessed with the idea that she may not have 'enough'.
    Would public cleavage display be the 'bragging' behaviour in this context?
    What would be the role of the enhancement products and surgical augmentations which seem so much more common for breasts than for penises? And do these represent "truth in advertising" any more faithfully than a man saying he has a big dick?
    It would be very interesting to read similar comparable stats for this part of the human anatomy - average breast measurements, a survey of preferences and ideals perhaps. It would also be nice to see the reactions from men and female-attracted-females about how much is too much or too little and a discussion of any limitations particular sizes may bring to an intimate situation.
    If breasts aren't the most appropriate female cognate for penis size, then perhaps an investigation of the labia would be a closer match with similar facts and figures presented.
    >4w
    • DeliciousEva

      DeliciousEva
      48F Reservoir, VIC,
       AU

      Yes, I agree. Both breast size and labia size, and what people are attracted to, and like, are a very interesting and personal things.
      What we're told we're supposed to like, or want, or have are very similar to the penis conversation.
      I'll definitely put it on the list as future articles.
      :)
      >4w
    • allinmymind

      allinmymind
      61F Wodonga, VIC,
       AU

      Women can't brag around other women it doesn't go down well at all. Guys know that or don't really care, although I am sure some appreciate them. Some women know that to look good in clothes, to look slim and fit in is the better option socially.
      >4w
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  • Leolady727

    Leolady727
    Account closed

    Being a short, reasonably petite woman who's never had children, I really CAN'T handle a big cock - way too uncomfortable.
    Someone else made the comment about a small cock hitting the "G" spot - I've found this to be true - my late husband was small and I loved it - had multiple orgasms in the cowgirl position!
    >4w
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  • Suki69

    Suki69
    Account closed

    Good article. The last line " work on being........" Best advice ever...
    >4w
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  • Tallman11

    Tallman11
    Account closed

    Makes me feel "average" after reading that. Good to know its also about the mans ability to be agood lover.
    >4w
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  • barebummed

    barebummed
    39F Newcastle, NSW,
     AU

    I have a suspicion that a large percentage of men on this site don't know how big they are just take a wild guess. A lot of the pics I've seen don't look even close to matching the size they say they are... usually they say they're smaller!
    >4w
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  • Cheekiness99

    Cheekiness99
    57M Brisbane, QLD,
     AU

    It's great to be well hung........but still have to know how to use it. Of course having an eager mouth, helps as well!! :)
    >4w
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  • monstercockdom

    monstercockdom
    Account closed

    If a vagina is 4.75 inches long then how do I manage to get half way to my elbow with every single girl I've ever met ... I agree with so much of what's said and then u went and lied worse about the vagina than men do about their penis ... Disappointing So much was so true ... Sincerely that's about where the cervix is and it curves around the cervix at least that far again ... When properly aroused ... Anyone who hasn't liked large simply hasn't been turned on. Considering every second woman I've ever had told me later she's never cum before I'd say proper full internal arousal is a huge problem full stop ...
    >4w
    • DeliciousEva

      DeliciousEva
      48F Reservoir, VIC,
       AU

      Its really brilliant when men comment on my articles and seem to know more about vaginas than the women who own them do.
      No, really, thank you for using your intelligent man brain to explain all about a body part you do not own but have stuck your arm inside so are obviously an expert in.
      It's refreshing and attractive being taught to suck eggs by someone far more intelligent and experienced than I with years of experience in not only writing and researching and, you know, actually owning, a vagina...
      Perhaps your extremely helpful man brain could read over the bit where it talks about how very elasticated and able to be stretched by around 200% the vagina is and how I also go on to mention that some (not all) women like it and that some (not all) do not.
      Amazingly having a big dick doesn't seem to stretch to reading beyond what you choose to see :)
      Thanks again for your help. How I've managed to make it as a sex writer all these decades before you showed up to explain how I'm wrong and a liar (oh wait, no it's all actually in the next few paragraphs) I just do not know.
      >4w
    • DeliciousEva

