The What Why How of Squirting

I find myself at my wits end sometimes, I know how easy i can be, when his fingers are in that place, omg, where this amazing feeling puts you in a state of euphoria, when he wants to get you there and you can lay back and do nothing but feel what he’s doing to you, those small but deeply insane movements he makes with how hands, the warm touch of his mouth, thinking about it drives me crazy.. Unfortunately thinking about it drives me crazy because I’m so frustrated, not because I’m wildly hot and ready to go, it’s because if it’s really that simple for that guy or this guy to help me achieve that, and make me feel that insanely deep feeling that I feel I should expect to feel comfortable well it’s what I go in there aiming to achieve, but it’s like I’m stuck.. I cannot give myself that same feeling, I need two of me so I can be exactly where I need me to be.. The reason I want to cry is because the tension and frustration builds every time my body needs it and its almost begging him to give me that little bit more, and just take me over so I can stop thinking, lay back and feel him taking me through to the end, but it’s like they don’t know where it is or how to do it or something, and often I will guide with my body and my hands and tell him yes when it’s right there and they lighten up or back off or bail out and turn it back into sex like they’re scared of the challenge? Maybe have no idea what they’ve done? Or maybe they’re not keen on the ‘mess’? Who knows but I can’t sleep with everyone to hopefully find someone who not only can take me there, I want to go there more than once, I want him to want it as much as me, to see him move and touch and do what he does in a way that’s like being devoured in a way I can’t describe, and when he touches it with his tongue and teases you omg, he knows exactly what he expects to achieve and there’s no doubt he will..
Where are they? Why don’t men instead of watching porn or worrying about themselves go and learn about a woman’s body, how she works and how they can help you achieve the most insane sex life ever..
I do occasionally worry I will be stuck within the same cycle of disappointing sex, and pretty much knowing fairly quickly there’s no point with this guy, again.. I’m becoming tired of trying and end up settling for the fact liking him outweighs it but once the tension has built internally due to lack of release and so many builds ups that are lost, all I can do is literally cry, accept defeat and just try your hardest not to ruin it for him now the mind becomes negative and all i can think about is why do I do this, why do I put in so much effort to make him feel good and watch him finish and try my best to make sure it’s a good ending for him, then watch him satisfied with that content look on how face while I just sit there dying inside knowing full well it’s not going to happen again

Great article Eva. It was a number of years ago when I first experienced it. Now it’s part of my orgasmic pleasure. My partner of 28 years loves it when I achieve such an intense release. Although it’s not always part of my experience as there are many other types of orgasms I experience. Great to see it being discussed so openly.

I agree, 'truely primal and truely fantastic'.
More satisfying than a clitoral Orgasm, so much more organic and natural.

Since just under 1 in 20 women is anorgasmic these articles are kind of mean. Learning how to use your mind to get your body humming isn't easy but articles keep throwing 'special' or 'more powerful' orgasms as an idea at women.
Guys can do it easily because the orgasm response is a landmine, the female response is more like building a bomb. Maybe i should research and write an article on visualization and fantasy, sort of the opposite of the Hermetic tradition of stimulating the senses to activate the mind.
If what i wrote means anything to you, good luck out there.

Pretty much spot on! I love bringing a girl to orgasm and as she comes the "usual" ways, then use that push pull pressure on the inner g-spot and go next level. Love it when I get "What the fuck just happened!!"

Scared the pants off me..lol..its real alright...i saw a Female Dr about it & she laughed at me as in..yeah right...thats just NOT REAL....

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  Haha. Even some doctors don't know.
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  Like you? ;) lol

I've had it happen once but never again.

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Female squirting has been around since Cleopatra,s time or before her time,ancient China and the ancient times the art of love making,sexual pleasures,masturbating all this stuff we think is some nex exciting sexual pleasure well our our fore mothers have been doing this since the beginning if time, Study the ancient history of sex and the art of love making you might learn something. Especially those Queens and concubines and all and through out the centuries.

