Top 5 Sex Positions to Make Your Penis Feel Bigger

Man and woman snuggled under a doona smiling at each other

Look, we say it a lot, and will reiterate it here, penis size is not as important as “they” like to make it out to be. You know “they”. The mysterious voice of authority that tells us not to swim after eating and that a hot curry will induce an overdue birth… Not so much an authority, but a tired repeating of old wives bullshit that isn’t actually steeped in any science or fact… They.

Well they’re mostly wrong about a lot of things and “Girls Only Love Men With Big Cocks” is up there with the best of them. Yes, many girls like big cocks, and many girls enjoy that full or stretched feeling, but that doesn’t necessarily mean you need to have a big ol’ monster cock to achieve it. In fact a lot of girls prefer a smaller penis the majority of the time, but still may occasionally want that little bit extra for a bit of a change.

We’ve come up with a few positions and tricks that can help create those feelings and sensations, even if you’re not as endowed as you think you should be.

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Lay Down Doggy With Pillows

This is one of our favourites for so many reasons. It’s achievable by almost anyone, and by that we mean old or young (it’s gentle on dodgy knees and joints), big or small (it doesn’t require flat bellies to be enjoyed), kinky or vanilla (add ropes and cuffs and spanks if you wanna).

She lies down flat on her belly but with one or two pillows just under her belly/mons pubis. This raises her hips and butt and gives her vagina a great angle for him to slide into. Because her chest is down but her butt is up, this creates an angle and tightness to her vagina that allows the penis to be enveloped tightly and feel, for both parties, thicker and deeper.

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Splitting The Bamboo

This is a kind of scissoring position that allows for deep penetration and good control of the penis. It’s a little bit like missionary with a twist and comes from the Kama Sutra, but isn’t too twisty or difficult to get into at all. She lies on her back with one leg straight and the other raised in the air. He straddles the thigh that is on the bed, sliding into her while holding her other leg up on his chest/shoulder. It sounds a lot more awkward than it is, and because he is holding up her leg, it’s not all that uncomfortable to hold for longer sessions. It allows him to enter her a lot more deeply than just basic missionary, and can give the illusion of length where there might not be as much.

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Reverse Cowgirl with Pillows

Another of our favourite positions! The girl on top but facing away position is brilliant for both sensations and visual treats. If you place a couple of pillows under his butt, this raises his hips and penis up to her even more and gives a fuller, deeper feeling than if he was to just lie flat, and as she has the control of movement, it allows her to fill herself up as she pleases. This also works in front facing cowgirl, but doesn’t have quite the same deepness and angle as facing the other way gives.

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Anal Sex

This is not a position or sexual act for everyone, but it is definitely more popular, or at least more widely spoken about these days and is important to put here because of that. Also the anal passage is always going to be tighter and less elastic than the vaginal one, so for that ultimate feeling in fullness and depth, anal sex - with any sized penis - is going to achieve that. Two different suggestions that come up a lot for anal sex are these:

Missionary Anal: In the Missionary position, with her on her back and him on top, but the penis entering the anus instead. It is a little bit awkward, especially for her keeping her legs and butt in the right position, but can be a lot of fun and super sexy if anal is your thing.

Sphinx Position (pictured): This is a sort of lowered Doggy style with her down on her belly with one leg around to the side (a bit like a frog’s leg), and the other stretched out straight behind her. He then lies down over the straightened leg, lying low down with his belly against the small of her back, entering her from behind and at a slight angle as he’s straddling her leg. It’s great for both anal and vaginal sex.

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Jockey

Another great rear entry position, Jockey is a sort of blend of Doggy and Sphinx and is a great position for women who may like to be a little more passive, during sex, and for men who like to touch skin. Basically you get in the position you’d most likely get into if he was giving her a back massage. Her on her belly, legs straight behind her, and him straddling over her closed legs, sitting just below her butt so his hands can be in the ideal place for a back rub… Then, with her legs still closed, he enters her from behind. It’s great for that tight feeling for both him and her and the closed legs adds to the squeeze around his cock, and he has all the control of movement and depth so should be able to keep good control without slipping out.

Pumps and Sleeves and Extensions, Oh My!

There is absolutely nothing wrong with using enhancements in your sex life to add to or improve the way you fuck. When it comes to getting a bigger or thicker penis there are a few non medical things you can use that can help, and should not be associated at all with shame or “not being good enough”. A basic cock ring can help create a thicker penis just from the restriction of blood flow, as can a penis pump. These are not permanent solutions but they can work for the short term and I have had excellent feedback from men who have used them. Then there are penis sleeves and extenders that you slip on your cock like a thick condom which can add length and girth and change up the way you play and how it all feels.

Like we said at the beginning, penis size isn’t the be all and end all of good sex, and there are plenty of articles and blogs on AMM that prove just that. But there is also nothing wrong with wanting to change up your love making and experience new and different sensations too. Whatever your size, and whatever your sexual preference and how you play, there are ways and means to get there, no matter what. 

What are some of your favourite positions?