      DeliciousEva
      48F Reservoir, VIC,
       AU

      Can I also add I am very concerned you seem to think you can fit your arm through a cervix?
      Is that what you're saying?
      Or that the vag is like "U" shaped like an "S" bend or something with a cervix on the hump?
      I'm... I'm very confused. And concerned for the women you stick your arm in.
      :)
      >4w
    • allinmymind

      allinmymind
      61F Wodonga, VIC,
       AU

      The only thing I doubted was how often it happened, but then again....
      And it is true there is fisting, then when really aroused you can use hand up and down and not hurt anything or take half again, well usually, I expect my fist dildo is bigger than 385ml coke bottle up to the neck.
      Ok I can see that you wrote this article now DE, I was confused by the names.
      >4w
    • Footlongnfat

      Footlongnfat
      Account closed

      Delicious eva ... I spoke overall In a positive way about your article ... look it's a difficult topic and you ll get so many different responses ... let me address a few things in your comments tho ...
      I'm a scientist and engineer by background ... I've built things for people who then own those things for many years and yet they don't know much about their inner workings ... most guys know little about their inner workings and women are no different ...
      However I put my point and objections across terribly and I completely understand your tone in your replies ...
      just know that in my humble experience and serious studies into the subject of vaginal and anal expansion contraction triggers size stretchability etc I've discovered that when I massage the area with my fingers past and behind the cervix that deepest part of the vaginal passage starts to open and expand ... there's gentle or heavy cycle convulsions usually with some or a lot of orgasming ... my whole hand is sucked in then easily even by first timers and the cervix finds itself down near my wrist .... I learned this by accident ... probably trying I find safe ways to squeeze my other bit in and have it enjoyable for all or simply give up having sex ...
      at my size there's no room for theories or failure ... and if I fail with my hands my cock stays away ...
      This isn't arrogant and my first post was and it was terrible ... for that I apologise
      Lastly just take a peak at some Mandingo Porn ... or good girl on girl fisting ... just as an example of how deep things can get ...
      with no arousal or just surface emotional sexual arousal ( no deep cycle contractions ) that cervix does reside around 4 to 5 inches in ... and often in the way of deeper penetration ... but it's not the end I promise u ... there's a whole world of pleasure to be discovered past there ... and it stretches with the right non forceful persuasion like most wouldn't believe .... everyone I've ever been with has almost always been shocked ...
      it's just one of many many amazing things about our sexual world ... not the be all and end all .... just another fantastic dimension ... xo
      >4w
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  • johnandaimee

    johnandaimee
    Account closed

    any cock less than 8 inch is a waste of time.
    a 'man' with anything less isn't a man. it just a pathetic excuse for one.
    Any man less than 8 inches should voluntarily cease all sexual contact and should be sterilise so that in the future these disgusting and useless penises are breed out of existence.
    Any woman that says different is a lier
    >4w
    • Mischeviouslad

      Mischeviouslad
      53M Lane Cove, NSW,
       AU

      Classy. Written by the Mr, withy delusions of adequacy, no doubt
      >4w
    • johnandaimee

      johnandaimee
      Account closed

      my "Mr" isn't even close to being 8 inch else I wouldn't need to be on here. Just amazing how many of you guys believe that a small dick is anything but pathetic
      >4w
    • DeliciousEva

      DeliciousEva
      48F Reservoir, VIC,
       AU

      And here, ladies and gentlemen, we have exhibit A in the "why men and women have such shame and embarrassment about their bodies and the global lack of understanding that every single person in this world is different and likes different things" conversation.
      All class. And perhaps a little bit of anger? Why so angry if your Mr M has the perfect penis for you? Should it even matter what other people have or want?
      lol
      Carry on.
      >4w
    • Leolady727

      Leolady727
      Account closed

      You have a real problem, lady - don't take it out on the men because YOU have issues with being satisfied. I actually prefer a small to average cock - the old saying "it's not what you have, it's way you use it" is very true
      >4w
    • Tkbsee

      Tkbsee
      Account closed

      Wtf is this person on the planet anyone with a brain that small is an invitation for retrospective abortion
      I feel....
      >4w
    • Tkbsee

      Tkbsee
      Account closed

      So your profile list your guy as 6-7 inches is he to be sterilised and or euthanised for it or are you just shxt stirring?
      >4w
    • Melody2973

      Melody2973
      Account closed

      All class NOT :)))))
      >4w
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      ispywithmy
      40M Footscray, VIC,
       AU

      I would love to know how you were able to have children with your 'pathetic excuse for a man''? As apon viewing is penis, I would assumed you would have insisted that he cease all sexual activity? I think this is the ramblings of some kind of a dom..
      >4w
    • MtgShadow

