5 Sex Accessories you need in Your Bedroom

We're all for innovation here at Adult Match Maker and we love how many wild and whacky implements, and toys and sex enhancers you can get into. We love suggesting different products and items we think you might enjoy, so here are some cool things you should definitely consider adding to your sex box that aren't sex toys as such, but are guaranteed to ramp up your play sessions.

Sex Swings

While yes, in the past many sex swings were a little industrial and may have needed you to connect an obvious D bolt to a supporting beam in your bedroom, these days there are far more subtle products that no one will ever know you own. The most popular of these are the over-the-door swings that use a weighted system to hang over a bedroom door and, as flimsy as you may think they look, can be super strong and some can take up to 150 kilos! There are also free standing ones in quick to put together frames, and all of them can change the way you play. The feeling of weightlessness as you're brought to orgasm, the gentle sway as hands touch and explore. The feeling of restriction if you're into that. Yeah, sex swings are awesome, and you may be surprised at how affordable some of them are.

Our pick: Sportsheets Sex Swing Door Jam Kit

Sex Pillows & Wedges

Obviously you can use your own pillows to wedge under your body, and that can work just fine, but sex specific pillows and wedges really do work a whole lot better. This is because they've been designed specifically to contour to the body rather than the head, and are usually made of much firmer foams so they keep their shape no matter how heavy or vigorous the person using them is. They're often also covered with waterproof material to avoid sex wetness to permeate into the pillow itself, and you can use them for a myriad of sex positions and experiences. They're also brilliant for people who want to get into certain positions but can't due to lower mobility, age or disability as they can take the weight off areas that hurt, and comfort areas that need it. They come in a variety of shapes and sizes too so you can find the exact one you need for the positions you want.

Our pick: Liberator Sex Position Wedge

Bondage Sheets

How good is a bit of bondage. Whether you're into soft play or hard play, one of the first things we normally do in a session like this is get out the wrist and ankle restraints to get our lover exactly where we need them... Well forget the time consuming fore-foreplay of rummaging around for ropes or ties, and fiddling with knots and bedposts, and getting the tightness just right... Bondage sheets, sports sheets or under mattress restraints are the solution to all of that. Specially made sheets (in all bed sizes) that have built in ties and Velcro removable straps and all the good tie me up, tie me down stuff you need right there, on the sheet or attached to the mattress ready for you to use. They're sturdy, strong and affordable and can be found at your local adult shop.

Our pick: Bondage Boutique Black Rose Under Mattress Restraint Kit

Spreader Bar

For those who like unrestricted access, and their lovers open for anything, a spreader bar is a great start. A thick, solid bar between two ankle cuffs keeps the legs open, and the treasure between fully accessible. For kinksters, or even for those who need a little stabilising of the leg shakes if held open in one position for too long, these are a super well priced and come in a whole range of styles. Some, for example, can even attach the wrists for some bent-over, legs-wide fun, and some can attach to the thighs. There are heavy duty dungeon looking ones, and far less confronting frilly and fluffy ones. The only thing you need to do is open wide and let the fun begin...

Our pick: Sportsheets Expandable Spreader Bar and Cuffs

Fun n Games

If you've ever been into an adult shop you've probably seen their novelty shelf.  Often littered with pink stuff for bachelorette parties, like penis straws and Bride-To-Be sashes, but they almost always will also have a range of games. From board games to card games and fun roll the dice games, a little box of fun and funky sex games can be a fun way to start a play night with your partner, or even a great ice breaker for those new to meeting couples and swingers. They're usually super cheap and often a little bit naff, but with a bit of imagination and sexy innovation you can make up your own rules and ways to play and turn it into a fun and funny night of laughs, confessions, sex, and sexiness. 

Our picks: Assorted card games

Whatever your proclivities, and whatever your budget, finding extra things to bring into the bedroom can be a fun and exciting way to spice up your play time and change things up a bit from the regular, everyday sex stuff.

Check out the links we’ve included to Lovehoney’s online store or head down to your local adult shop and see what wonderful wonders you can bring home today!