This is an excerpt from The Essential Guide for Adventurous Couples, the most comphrehensive up the minute manual on swinging ever!

So there are a range of toys out there that stimulates clits at the same time as our partner fucks us. They are relatively inexpensive and are just about guaranteed to have you initiating sex, not him.

There are some surprising men’s explanations of what testosterone does to them and the influence it has on their genitals. I believe them. (After all, someone had to think up all the jokes). These are their tales.

Traditionally, female sluts are admired by men and loathed by women, and male sluts are loathed by women and admired by men. Yet a change is occurring and we are beginning to relish just how good a clitoris can make you feel.

Imagine her lying in your bed, damp hair askew and begging you to fuck her again. Sounds more fairy tale than fantasy, doesn’t it? Not any more.

Now, with the right questions and the ability to type, you can discover blokes on your wavelength without ever leaving your living room through online dating.

Most girls I know get hundreds of responses to their online dating profiles. But with a little forward planning and some artful cut and pasting, here's how to find her the easy way!

We all strive towards equality in our relationships and yet double standards are rife among the best of them. We all know that men have sex on the brain but a man who says ‘no’ can often be met with frank disbelief or even ridicule.

Once regarded as the last bastion of gay men, male arseholes are making a comeback. I have it on very good authority that prostate stimulation feels like ‘a long, continuous orgasm’ and is on par with – if not better – than ejaculation.

Should swingers tell their children? And if so, when should they tell them? What impact could it have on them? And is there an advantage to having swinging parents? I say there is but you’re going to have to read more to find out why…