      MtgShadow
      Account closed

      Isn't it gr8 that even rude people get to have their say and then we know to stay clear of them. Aimee you would have to be one of the rudest people to have ever been in this forum. Good luck finding what you need after everyone reads your comments.
      >4w
    • davidbowie80

      davidbowie80
      Account closed

      Maybe get a mirror before making such ridiculous comments..
      >4w
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      oralexpertise
      58M Newtown, NSW,
       AU

      ouch...id hate too land in bed with this chick...then again....I doubt ill run into her round vaucluse !
      >4w
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      jenoo1
      41M Sinnamon Park, QLD,
       AU

      She must have a very loose pussy anyway.
      >4w
    • COOLEURO

      COOLEURO
      Account closed

      OMG what a disrespectful bitch , I don't fall into the less than 8 category but I still feel offended by her comments. You ain't getting mine no chance ,
      >4w
    • cooltimes62

      cooltimes62
      62M Melbourne, VIC,
       AU

      Yes you would hate my cock and I would hate your saggy small tits. Poor John!
      >4w
    • GregKath2013

      GregKath2013
      Account closed

      Funny very witty!
      >4w
    • Footlongnfat

      Footlongnfat
      Account closed

      I think all of us disagreeing and misunderstanding each other on somebody biology and finer points just found some massive common ground ... huge tiny and everything in between is part of the human tapestry that is all enjoyable to different people in different ways ... and regardless of taste be it penis size boob size body size shape etc colour creed background nothing at all of that nature should ever be attached to anyone's worth as a human being ...
      but this persons approach to other people might go close to being a starting point determining human value ...
      >4w
    • FiftyOneShades

      FiftyOneShades
      Account closed

      And this, people, is what's known as misandry.
      >4w
    • SilverValentina

      SilverValentina
      55M 52F Brisbane, QLD,
       AU

      Wow Wow Wow, It must be so great to be the perfect specimen of a human being.
      >4w
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    Rockyman1960
    56M Mackay, QLD,
     AU

    My experience has been - and I have a cock on the upper end of average - that women enjoy a good hard cock that is used well and that they can use as they wish be it in hands, mouth, pussy or wherever ....
    >4w
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  • MsConqupiscence

    MsConqupiscence
    44F Morisset, NSW,
     AU

    this is my fave article so far. spot on!
    >4w
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  • Lord Richard

    Lord Richard
    67M Kempsey, NSW,
     AU

    Hi as a gay guy and a confirmed bottom. Its not size of a cock its how they use it and if your really turned on well whoosh it feels awesome. I did have many years ago a 12in cock. the guy was stunning to look at, great attitude and new how to use it. I just love cock simple as that. Great article, cheers.
    >4w
    • allinmymind

      allinmymind
      61F Wodonga, VIC,
       AU

      Come on, you are on the bottom, you are turned on, I'm sure I've been there, apart from lining it up what is there about using it? We didn't mention know how to use it, so apart from that it would be all the same. Oh you did say that in the end.
      >4w
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  • Tkbsee

    Tkbsee
    Account closed

    Cock ? Is he a good kisser attentive caring and hard for the lady and passionate
    That's it for me.....
    >4w
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  • Amante.

    Amante.
    49F Adelaide, SA,
     AU

    Good kisser, personal hygiene, attentive, prepared for lots of foreplay, will listen and learn about what I like then we will have some fun..., if they have 6-8 inches with good girth =bonus.
    >4w
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  • Melody2973

    Melody2973
    Account closed

    Aren't all that if they person has no idea how to fuck :)), I don't think having a large ' cock ' guarantees that he'll be a great shag that's for sure :)
    >4w
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  • lotharia

    lotharia
    Account closed

    Big is my preference but not a necessity. The one crucial thing is that the guy stays HARD. I've screamed my head off over 5" and 12" and everything in between.
    In response to the post regarding not seeing anything over 9 inches, I have to say the the 12's are out there albeit rare.
    >4w
    • jrsnjgs

      jrsnjgs
      Account closed

      you are ride staying in the saddle is the main thing as the chick rides it out to exhaustion, satisfaction and an untroubled sleep
      >4w
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  • inot69

    inot69
    49F Kensington, VIC,
     AU

    For me it's not about the size it's about the whole package ... not just being fucked but having them make love to you .... (but in saying that a really good quick hard fuck is good to some time ...lol ) most men need to learn how to use their tongue as well as their dicks for me.
    >4w
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  • KonkeyDong69

