What if you’re overweight? What if you can’t or don’t orgasm on the night? What if you can’t get it up? These concerns are a reality for many in the swinging scene so how do you deal with it!

Yes, it’s a play on words, but it’s also an extremely important point. A couple can only have good on-going sex if they both agree to make it good. You both need to agree to ditch the monotony!

There are times in the swinging scene where men have had trouble getting it up on the night. Our resident swing lifestyle expert offers her advice for men in the swinging scene who experience this.

Our sexuality is one area where many people aren’t open and honest and true to themselves. No matter how much personal development work they’ve done, if they’ve missed out this crucial part of themselves, then they’re never going to be whole and real.

Are you treating your partner like your lover? Your bedroom is the practice ground for love. Allow the love in to yourself and allow it to flow out of yourself.

Solo sex is a healthy part of everyone’s sex life. People often think it’s only something you’d do if you weren’t getting ‘the real thing’. But solo sex is fabulous in its own right, and can enhance your ability to have better partnered sex.

To work or not to work with a playmate; that is the question! Or is it to play or not play with a work mate? Either way, there are some things to consider as it’s not always all hot times and orgasms, although it can be!

In the swinging scene trust is one of the most important factors for each individual and swinger couple. Our swing lifestyle expert explores the ways trust is built in the swinging scene.

It doesn’t matter what size you are. Full-figured, voluptuous people can be far more luscious than skinny twigs. All that flesh and softness and roundness – just like a juicy peach.

If one partner wants to stop swinging it’s never an easy situation as we all have different libido cycles and life pressures that contribute to our enthusiasm for swinging. Our swing lifestyle expert explores the best way for dealing with it.