Are you a grower or a shower?

Well, i don’t see there’s a problem on AMM because all the pics I see here are all showers and growers. Lol

I am kind of both according to girls

A grower

At the end of the day
Can he use it ?
Or does he actually know how to excite and please a woman !!!!
Lol I’ll have to use this as a pick up line

This maybe off the topic but I have found with my sexual fun that Solid to husky build blokes are growers and do know how to make a girl girls very happy. The showers know they have a big willy and think the size will make me happy but some not all are root like greyhounds and what you to give them the thumbs up or comment on how the dick is in you. So Growers all the way. And unshaven is hot!!!

I'm actually a bit loathe to say it, given the somewhat hostile reception to showers in this thread, but I'm a shower who also has a bit of growth.

Why are only the growers getting the love on this thread? We're all different and I can't help being a shower any more than some other guy can help being a grower, so please don't be rude to me just because I am.

The question was asked, please don't favour one group and bash the other, otherwise who's going to bother answering unless they're a grower?

After all that hoo-hah, I probably won't get any comments anyway!

Insert self-appraising comment about the magnificence of my penis >here<

There's something be said for size. There are times when a little, or not so little, pain is very erotic. That also goes for the residual feeling ladies feel for a few hours and sometimes days afterwards. The latter only happens with guys that should be doing porn where hurting the ladies seems to be the thing.

If only guys knew... Just like guys don't hurt themselves when masturbsting, neither do women and guess what... They orgasm!

A powerful man, one that is strong enough to put an arm around the small of a woman's waist and lift her off the bed is a bigger turn on for them that one that pounds away with a big drill as though trying to break concrete.

That powerful man having gentle hands and the knowledge of where to touch, how hard or soft, what rythym to use, that spells a good time for a lady. It releases what I call the love endorphins in her. She loves a caring guy that doesn't think its all about the money shot for the session to be out of this world.

The same goes for a man that knows all the areas a tongue needs to reach.

In the end, seriously guys, if you can't make a woman orgasm two or more times without screwing her, you've a long way to go.

Your tools are not just between your legs. They begin with your eyes, then your tongue... Its not just what you say, that has to be positive but true, but it also matters how you say what you say.

Sex for a woman begins at the invitation for dinner if you know how to use your first two tools.

In the end, the tool between your legs is the cherry on top. How satisfied would you be with lots of cherries bu never tasting ice cream of all different flavours?

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  Account Closed

  More than a month ago

  I absolutely agree with all that you said. The only thing is, the question put to us in this column was simply whether we are showers or growers. Just because we've answered the question asked doesn't mean we're unaware of the importance of foreplay, the article isn't about that, so while I agree with everything you said, I do wonder why you chose to make them in this specific thread.
  
  Being either a shower or grower, big or small, cut or natural really doesn't make any difference as to a man's skill as a lover.
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  MiguelCDLOGAN

  More than a month ago

  I chose that angle because of some of the comments below. You, "I'm a grower, partner was disappointed by then, wow! Where were you hiding that?"
  
  The fixation along the string is on size...
  
  The article itself, I think, raises the insecurity of some and my point was to shift the focus. Unless you've been truly been dealt a cruel blow, (button dick that grows little if at all, or the index finger type dick), you are most likely an average guy struggling to be larger than 6". That's considered a small dick by the misguided imagination of some..
  
  The thing is... It should matter little if at all.

I am a grower and love it!!! To see that disappointed look on a woman's face as we climb into bed and within a couple of minutes she has turned the light back on saying where the fuck were you hiding that? Just priceless! Never had a complaint and the women can't wait to get it inside them!

Definitely a grower here!

Im a grower but a shower and a go go goer! ;)

I'm a grower, and have had self esteem issues arise from it (no pun intended). I over compensate for my self assumed lack of manhood by spending much more time performing oral sex and massage to my partners.