    KonkeyDong69
    Account closed

    its a case of each to their own....some women prefer larger cock, some men prefer big boobs, some men prefer blondes, some women prefer beards, etc etc..... there is no right or wrong on this... we are who we are, we either float your boat or we don't... would be a pretty boring world if we all liked and enjoyed the exact same things in life... just smile and be happy
    >4w
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    1234ethan
    49M Wollongong, NSW,
     AU

    I'm about 7.5" long which I thought was the average? I'm very thick though at 7" girth. I find most women prefer the girth, the full stretched feeling gets them off. To be honest I'd prefer to be smaller, 6.5" long and 5.5" girth seems to be what most women are happy with. Thinner might get me some anal action to! (with a woman).
    >4w
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  • justforfun558

    justforfun558
    Account closed

    I have met many men, and I can say most of the men have "smaller than average" cocks and smaller than what they would like to believe. I guess the average is 7-8 inches, but many men have much smaller than that. I have had the pleasure to have a couple of men with 10 inchers, but I can tell you that when they thrust that into you really hard, it can actually hurt a bit.
    >4w
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  • justforfun558

    justforfun558
    Account closed

    Also wanted to add, that a lot of men tell me they are not that big, but they are thick. Hmmmm. I've had such a thick cock once I couldn't even put it in my mouth, true. But the sex was terrible. However, if you click sexually with the guy and are having fun, size won't matter much.
    >4w
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    Amber6363
    47F 49M Thornbury, VIC,
     AU

    My man's sexy cock is 6.5" of perfection and makes me cum hard everytime..... I can deepthroat it , take it all in my ass and have it slam my pussy for hours..............as an allrounder nothing compares!!!!! Biggest cock I've had was a thick 9".........beautiful to look at and play with .......to big to suck properly and only missionary had to stop him to painful ......he watched my man Fuk me and pulled his big cock and then cum all over my face
    >4w
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    Dexter0007
    51M Castle Hill, QLD,
     AU

    Women all tell me they love thick cocks in lucky to have both
    >4w
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  • ShadowSheWolf89

    ShadowSheWolf89
    Account closed

    This right here!!! And guys it's true. It's all about the foreplay. Work on that and worry about how big your dick is if it comes up. If you can take your time in foreplay and make me cum I'll keep coming back
    >4w
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  • Thursdaynights

    Thursdaynights
    Account closed

    Not sure why this is being discussed in imperial and not metric. Im 18cm. Not sure what that equates to inches, but Ive never had any complaints.
    >4w
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  • 88Goddess88

    88Goddess88
    46F Sydney, NSW,
     AU

    “Penis shmenis. Can they use their tongue?” This is me ;)
    >4w
    Reply
  • gang.bang.boys5

    gang.bang.boys5
    Account closed

    I have been holding gang bang parties for over 20 years, I've seen more erect cocks than you would believe and way more than the average woman will see in a lifetime. And I have yet to see anyone with a 10 inch cock! I've had thousands of guys claim to be over 9 inches but when they showed up they were measuring from there ass. About now the braggers are rushing to reply. So I throw up a simple challenge, We all have a phone with a camera and some thing to measure with, post one, just one pic of your cock with the measure on the up side, not from your balls. Back in the 90s I ran a challenge a reverse gang bang for any guy who could prove it, 5 sexy ladies, I am still waiting for a single guy to step up. Seriously cock length is like height, you see people 5 feet tall and 6 feet tall even six foot 6, see someone 8 feet tall you will notice and 10 feet lol. Any way I know there will be a lot of "I have a huge cock" replies, if you don't have a phone with a camera borrow one. My cock pics on my profile and its average and proud :)
    >4w
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  • Valleyguy44

    Valleyguy44
    53M Chinchilla, QLD,
     AU

    Well I'm just on 6in (measured properly) and I have always thought I was small. However I have always been able to satisfy every partner every time because what I thought I lacked in size I would make up for with imagination, attention and enthusiasm. I've also had a few women try and enjoy anal for the first time so it's not all bad lol
    >4w
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