Great artical, iv been fortunate enough that a long term friend got in the conversation one day abt this marvellous feat, she got to telling me she has this bless skill & offered to show me, me being me I would of been to God damn aroused to want to get my face & tongue involved, but being good friends I couldn't cross that path lol, ever since iv o poo enky had the conversation with partners abt squirting but majority seemed respulsed, only one partner wished she could. From my own fetish side of things, being a great lover of vagina worshiping orally, It could only be one of my greatest desires to finally meet a female that I could share this intimate pleasure with, like finding hens teeth thou lol

Dear Eva,
Thank you for the educating the ladies on AMM about the “G” and squirting. I would like take this opportunity to share with you my historical experiences. It was more than 20 years ago, prior to my marriage. In addition to my own learnt skills/talents to assist ladies to squirt, I need to acknowledge a then girlfriend, she was a trained nurse who was undertaking a Masters/Phd on the safe sex practice of male sex workers. She was actively reading about the "g" spot and attempted to elucidate me. I recall her attempts with me, trying to find my “G” spot via my anus. Personal I did like at the time, I’m not into receiving anal sex.
Anyhow my comment is about the taste of the squirt. On a number of occasion, whilst I was going down on the lady, I had the opportunity to drink the squirting juices. And let me tell you, in my opinion, the taste these juice is a very sweets nectar every. Honestly, just thinking about the taste gives me a hard on.
Now that I have come to terms with my failed marriage. And after reading your article, I'm feeling really excited, and look forward to any opportunity taste/drink this lovely nectar of life.
Thanks for reading my comment;
Yours truly
An old Casanova, Esq.,

Mmm think I’m going to busy today ;)
I’ve squirted before but theres definitely a technique, one I’ll be busy perfecting today ;) hehe!

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  A partner with big hands and the know is what you need.

Brilliant article. I have taught quite a number of women to enjoy this and the results are life changing for them. Even women in their 40's suddenly are like teenage boys pleasuring themselves more than daily. :-)

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  Haha I have had the same. Fun to teach a 45yo something new sexually.

Thanks for a great article. My wife and I have discussed making her squirt for quite some time but have never had such a simple explanation of why and how we could achieve it. Your comments about pulling back at the last moment because of the "I have to wee" sensation are totally enlightening and have given us the confidence to push through it next time.

Eva states that the skeens gland which is located within the walls of the urethra. The urethra is a very thin tube (in diameter) of connective tissue. For a gland to be able to secrete/ ejaculate such a large volume of “liquid”, it would need to be a large gland with a large reservoir capacity. It would have to be much much larger than the male prostate (which can only produce around 5ml) . Now can you imagine trying to squeeze such a large gland inside the thin diameter of the female urethra ? It is medically and physically impossible. You may also ask yourself what biological function “squirting “ would have ? And why it has only become known as squirting after the advent of porn movies ? Previously it was accepted as incontinence by the medical fraternity. So far not one person, nor study, has been able to prove that it is not comprised mostly of urine. Just because some may believe it does not taste like urine, does not mean it is not urine. If you are well hydrated and drink a lot of water, your urine will be colourless, odourless and tasteless. Add to that the lubricative secretions of the vagina, together with its taste & smell, and that could be why some believe it’s not urine.We instead choose to rely on clinical studies and the opinions of qualified medical practitioners, who have devoted years of study on the issue.

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  Ninja1969

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  Totally agree with you both.
  This obsession with squirting is ridiculous.
  If you are into watersports fine but call a spade a spade.
  Science cant be defeated because porn has an agenda
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  kinkysydneycple

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  There are a couple of inaccuracies in this otherwise good article. All the studies conducted on the composition of the liquid squirted show that it is urine or at least mostly urine and common sense tells you the same thing. That should not detract from a potentially fantastic experience, just do not delude yourself as to what the liquid is.

Yes an absolute spectacular experience for any woman. I find best relaxing first with a slow build up and massaging on my table before playing with the vagina. Once I begin usually start gently fingering the clitoral area and leading up to an intense pleasurable orgasms. Now completely wet in her juices I slide 2 fingers inside and curl up and start massaging the G spot and women just go wild.... they have very primal and intense orgasms with body shaking and I urge them to release and "get it out"!
Women can experience the most amazing sensations and mind blowing squirting orgasms they looking for and I am available for women who seek to explore this an other erotica!