18 comments

  • i99i99

    i99i99

    More than a month ago

    Great Read from my eyes ( The male ) like the rule, that all ladies squirt - that old chestnut debate again they say lol.... I will settle it as its true but 1st let me say this...we all can fuck - its a adult web site not a knitting class.... lol

    So in out up down moan every 3rd breath - oh feels great don't stop - well stop right there ppl! See the biggest and most aroused sexual organ in the body is the Brain ( the 1 up stairs fellas this time lol ) Capture that persons mind as a single Female/male or couple and the rest well is history they say and trust as well.... then look what just happened...is that a wet bed sheet..
    till then
    Have fun in the water park
    Mark

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  • cs4some

    cs4some

    More than a month ago

    Yes I have done all these with my husband and fuck buddies and there all great sexual arousing positions. I'm not a really into big cocks and find anywhere from 4-6'' is comfortable for me. I have always said that its not the size of the penis its how you use it guys.

    • xpac1954

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      More than a month ago

      Have to agree with you about size cs4some. it all seems to be about bigger the better but as you say its how you use it.............

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  • barkly48

    barkly48

    More than a month ago

    In a past life the "split the bamboo" (I now have a name for it!!), was great... When she was aroused, she would get very wet, (like BNL19 below), and that made it all the better... She preferred very slow strokes, me coming right out and with her natural lube I would slide my shaved balls along her thigh. Then slowly slide up and penetrate her to my full length... When she came, she would arch her back and come over and over, getting wetter and wetter... definitely needed the towels... Ahhhh memories!!!

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  • April4986

    April4986

    More than a month ago

    A really great article! Lots of good advice and illustrations. Thank you!

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  • BareNakedLady19

    BareNakedLady19

    More than a month ago

    I really enjoyed this article and also the illustrations - this helps SO much for so many people to be able to visualise how to achieve the positions you are talking about.
    Personally I'm not actually a woman who is focussed on the 'size' of a cock.
    I'd like for this not to sound cliche` however so bear with me!
    To begin with, I've found that the 'average' sized erect penis in my experience has been around 5-6 inches in length. I believe that the smallest erect penis I've ever had was about 4 inches in length.
    My personal preference falls somewhere around 6-7 and a half maybe - because that's what comfortably fits inside my vagina!!
    AND, importantly to me, it's also a length that is achievable to have pleasurable anal sex! I can take the length of a 5/6-inch cock up my arse but maybe only the tip of a 8/9 incher!! (Poor 7 - I have no clue lol)
    This is where it gets complex but it's probably the most important part of all of the whole experience for me, and that is - foreplay.
    Pure and simple worship and pleasure.
    I'm open to also introducing enhancing products for the purpose of my partner feeling more confident in himself and comfortable.
    The deal breaker for me with any sexual partner is if you're a lousy, selfish lover, you're not going to last - no matter how long or thick your cock is!

    Anyway, I really enjoyed the article, thank you again!
    BNL x

    **Edited to add - I am an exceptionally well self-lubricated woman when I am aroused. It also doesn't take much for my mind to allow me to become aroused and I can often find that my juices are dripping from me.
    This means I am very slippery and I DO wonder, in some instances, if this might cause an issue with a partner not so well endowed and this is why I think that if and when in this situation that some sort of 'help' is required. I cannot actually control my wetness but like mentioned, there are enhancing products which can help in this type of situation.
    I'm mentioning this particularly because I think that it's worth mentioning to those who are in the position where they don't feel they have the hugest cock - sometimes, it's actually not about the size of your cock at all and in fact, it's about how wet she is and how slippery it is lol

    • Zamboon

      Zamboon

      More than a month ago

      Thankyou BNL - your honesty and directness are refreshingly wonderful or should that be is wonderful- you’re a treasure...

    • friskypuz

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      More than a month ago

      Great comments BNL, Had a read of your profile as well, fist bump to you.. Saying it how it is.. You go girl.. ;)

    • BareNakedLady19

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      More than a month ago

      Zamboon, thank you very much for such kind words! I surely must be a treasure - you made me feel like a gem :)

      Friskypuz, thank you also for your lovely comments - most sincerely appreciated! xox

    • xpac1954

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      More than a month ago

      Well explained BNL

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  • CopperTop111

    CopperTop111

    More than a month ago

    Good article.. Can you tell more on cock rings...I'm post prostate cancer n my limited erections ( if you can call it that anymore) aren't anywhere what they were.. Been told try a cock ring.. not having much success... maybe using it wrong.. Help please.

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  • friskypuz

    friskypuz

    More than a month ago

    Prefer width to length..

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  • Slverwolf

    Slverwolf

    More than a month ago

    G-whiz , doggy, seashell, stand and deliver are all really good

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  • Adventureman4u

    Adventureman4u

    More than a month ago

    Yes, love the Jockey position, that a good one.

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  • SweetDesire26

    SweetDesire26

    More than a month ago

    Oh my God love this article and yes its right I do all these positions and are favourites , I am a big cock lover but have had smaller guys achieve these better sometimes ,love the feeling of being full and stretched .

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      Justforfundj

      More than a month ago

      Oh we love your expression

    • partyready1

      partyready1

      More than a month ago

      I think I would be right up your ally then... and local

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