I’m definitely a grower the small bic lighters are bigger. Had an ex I dropped my pants and she told me that it’s small I then replied u ain’t seen nothing yet. Less then 5 mins it was a big banana well over average but not a gonzo size her shock turned to a cheeky grin

I used to work with a Vietnamese guy, who always said, "It's not the size of the wand, but the magic that's inside"

To me its not the size that count its how they use it

I realise I can't speak for grower's but as what would be described as a "shower" I've never had any insecurity about size and ability to please.
Being larger than most erect men when flacid my partners have always known straight away that they will be satisfied at least. As you point out there are definitely downsides to being a "shower" being bullied as a kid at swimming for getting an erection even though you're flacid, growing up with underwear that don't fit (before boxers were common), sport..... only thing that sufficiently keep it all safe are speedos, being looked at weird in public because you have a visible bulge in your pants, being accused of stuffing your pants etc.. There are definitely pros and cons for both, would i want to change? Yes and no.

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  Account Closed

  More than a month ago

  "Satisfied"? If you think a big dick is all it takes to "satisfy" someone, I feel sorry for your partners ;-)

One of my best lovers had the smallest dick I've ever seen. He used his fingers, his eyes, and his tongue in ways that have not yet been matched. And I'm not talking inout inout frantic, I'm talking sensual and erotic.

I'm sorry that a woman who gives practical and supportive informed advice on matters important to other ordinary decent people feels compelled to hide her face. NOT a criticism of Ms Wee but a reflection on how the (let's be blunt) the uglies, the crazies, and the judgemental busy-bodies are allowed to influence every day lives of good people.

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  AMM.Editor

  More than a month ago

  She's not "hiding her face". If you read her bio she is a performer and organiser of a Sydney based queer performance club called Rule 34 and we actually chose that image from the ones provided because it's the most recognisable photo of her in her performance mode as a pornstar clown. She's actually a stunningly beautiful woman (and already taken).
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  AskAmie

  More than a month ago

  ... That is my face.
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  Account Closed

  More than a month ago

  WONDERFUL. I've become sensitive to the "conservative" pressures being applied to people to be other than who they really are. *sigh of relief* :-)

Well i married a Chinese woman, she liked me to show her and try to get me to masterbate laying beside her, i never did felt uncomefertable, my next woman i probably will now when i think of it

After undressing at a swingers party I saw the hostess giving my manhood the 'checking you out glance' suffice to say she was unimpressed. Later we began chatting and she began to fondle me, less than a minute later she said "If that's what you've got you'd better come with me". At the next party no sooner had I undressed when she jumped me. Sometimes it's the little 'present' that can give the biggest surprise.

Never really thought about it.. As long as it gets there, does it really matter?

Why does this even matter? Never heard of it, and I feel even less enlightened after reading this. There must be more important things to enlighten us on, surely.

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  AMM.Editor

  More than a month ago

  Please keep in mind this is an actual question from a member on this site and very relevant for those men who are concerned that their junk doesn't look as impressive when flaccid. Which is why Amie chose to answer it.
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  Zamboon

  More than a month ago

  Lighten up mate , or should it be harden up lol , and unless that’s a coke bottle in your undies then you’re obvipusly a shower !
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  Virtuosity73

  More than a month ago

  Zamboon, here's the best reply for somebody who tells you to Harden Up ... "That's not what your mother said" :)

i use to worry about being a grower but then i see there facial expressions and reactions when it gets hard. it was such a turn on seeing her amazed my how big and thick it got every time she blinked lol.
definitely a proud grower!!

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  Queenie

  More than a month ago

  Your cock is hot

The majority of men I have met have been growers. Who cares, as long as they know what to do with it when the opportunity arises (pun totally intended).

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  Virtuosity73

  More than a month ago

  Apparently, show-ers can be a little bit like the US Military ... All the gear, and no idea :)
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  JustSomeGuy.

  More than a month ago

  That's an awesome analogy.

Grower

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  qick-e

  More than a month ago

  its nice to start out small and grow as things hot up , love having my smooth balls sucked that really gets my cock growing fat and hard