Dr FG

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  That's so professor know it all Troll!
  Sweat the big things
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Many clinical studies, that also included analysing (chemically) the constituents of the “squirted” fluid, have proven without any doubt, that the liquid is mainly urine. It is expelled via the urethra is it not ?

Some may argue that it’s not urine but instead secretions from the skeens gland, a tiny organ which cannot produce the quantities that occur during “squirting”. Not even the male prostate (which is so much larger than the skeens) can produce such volumes.

Have any of you (those who firmly believe that the squirted fluid contains NO urine ) had your squirts laboratory tested ? Of course you have not.

Incidentally, before the porn industry “romanticised” squirting , it was simply known as incontinence.

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  "Many clinical studies"? - it's not a well researched area of sexuality! In fact the most widely quoted study in 2014 only involved 7 participants which is laughable for a statistical analysis.
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  AMM editor .
  
  Have there been any studies in which the “ejaculted fluid “ has been found to not contain any urine ? We perhaps should have written that ALL the clinical studies undertaken have confirmed that the ejaculated fluid is mainly urine .
  
  How many squirters, that you know of , have had their fluid tested.
  
  There has been zero proof offered / put forward, that the ejaculated fluid contains no urine.
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  AMM.Editor

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  As Eva replied to someone else below it comes from the same area, of course there will be traces. But ask the partners of squirters if it's urine and the majority will tell you it's not.
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  Ninja1969

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  You are 100% correct.
  In UK it is illegal to show squirting as it has been proven (yes scientific proof is the majority of opinion) thatit is just urine.
  Pissing is appatently illegal to broadcast in the UK
  This fantasy is a porn think ( gee, those girls dont piss at all. And if you believe what you see lletme sell you some prime real estate in iyt back Oz).
  Like gaping and bdsm it is a marketing ploy to exploit a market looking for something new.
  Oh. By the way. If i said i can cum out my arse and i discharge brown cum but it isnt shit would you believe me?
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  kinkysydneycple

  More than a month ago

  Just enjoy the experience and do not get hung up on the fact that the liquid squirted in mostly urine.

I'd love to drink anyone's squirt...

Oh Eva what a great article. My last lover was a lady that use to love squirting not just once, not twice but sometimes 3times or more in a single session. The experience from a point of view is fulfillment, from hers it was absolutely bliss.
I have a penis with a slight upward hook or bend which use to rub straight on the G spot and when making love it was so easy to stimulate her. Best position was sitting on top and riding up and down. Time from penetration to squirting was sometimes less than a minute. I have to admit it's a good idea to have a towel down to soak up the blissfull mess. Ladies give it a try.!!!By the way she was in her mid 50s so age is no barrier. Pity she moved interstate. I'll miss those sessions.

Exciting as the concept is, there's a bit of wishful anatomic thinking in this article.

The skenes gland does produce liquid, but there is no reservoir to contain that liquid prior to release, so there is an absolute limit to the volume it can produce in one squirt.... and that's significantly less than the volume of sperm that a male can ejaculate.... maybe a teaspoon full at most. To complicate matters further, given the placement of the gland itself, the pelvic muscles would not contribute greatly to the force of the emission.

For many women, the skenes gland may contribute liquid to their ejaculate, but there's no escaping the fact that a considerable amount of the fluid that comes during female ejaculation is urine..... the author's reference to 'dehydration' is a bit of a give away here.

Does that make it any less enjoyable. I'd argue no.... like anything else it's an entirely legitimate sexual experience that gives a lot of people immense pleasure. It just doesn't need pseudo medicine to give it credibility.

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  Totally agree, the clarification need to be clear

Fantastic read! My personal experience with giving women squirting orgasms on my massage table just a sensational experience for both but particularly the lady. I have had ladies first time are minded blown and obviously want more.
I find that the Yoni massage is what a lot of ladies like to try and helps them reach a primal orgasmuc state they rarely find. Toys and different objects can sometimes be used to assist for those who wish to explore so much more.....
Pete

