We’re celebrating Cake and Cunnilingus Day
This article was originally published on Ms Naughty's blog and is reproduced with permission.
In 2006, upon hearing about "Steak and a Blowjob" Day, Ms Naughty decided it was time that women had a similar holiday, something that echoed the desire for oral sex and food.
She summed it up in her blog post: “Apparently yesterday was “Steak and a Blowjob” day. The idea is that Valentine’s Day is all about giving women roses and cards and a month later it should be the boy’s turn.
Well, screw that! Valentine’s Day is about love (or is that commercialism?) and it’s about expressing love, no matter what your gender. If men think it’s about being forced to buy cliched gifts for women, that’s their problem.
If the men want a sexually-themed “show you care” day, then I demand one for us women as well. Let’s start the Cake and Cunnilingus Day movement right here, right now. Let’s make the official day April 14, since that’s a month after the men’s day.
Cake and Cunnilingus Day should be about female pleasure. About enjoying life’s pleasures without guilt or shame. About gorging down chocolate mud cake as our lover sticks his eager tongue into our hot, wet pussies.
Let’s make it about demanding equal rights to pleasure in bed. Let’s use it to say that we deserve an orgasm EVERY TIME! Let’s storm the porn factories of California and demand female orgasms in every movie!
To the barricades! Take no prisoners!"
And so Cake and Cunnilingus Day was born and we have an Aussie to thank for it. And over 10 years later Cake and Cunnilingus Day has grown in recognition to the point that it's been mentioned in plenty of blog posts and even has an erroneous Urban Dictionary definition.
Cunnilingus has long been given short shrift in our culture, suppressed by taboo and secrecy. It's one of the rarest acts in pornography and mainstream films hesitate to show it. Ms Naughty has also written a follow up article about why we need it more than ever.
That's why Cake and Cunnilingus Day is important. It gives women a light hearted opportunity to declare their desire for pleasure and it gives men a chance to show their support and interest in cunnilingus. The only way we can overcome the taboo surrounding oral sex on women is to start honest conversations about the act and to normalise and celebrate it.
Of course, it doesn't have to be all about cake. If you're so inclined you're welcome to celebrate Muffins and Muff Diving Day. Or Pudding and Pussy Licking Day. Or even Candy and Clit Licking Day. The important thing is that our coochies get the oral treatment they deserve!
Every day should be Cake and Cunnilingus Day!
52 comments
badthoughts63
More than a week agoLet’s combine it. Eating cake from a pussy. Delicious .
ReplyOutdoorEd23
More than a week agoAll the guys commenting here how the love tonguing pussy,suuuure you do
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ReplyDenisemark
More than a week agoBit like women on here talk the talk can’t walk the walk
OutdoorEd23
More than a week agoExactly lol They like giving it to the guys though😉
Yellowhite
More than a week agoThe comments are the best way to weed people out!
OutdoorEd23
More than a week agoYellow it can turn into simp city real quick haha
River1978
More than a month agoI am the Clit Commander!
Reply(Coalition for the Liberation of Itinerant Tree-Dwellers)
Blue262
More than a month agoM8, Valentine's day, Mother's Day and Father's Day were all pretty much made up out of thin air by the Hallmark Greeting Card company to shift more units.
ReplyRepeating festivals based on patterns give us the illusion of permanence in an ocean of chaos, some of us need to make these rituals and labels. To make life make sense. Others are okay surfing and dancing on the swell.
"Cunnilingus has long been given short shrift in our culture, suppressed by taboo and secrecy."
You serious? It was mentioned in Ovid for rice cakes, hardly anything is shrouded in anything anymore.
Fuckudeep129
More than a month agoi absolutely luv licking the clit and tonguing pussy whenever i get the chance mmm
ReplySecretKeeper84
More than a month agoBeing a Brazilian guy, this has to be part of the whole sex act, it’s one of my favourite things that I give in a foreplay and it’s definitely a requirement to me
ReplyRudiRoo
More than a month agoAlso love red wine and rimming day.
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ReplyAMM.Editor
More than a month agoAnd let's not forget Steak & Blowjob Day on 14 March lol
KinkyGirl101
More than a month ago👅🧁
ReplyScottyD31
More than a month agoI love Eating Pussy, I’d do it every Single Day of my Life 👅👅👅
ReplyFunville123
More than a month agoMmmmm
ReplyBBWmature
More than a month ago2 out of 3 guys won’t go there….very sad indeed! Oh well …….more cake for me!
