Do I have to be like a Porn Star in the Bedroom?

12 November 2010
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This is the unspoken question that many people have when it comes to swinging. We tend to compare ourselves to what we see on the x-rated screen and it can have a big impact on a person’s confidence and subsequent willingness to get into swinging. This article will put to bed some of those fears… if you let it!

Swinging and Religion: Why you shouldn't feel guilty!

08 January 2010
God apparently created us and he/she/it created us with desires and the ability to love whole heartedly. Why would we be created this way if we had to suppress any part of who we are, what we desire or who we love? This article is about questioning where some religious beliefs and values came from and asks you to decide if they are still valid for you today.

Coming out of the Swinging Closet

08 January 2010
For some people who to tell isn’t an issue but there are certainly things that need to be considered before you tell people about your erotic lifestyle. While some people will be in awe of what you get up to, not everyone is as open minded and once your secret is out, it’s out, there is no going back.

How Swinging Parents can manage their own Playtime!

09 December 2009
If you’re a parent or considering becoming one, and you still want to swing then check out this article which has some handy hints and tips on how you can continue your swinging adventure while keeping the kids in the dark and out of your play space.

Are We Naturally Monogamous?

09 December 2009
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Are we naturally monogamous or are we naturally swingers? Can we love more than one person at once? Or are we just stuck in old traditions that have been passed down through the generations that we’ve never questioned if they are relevant for ourselves? I have a strong opinion on this one so I suggest read at your own risk

The Secret to Dealing with Playmate Jealousy!

23 November 2009
When you say jealousy in the swinging world, the first kind most people think of is the jealousy you’d find between the people in the couple, but that’s not the only place it rears it’s ugly head and it can catch unsuspecting couples by surprise…

Cheating vs Swinging

23 November 2009
Swinging is almost cheating with permission but there isn’t automatic permission for everything and in this relationship dynamic there isn’t much room for making mistakes. Read this article for a clearer understanding of where that line is and what you can do to make sure it’s not crossed, after all, you want to keep enjoying the freedom of having new toys!

Explore your Sexuality through the Swinging Scene

23 November 2009
The swinging scene has more to offer than just opportunities for couples to explore sex, it opens so many more doors that new couples may not have considered. Exploring sexuality is a popular door that opens for many and sometimes it’s a surprising adventure.