On reading your article it made me curious about how to make a woman squirt. You stated that squirting can be achieved by curling 2 fingers and putting pressure on the roof of the vaginal wall 2 or so inches in.
I have Pyronies desease, I prefer to call it an affliction as it can sound a little scary, of course it is not contagious.
The affect is that when the penis is erect it curls or bends in an upward direction similar to 2 fingers.
Some cases of Pryonies are debilitating, some men cannot have intercourse because the curl is so dramatic but in my case it is fairly mild and does not prevent intercourse.
I wonder if this would enable or assist a woman experiencing squirting during intercourse, as although the pressure would not be as great as the action of 2 fingers pressing on the upper wall, the position the bent penis would take inside the vagina is different to that of a normal penis.
Very curious about this.....
Surrey22

Prostatic acid. You need an anatomy lesson - women DO NOT HAVE a prostate gland neither is there acid. Skenes' ducts are near the distal urethra.

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  The Skene’s gland is also referred to medically as the female prostatic structure and a study in 2014 found that prostatic-specific antigen (PSA) was found in 1 in 7 participants in the study.

thank you Eva for this excellent informative article. I only discovered squirting in my 40s with an amazing lover...I was mortified though I was getting incontinent and would have to give sex up!!! my lover showed me porn to convince me squirting was a thing lol! to the ladies who want to try it I would say it is different to clitoral orgasm...for me it is more like a state of bliss where I am continually coming once I start. I always had an inkling all women could do it ....

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  I'm what I consider to be a very luck lady. I don't need any kind of stimulation except my vivid imagination to make me have continual orgasmns like I'm having right now. I can orgasm continually until I collapse in a very happy heap. The older I am the hornier I have becum. Pun intended lol
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  Excellent behaviour!! : )

Great article as you can see by the response . I have been able to make most of my partners squirt and have always been up for the challenge however It was something I stumbled across many years ago . It is reassuring for me that I have been going about it the right way and I think it will help me fine tune it a little . It is one of the most amazing experiences to watch a woman squirt and see how intense it all is and is one of the biggest turn ons for me . Thanks for another great article !

It is such a mind blowing feeling when squirting

Now I find out we should have put down towels! Lol

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  Hi Nice girl thanks for the positive comment Would love to read what you write
  Julie
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  Nicegirlxx

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  Hi see my poems, only 2 currently on Literotic.

Squirting orgasm and clitoral orgasm are so so so very different ladies. When you get there, it will be amazing and you will want more!! In my opinion, squirting orgasms are more organic. Clitoral orgasms I feel sometimes are hard work. But definitely not squirting orgasms. Relax and let your body go..........

I love it when  my juices flow
Just like a river of melted snow
‘Melted snow ?’ you ask ‘Now that's a first’ 
Do you think your snow will quench my thirst?’
Of course!’ I say ‘my sweet juices start flowing 
Sometimes without me even knowing.
You see quite  suddenly I am filled with desire  
Because  it is ever so easy to light my fire. 
No! I do not need to be seduced with romance
But simply  before you let me naked dance 
For I love the look of lust in your eyes
So for me the juicy flow it no surprise. 
Also my melted snow gushes freely 
When I quite provocatively 
 Squat just above your cock 
And  like the pendulum on a clock
Through my silken veils 
Back and forth Your proud penis sails
And then for sure there is a water shed 
All over you and all over the bed.
 I also love my cunt to slippery slide 
Over the curves of your smooth back side
Yet another waterfall you need to know
Can also happen over your big toe!
And of course I feel no disgrace 
Squirting my juices all over your face.
But these scenarios are only a few
Of the sensuous time I could share with you

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  Nicegirlxx

  More than a month ago

  Very good.
  
  I write too. Love it.

We luv to help ladies squirt and is really a highten state of sexual pleasure for them when their juice and cum is squirting out.
Usually we do with our fingers touching and playing rapidly with the upper side of the pussy, we alto have done with vibrator on clit and a dildo inside pushed in and out until they explode! Enjoy women who squirt or want to try and are even welcome to squirt over both of us.
Pete & Dave