ReplyPLAYMATE938
More than a month agoThis day should GO DOWN in history!! Pun intended. Eating pussy is the best pass time in the world and you don't put on weight!!VIVA CUNNING LINGUISTS the world over. If you give good head you get the pleasure back in spades from your partner,
Replycountrytouch82
More than a month agoFlying solo I made do with just the cake... and I ate it too :P
ReplyRayRay6541
More than a month agoThat’s a fantastic idea for a national day. Only comment I can make on the subject is that it is not necessary to wait for a special day, every day is suitable and cake is optional. Mmmmm nothing better, you can keep your 69 just give me pussy to eat. Ray
Replycumwithme10
More than a month agoEVERY DAY [and Night] should be muff diving DAY[and Night] nothing like the taste of a womans soft warm pussy and juice
Replylovetotaste78
More than a month agoSounds like a great Idea, should be a routine minimum one day a week set aside for it (all day) : )
ReplyZamboon
More than a month agoFrom a males perspective I love cunnilingus ( hate saying eating pussy) and I’m sure I would never tire of it unless the pussy was unwashed ... but that goes for both sexes I guess- was watching a show on tv last night where in one scene a cop gets a hooker into his car and she starts off by saying - $50 for sex , $ 30 for a blow job - I would always go for a blow job over sex ....
ReplyLexecutie
More than a month agoWhat's taboo about it? Every straight guy loves to eat pussy, some of us even prefer to eat pussy over sex. Wtf! Get on my face already!
ReplyLeolady727
More than a month agoMmmmm, yummy to give and yummy to receive (and I'm not talking about the cake).
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ReplyZamboon
More than a month agoI agree wholeheartedly leave the cake for afterwards, and if there’s enough cream then .... I’m really interested... ;)
cumwithme10
More than a month agoYes it is so much better to give than recieve,,,i prefer the silver medal and would rather cum second every time
cjb65193
More than a month agoI would so love to be pleasured that way.
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ReplyZamboon
More than a month agoMy wish is that you do get pleasured that way by a great speller too ;) - it’s a tragedy that you don’t have this regularly done for you - be bolder and good luck ...
cumwithme10
More than a month agoAnd so you should be,,,and regularly
older26
More than a month agoThere is nothing better than having that wet pussy hard on your face and feeling that warm and sweet taste as the orgasm reaches a very wet climax
ReplyNiceGuy4Fun76
More than a month agoWhy do we need a day like valentines anyway. Shouldnt it be the norm to do things for your partner no matter what day of the year it is. Even if its a random cup of coffee or bed in breakfast occasaionally or even a monthly day and or night out together. Just saying.
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ReplyAccount Closed
More than a month agoBed in breakfast? Hmmm How does that work? haha
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More than a month agoIf any partner of mine felt 'pressured' (societal) that he should get me a gift on Feb 14...or he got me something just because it was 'that day' (not out of 'want') I'd rather he didnt to be honest. Its turned into such a materialistic day. Gifts are nice yes..but never 'expected'..spontaneous gestures are awesome.
triXXXi66
More than a month agoif the cake has too much cream for me i know a good place to put it! lol
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ReplyZamboon
More than a month agoIf only ... ;)
Blues1966
More than a month agoI love to lick a pussy and bring on the organum with my tongue, ladies always love and great play After
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ReplyAccount Closed
More than a month agoWTF is an "organum"? Sounds like some sort of herb :-)
Zamboon
More than a month agoIt makes your cum taste better ... ;)
x234567
More than a month agoLove the article and the intent. Include a sensual massage to get the day started...mmmmm
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Replycumwithme10
More than a month agoI totally agree,,nothing like feeling and rubbing a womans soft smooth body any time of the day or night,,,then enjoying a good LLLLong meal with the sweet female sauce
friskypuz
More than a month agoWould be good if my husband did it more often , but lucky for me my lover does...
ReplyHave some of the best organisms from a good tongue lashing..
MsCupCake
More than a month agook - so we potentially have May - Muffins and Muff Diving Day, June - Pudding and Pussy Licking Day, and July - Candy and Clit Licking Day covered - what about the rest of the year ?
Suggestions?
Happy Munching ;)
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ReplyAccount Closed
More than a month agoFinger buns, and scotch fingers have to make an appearance somewhere!
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More than a month agoWhy limit it to just one day of the month? Demand it more often. I'm here... lol
DUBVEGAS
More than a month ago24hrs of cunnilingus and something to fill the stomach,
ReplyBring it on
hughesy57
More than a month agoLove cunnilingus it's fun it's erotic and if done right the lady can have a great orgasm even to the point of total exhaustion
ReplyI am an oral sex creek
Love it
U know U want 2
More than a month agoI don't get it... Lad's, why? There nothing more pleasurable (imo) than snuggling between warm, soft thighs and indulging often and regularly. This is one activity where it is definitely better to give than receive. And she will thank you for it.
ReplyDarkstud
More than a month agoIt's just a huge turn on for me to give oral to the woman. I love being face-to-pussy because I find it very intimate and it's just as sensual as kissing a woman on her other lips.
ReplyI think it's also because I have a really heightened appreciation and a great fascination for the woman's genitals. It is an awesome creation for man to adore and worship!
KinkyGirl101
More than a month agoYum!
ReplyLooklustlick
More than a month agoI am not a cake fan but Cunnilingus is my favourite, eating pussy and having my partner cum, well it doesn't get much better than that
ReplyBoldpromise
More than a month agoIm happy to skip the cake and go straight to the cunnilingus.I would love to celebrate cake and cunnilingus day every day of the year.
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ReplyAccount Closed
More than a month agoThe cake was never for you in the first place (just like, the steak isn't for us girls, on Steak & BJ Day) ;)