Bio
Rach has been a Relationship Coach and Mentor since 2006 for people who are new, curious or stuck in an open style relationship (swinging through to poly), and a Life Coach from 2003. She is the Author of The Essential Guide for Adventurous Couples (as pseudonym Chantelle Austin), a Speaker and Relationship Trainer.
Rach is regularly sought after by the media to speak about open relationships and swinging internationally. She’s been seen in multiple national magazines such as Grazia and Take 5, she’s been on The Circle, The Project, Can of Worms, The Morning Show, Studio 10, heard on Nova FM, Mix101.1 Fox FM and Joy FM among dozens of international blog talk radio shows, regularly sharing the positive aspects of swinging or open relationships.
She has been married twice, currently to her soul mate; together since December 2000, married since 2003 and in an open style relationship since 2006 (officially) so she has extensive personal experience as well as professional expertise making her a non-judgmental and compassionate relationship professional for all non-monogamous people.
Articles by Chantelle Austin
Party Review: The Monkey Club
Our resident swing lifestyle expert visited one of Melbourne's sexiest swingers parties - The Monkey Club - and wants to tell you about the luscious venue, play areas and fun she and her partner had.
Party Review: ThePussyKats
ThePussyKats is night for swinging couples and select singles (guys and gals) to meet in a very classy environment in Melbourne for mingling and ongoing fun, for those who want to join in.
What Dr John Gray doesn’t know about Swinging!
Our swing lifestyle expert was surprised by an anecdote written by Dr John Gray where he described an encounter with a rather bold lady who gave him an indecent proposal. Was he considering swinging!
Do I have to be like a Porn Star in the Bedroom?
We tend to compare ourselves to what we see on the x-rated screen and it can have a big impact on a person’s confidence and subsequent willingness to get into the swing lifestyle. So do I have to be like a porn star in the bedroom?
Swinging and Religion: Why you shouldn't feel guilty!
God created us with desires and the ability to love whole heartedly. This article is about questioning where some religious beliefs and values came from and asks you to decide if they are still valid for you in your are in the swing lifestyle.
Are We Naturally Monogamous?
Are we naturally monogamous? Can we love more than one person? Or are we just stuck in old traditions that have been passed down through the generations that we’ve never questioned?
How Swinging Parents can manage their own Playtime!
If you’re a parent then check out this article which has some handy hints and tips on how you can continue your swinging adventure while keeping the kids in the dark and out of your play space.
Cheating vs Swinging
Swinging is almost cheating with permission but there isn’t automatic permission for everything and in this relationship dynamic there isn’t much room for making mistakes. So where that line and what can you can do to make sure it’s not crossed?
Ice Breakers to get the Play Started!
It’s not uncommon to find it difficult to get from the conversation, getting-to-know-you part of the evening, into the full swing (so to speak). Chantelle shares 7 ideas you might like to try to move things along a little faster.
The Secret to Dealing with Playmate Jealousy!
When you hear about jealousy in the swinging world, most people think it would be between the people in the couple, but that’s not the only place it rears it’s ugly head and it can catch unsuspecting couples by surprise.