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  I met one of you over 2 years ago On the day in question I had an attack of cystitis, and when you messaged me for sex I thought 'Why not ? I can't feel any worse than I feel now” But the opposite happened .Throwing all abandonment to the wind, and not caring what the consequences were I squirted everywhere .
  Then I waited for the sledge hammer to fall, but a miracle occurred! .My cystitis completely vanished, and I have not had an attack since (after at least 40 years of frequently reoccurring attacks ) Now I squirt every time I have sex or when I masturbate, because I am an avid believer that the liquid keeps my urinary tract healthy. On the odd occasion if I feel a urinary tract attack is imminent I will take my electric vibrator, and stand in the shower and simply squirt. Contrary to what I have read here I squirt without penetration. It can happen while I am massaging a lover , or while I am dancing;but for me the sure fire way is to straddle my partner, and use his cock and simply tap it repeatedly on my pussy. It works a treat ! Pity it took me so many years to discover the anti-dote to the dreaded cystitis which wrecked havoc on my sex life and my health in general.
  Almost forgot ,,,Pete if you remember meeting me a much belated thanks
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  Yes Julie I remember vividly with what happened that day and your concerns about having sex. Miraculously as we found out were the exact opposite when you released your juices everywhere and excitement become explosive and cum all over me, I just lapped them all up. What a great cure we discovered that day! Thanks for your kind note and appreciate very much that. One last thing plan to visit Byron late May and wonder if we could catch up again and revisit where we left off? Pete

My wife is a rabid squirter and I love it. It is so satisfying and really when she really goes off you need to wear a raincoat. Being adults who play it often takes the other guys by surprise but most guys like it. I have no issue with it and will even stay down on a lady while she squirts if that is her preference.

yes its the zennith of sexual intimacee especially wen ur saturated nd sheets wett to the brimm from pure sexual exploration nd shariin the xperience can be an all round amazzzinnng tyme twogether we change the sheets weekly... squirtinn on tapp...anywon else experiences this will now how bodees talk to eachotha..start by applyinn nd then sexploration let womban guide u along her humanscape of architectural curves...

My vibrator is small, very powerful and only for the clit. I squirt like crazy using it and i have not inserted it i vaginally either, straight on clit. I can squirt fr 10 minutes before I cum really hard.
I have even had orgasm headaches where I thought I had a stoke, it was so painful and totally killed my orgasm. Thats another topic I hope you talk about soon.

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  Jerry.Lowe

  More than a month ago

  Yes! I would love to hear shared experiences and information about orgasm headaches. It feels like what I think an aneurysm would. I think it must be hormone release. My effects last for up to 12 hours (diminishing from the moment of orgasm) but regain intensity upon another arousal. I've been too scared to try cumming a second time whilst suffering an orgasm headache.

Thanks for the article, it is very reassuring of something I have been wanting conclusive information about.

Great article & thank you very much for sharing it.
I fully understood what it is now cuz all these time I miss understood it thinking it actually is. ...weeing which puts me off & not wanting to try it with someone. Now I surely look forward to make or do whatever it takes to make one squirts cuz knowing that one will feel satisfied etc. I've always thought to make women cum/s is only the best thing/feeling for them but now l know there's more. Wish me luck at finding one that l can experience these with! :)

Can't say I have ever had a girl squirt but in saying that ,I have never had a girlfriend who has been wanting to try or relaxed enough in their body to try! Will certainly discuss this with my next partner !
Great article as my ex partner always thought squirting was wee ! That blows her theory out of the water ! Sorry about the punn ! Lol

I have only in the last couple of months had this experience , being of the older set i had never known of this . My (friend) seems to be a master of finding the well of fluid that escapes me . I was so embarrassed on the first meeting , but he talked me through it and put me in the picture .On our next evening i was totally enjoying the sensations that this has on my whole body . More joy to come i hope . Thank you for enlightening my naive brain about this .

I have partner, who loves to squirt, and only experienced it while having an affair. How awesome it is, for the female bliss and for the man, something you should be able to achieve with your lady. I was amazed how easily I was able to make her squirt, having her ride on top and pushing down on my penis, it would only take a minute or two to squirt and then again a minute later. It might be the fact that I have a little curl upwards on my penis which manages to achieve this.
For my partner, absolute bliss with the sensation, even bought tears to her eyes.

Lol personally I am a gusher, the first time I experienced this it made me cry for nearly an hour.. it was such an overwhelming sensation... I would normally get so far along and snap my legs shut because I was terrified of what the feeling was... now I love the sensation and when my partner can find the way to blow my mind like that

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  I loved reading your comment and can understand how good it must feel for you.
  
