Couples Reveal Their Sex Count To Each Other

We loved this video which features couples having to guess the number of sexual partners they think their partners have had … and then finding out if they were right! 

We don’t believe that the number of partners you’ve had should define you and you can read more from our resident Psychologist in this article.

What’s your number, and have you shared it honestly with your sexual partners?

40 Comments

  • Aloha19
    More than a month ago

    If you ever make the mistake of asking a chick her number, multiply her answer by at least a factor of two, usually three, and you'll be somewhere close to the truth.

    • Account Closed
      More than a month ago

      My ex wife said exactly that women say what ever number and times it by three lol

  • Aloha19
    More than a month ago

    A key that can open many locks is a master key.
    A lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock.

  • robros3
    More than a month ago

    Well Rob here Id rather be with someone who puts out and about Rather than the lady Im with who dose not do it at all Then again she did work as a pro for seven years( So maybe used it all up) and I think I am Henry the eighth in normal relationship status ie not paid or paying LOL
    All I can add is GO FOR IT HAVE SAFE FUN lifes to short to get your nickers in a twist over such matters

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    beachcpl1977
    More than a month ago

    does it really matter how many as long as you have both had fun and enjoyed. as much as some comments here say i love knowing my partner has more men and actually enjoy hearing about her experiences!

  • HeadDownBumUp
    More than a month ago

    Who cares how many play friends a woman has had...as long as she did it for herself first & foremost and enjoyed herself....all I'd really hope for is if I was one of the ones that was at least memorable! lol

    Live, laugh, Play!

  • MandyMaree2973
    More than a month ago

    There is no way I’d ever tell a guy this, I’ve spoken to enough men to know they don’t think highly of a woman that has a ‘ large ‘ count, think what you will but yeah.

    Thankfully mines not up there but I really don’t think it’s somethimg that needs to be discussed :)

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      MsCupCake
      More than a month ago

      I'm with you there Mandy !
      Everybody screams for discretion but very few really understand what it means .....
      I have never, and will never reveal how many people I have been with ... it is no one's business but my own.

      One of the biggest turn offs for me is a guy discussing his previous relationships - I couldn't give two hoots who he has been with and what he has done, I never ask, and he shouldn't worry about mine.

      Despite what men say, there is still that double standard of "men are studs" and "women are sluts" ..... men still look for "nice girls" when choosing a long term partner but usually end up sexually dissatisfied and looking for greener grass ..... go figure. lol

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      Zamboon
      More than a month ago

      I grew up with a lot of Jewish friends but the one thing I noticed was that the guys would date and play with gentile girls and it was always understood that they would marry Jewish girls when they were done screwing around ...

  • Leolady727
    More than a month ago

    Hmmm, never kept count but, having been in the swinging lifestyle for 20 years the numbers would be up there. Out and proud slut ;-)

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      Zamboon
      More than a month ago

      Love your attitude

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      beachcpl1977
      More than a month ago

      u gotta love a proud confident woman *S*

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    Rubylicious333
    More than a month ago

    At 37 years of age, I had only slept with 3 men;. my first husband, my 2nd husband and a guy I had an affair with whilst nearing the end of my 2nd marriage.
    I'm now 50, and to be honest, I've had the most amazing sexual experiences with lots of different men and couples. My count is way over 200 - I stopped counting a few years ago!
    What I would like to know is, what do men think of a woman that has had so many sexual partners? I mean men are usually seen as studs for how many women they've had, but does anyone think that a woman who has had many sexual partners is seen as a slut or cheap??

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      Zamboon
      More than a month ago

      I think it’s wonderful and sexy that you’ve had so many guys and that you love sex so much - I think some guys would hope that you enjoy them and that you wouldn’t be comparing them against someone you had had before - but that’s just something they have to be mature enough to get over and anyway you don’t need to tell them how many certainly not in the beginning- that’s simply your business , and your choice - don’t feel bad about it and don’t let anyone else make you feel bad about it - all those experiences have made you who you are and if someone likes you for who you are then what’s the problem... and stay away from immature and jealous people- be well you lovely lady...

