Boobs! How good are they! Not only do they feed and nourish us when we are new to the world, and look awesome in certain types of clothing and designs, they can also be sources of great pleasure and eroticism. There are so many fun and exciting things you can do with breasts and there are even some people who can orgasm directly from nipple and breast stimulation!
Like all people and bodies, every breast you'll come across (no pun intended, really!) is different and will react and respond differently, but the good news is it can be a lot of fun working it all out and exploring the sensations you can give and receive from concentrating on pleasuring the boob.
We've come up with four really simple and effective little tips and tricks you can do to maximise boob pleasure and improve your bedroom skills.
1. Breasts Are Not Just A Nipple
This is, I think, a really important thing to understand and realise. Yes, that perky, pinky brown nub is the centrepiece, but it is not the be all and end all of breast stimulation. In fact, for some people, direct nipple stimulation (especially without a warm up) can be sensitive to the point of painful and uncomfortable. Take your time to kiss, and stroke, and touch all around her breasts, along the sides, on the so-soft-it's-almost-like-air under skin, even the areola (the coloured bit around the nipple), before you even attempt to bring the nipple into it. If she's someone who has super sensitive nipples she will appreciate the care you've taken to warm her up and not dive right in, and if she's someone who craves that nipple touch... well, just imagine how much she'll crave it if you touch everything but it for a while.
2. Warm Chocolate Sauce
Or caramel, or strawberry, or whatever flavour takes your fancy really. All you need is regular ice cream topping and a microwave. Make sure the sauce isn't too hot because ouch, and drizzle it over the breasts and nipple. The sensation of that thick, warm gooey sauce is incredible, and match that with a hungry, slurpy tongue and the kissing licks of your partner's mouth, and you could end up being one of those lucky nipple orgasm people!
3. Ice Cubes
Like the chocolate sauce, going to your kitchen for kinky accessories is so much fun and super cheap too! This is a really fun and sexy way to play with breasts (and for the kinkier of us out there, is even better when matched with hand cuffs or restraints and blindfolds) and is a phenomenal and practically fail-safe way to get the nipples as hard and as sensitive as possible. The icy cool of an ice cube, matched with the eager hotness of your mouth, can illicit the most amazing and opposite sensations.
4. Clamps, And Clips and Chains, Oh My!
Before you go covering your nipples and running away saying “nuh-uh I don't think so!”, let me reassure you that not all clips and clamps and chains need to be as hardcore as fetish pictures and porn can make it out to be. There are so many things you can use and buy and play with to add extra sensation to your nipples, and they really don't have to be that scary. Nearly all clamps etc that you can buy are adjustable so you can have them as tight or as loose as you like, and just the act of having something lightly attached to them can make all the difference in sensation play.
The main thing to remember is that breasts can be just as erotic and sensitive to some people as their clitoris or penis, and that learning how your partner likes to be touched is the key to a happy and satisfying sex life to you both. It's important to always communicate your wants and desires, and act and listen accordingly, and remember to have fun, be safe, and always have consent.