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  Im a gusher too, and the feeling is out of this world. I actually squirt lots before i even cum and when i do, OMG im in fucking heaven, my clit vibrator is very powerful and I can feel it through my whole body, im shaking, jerking and my heart rate goes through the roof.

I squirted last week. I was quite relaxed but I wouldn't say it was fulfilling like a traditional orgasm.

I taught myself how to squirt about 3 years ago. I love it! As do all the guys!!
I'm more of a gusher than a squirter, little tip, put a waterproof protector on your bed, otherwise it stains your mattress.

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Hi Eva.
Im a little confused.
I gushed for the first time yesterday *yay* but the fluid did not come from my urethra. The reason i know this is because my hubby did not have his fingers inside my passage where urine comes out. I felt it gush around his hand when it was in my vagina and the gush came from behind his hand.
Given the anatomy of a female, how can it come out the urethra when the openings are two different openings? Also as a couple of others have said in their comments they feel it around their dicks?
Sry just confused....and intrigued!

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  DeliciousEva

  More than a month ago

  Hey there.
  Firstly, what he may have felt is just a lot of lubrication which can come when aroused and orgasming. Also, if it was a gush, not a squirt, it will pool around the whole area and can feel like it's coming from everywhere. Mix that with the pressure of your muscles contracting and the amount of lubrication your body makes, and it'll just feel like liquid central.
  The skenes gland which creates the liquid is offset from the bladder and the path it takes is often through the urethra or small openings that are basically side by side.
  Not all orgasms end in squirt and not all squirts come from orgasms.
  If you can get to a squirt, where it actually sprays from the body, you'll see what I mean about where it comes from.
  I hope this makes sense.
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  i sure hope he didnt have his fingers inside your urethra, that would have really hurt!

Great article !
I am a squirter and it really is something else !

I have never squirted until recently. And omg I just can't get enough. Squirting feels like you just want to explode. With the right touch anyone can do it. So come on you guy make me squirt over and over again. I love it and
You will too

In my 20's I experienced a couple of girls that squirted during sex and wasn't experienced enough to make it happen more often. Now however I've had the absolute pleasure of helping many lovers squirt multiple times in a play session. So horny sexy and a huge turn on for me and my fave way to spend the 10 or mins for me to get really hard again. Can leave them in a very very relaxed state after multiples.
Ahhh, if only I'd known in my 20's what I know now (45)!! The fun that could've been had....

yes i do this often and wow!!!!

Great article....now can every man read it please?

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Great article. Squirting is one of the most satisfying and complete things I can do as a woman sexually. Men love the feeling of warm liquid all over their cocks during sex. So liberating!

Love this article!! Totally on point ;)

Very interesting- I have just met a girl who does this multiple time every time we have sex. I have never had any experience of this and very interested to get more information- from the man's perspective- Is she always consciously trying to do this? Can we have "less messy" sex if it's needed. Is it just me or does this happen with every guy she is with (she is really bashful and won't talk about it- we are a very new couple)

I have only just recently found my squirting power!!!
I was embarrassed at first now love it!!

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  xtraskilled

  More than a month ago

  Wow it is the hottest thing ide love to make you gish
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  Luvwetsex

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  Yeah I love it ,and you are just to dam sexy babe yum,xxc

My ex is a natural squirter! And I could not get enough of the delicious tasting juices, however her ex husband had got it in to her head that she was pissing the bed and really made her feel guilty about it, so she stopped herself from having orgasms and would freeze up when she was about to ejaculate. It took me two years to convince her she was not peeing but enjoying a natural highly sort after orgasms! The only way I could was to go out and buy a porn video about a girl in her situation who sought help for her "problem", watching that video opened her eyes and her willingness to finally after nearly 20 years of insults she would let go, and we would achieve multiple orgasms for her, One night we managed to have 21 orgasms! I was in heaven! I get my greatest pleasure from giving pleasure, so the more she had the hornier I got, and the was even able to have multiple orgasms of my own, without my cock been touched! Like you said it is 50% in the mind, well sometimes it can be 100%!

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  CoastCuple

  More than a month ago

  Your ex & I must have been married to the same person at sometime, as my ex also abused me when I squirted for pissing the bed, 12yrs I went without enjoying sex.