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      greg61
      More than a month ago

      No, it does not matter Ms Rubilicious. Why be hung up by numbers ? It's the experience of sharing that matters most. If a relationship forms, surely it more about the connection and intamacy together rather than how many have come before.

    • Account Closed
      More than a month ago

      Good on you
      You go girl enjoy while you can
      You need to do what you need to do
      It my eyes you are a stud
      Enjoy

    • Account Closed
      More than a month ago

      Yeah they do, I’ve had men say that to me when we’ve discussed this topic. Not about how many I’ve slept with, I wouldn’t discuss it with a guy anyway but they’ve indicated they’d fuck a woman like that but they’d never date her :) depends what you want I guess :)

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      FarNorthSAcple
      More than a month ago

      Just a number, there is no substitute for experience. :)

    • Account Closed
      More than a month ago

      As long as you play safe and have consensual fun. More experience, more adventurous, no jealousy.

    • IWANTU.2
      More than a month ago

      Slut or cheap?? Hell NO. A lady who is sexually active is a most desirable partner be it either short or long term. Most males once they have had intercourse with a woman seem to develop a possessive attitude leading to a jealous attitude causing the majority of problems. This seems to stem from the fact it is much easier for a lady to get laid than a man. Once a male gets past this jealous attitude and accepts a sexually active lady for what she is, and embraces it, then the whole partnership attitude changes - your body is your own and belongs to no one else - if 2 people decide to enter a monogamous relationship then let it be for the right reasons and if they decide that a monogamous relationship is not their ideal then as long as jealousy does not rear it's ugly head to my way of thinking this is ideal - who gives a damn how many guys she may have fucked this is her experience and she brings this to the relationship . Ricky1610

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      beachcpl1977
      More than a month ago

      like so many replies have stated its just a number and if your life is better for yr experiences then go for it... I would be far more attracted to a woman like you then a girl who has not experienced life *S*

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      dazdragonn
      More than a month ago

      i would much prefer a woman who has a lot of experience compared to one who doesnt have that much

  • ISX600
    More than a month ago

    How Lucky are some !

  • CentralWestCpl
    More than a month ago

    I have to thank AMM, and some wonderful women who introduced me to swinging, for getting my count up over 100. I had been in a monogamous marriage for decades so had a low count from my youth until well into my 40s. I have certainly made up for it since. And I am pleased to say regular health checks have found no STDs. A compliment to my willing and able partners along with a common sense approach to safe sex. Especially to my lovely lady partner x x

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    1DoorMan
    More than a month ago

    got to say consenting sexual partners over 800 may be 1000 whose counting.

    • Account Closed
      More than a month ago

      Really ???, I’m not sure I’d want to know that about you but each to their own I guess :)

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      1DoorMan
      More than a month ago

      It's only a estimate

    • Funguynotfungi
      More than a month ago

      Weird statement......... How many Non consenting partners?

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      1DoorMan
      More than a month ago

      Funquynotfungi all consented you dont know me and I respect women.You can ask her my partner is standing by my side.

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    Zamboon
    More than a month ago

    I did a count a while ago and it came close to 300 although during a period of my life I was super busy and had no time for dating so I used to see have a relationship with massage therapists which I know doesn’t count but that probably made up for about 50 - and it was a great arrangement- I could tell them things about myself that no one else ever knew and we got to know each other and phone on birthdays etc and of course they knew what I liked so sometimes I cringe but other times I remember them with great fondness ...

  • Ilikemengc
    More than a month ago

    Like the dude said .. after a certain number the count becomes hazy .... lol. I stopped counting after about 1,000 :)

  • BurningDesirez
    More than a month ago

    No one has ever asked me. But.... 111

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      Zamboon
      More than a month ago

      You good thing ... did you cut notches in the bedpost ? ;)

    • Account Closed
      More than a month ago

      No. Kept their names on my phone. Lol

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      Zamboon
      More than a month ago

      Always scared of a pocket phone call ...

    • looking70s
      More than a month ago

      I'd be your 112th lol

    • Account Closed
      More than a month ago

      Interesting

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      Zamboon
      More than a month ago

      I’d be very lucky if that happened...

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      Zacari27
      More than a month ago

      Love your smile ..

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