Who wrote this article? Are you adequately trained in this area? The fluid from squirting absolutely has traces of urine in it and to advise people otherwise is a total misrepresentation.

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  DeliciousEva

  More than a month ago

  I wrote it.
  Gday to you.
  And I am adequately trained in so far as I have researched it extensively. I have spoken to sexologists and doctors about it and I have done it myself and have helped others do it.
  And I never said it wouldn't have traces of urine. It comes from the same area, of course there will be traces. I said it wasn't solely urine. Because it isn't.
  Cheers!
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  and as a squirter I can confirm this is correct...it has different consistency and smell, nothing like wee

Very interesting, it's a big turn on for me to make a women s wettness and squirt

84 and so very much to learn

Squirting is just best feeling, its so amazing. So guys work harder and girls just let is go. You don't know what your missing if your have never squirted before. Take a chance and go for it.

I have for years in a de facto relationship not climaxed. I have only just joined this site and did not before a few weeks ago realise that my need to "pee" was what this article has informed me of. WHAT A FUCKING WASTE OF YEARS!! My recent new partner has tried to get me to do this and I still resisted. THANK YOU! Guess what I'll be doing next time. Thank you :-)

It is a major turn on for me, the best sex you can have. I have made a few ex girlfriends squirt over the years. My last ex girlfriend used to squirt every time we made love over and over. My advise is to go and buy a water proof mattress protector other wise you will kill your bed. It is real and it's the best sex that I have ever experienced with a women. If guys can't make a women squirt, they are not in touch with their partners body.

I knew a lady who squirted every time she orgasmed, ever since she first became sexually active decades ago. Interesting was that she only regularly orgasmed through clitoral stimulation... AND she squirted through 3 small "slits or indents" in her g spot that were visible at all times. I have video of this :-) It wasn't tricky to get the video because she was very orgasmic, and would come every 5 minutes or so once you got your clitoral finger technique right to her liking :-) Mmmmmm feeling aroused thinking of her now...

thank you for writing this article...now to find a man who can do that lol

practice practice practice

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  maddoo

  More than a month ago

  I can and I am good at it, u can call me sneaky golden fingers...lol

We struggled to get my partner to do so, she's further in then most women. It wasn't until a threesome we had that confirmed she can squirt a load the size of a river, the shape of his d hit the spot perfect, But rest assured I have learnt how to get her now, it is worth the patience an erotic play.

Now I know what happens when I flood mean gush lol. It's the best feeling and sound haha

This has been my challenge to every girl i`ve been sleeping with.
First explain to them they will feel the need to pee and its ok to do so..I`ve found in the shower is a great way to start for first timers so they don't have to worry about wetting your bed...
Trust me once they experienced it , they`ll want it every time and be back for more.. Very rewarding and a win win situation for both xx

http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_ejaculation

This makes for an interesting read

I'd like to squirt and reverse park.

It's absolutely heaven, magical to explode into orgasm not just once but over a three and a half hour session with some mutual friends of mine. The best workout anyone could ask for. One of my partners for the session came three times as it takes a little longer for the fellas. Us women are quite luckier on that level.

Great article. Will definitely try it. I really want to please the ladies.

Sweet. Now I just need to find a girl. Lol.

Awesome :) and well written. Very helpful. Thank you

I actually look forward to this moment,it tells me i did it...Acheived for what I was there for ;) Mission Successful ?

I Know How To Make My Lover Come,Like She Has Never Come Before...

I squirted for the first time yesterday, I cried because it felt so good and it frightened me because I didn't know what happened (did I just pee in his face)

great !

Great article. I've never personally witnessed it and can't wait for the first time. I've been with girls who have come close with the 'needing to wee' feeling and not continued, if I had read this I'd have pushed to continue.

I'll get there, one day!!!

Thanks for this article and the tips on how to make a woman squirt. Myself and some female friends have been looking for some help on how to squirt. will def be trying this and hope the fun in trying brings the rewards. Thanks again

i hope i can master this squirting,sounds like loads of fun.

Took a while to master it but my wife goes crazy when we set aside an afternoon for it...

Well i wish someone could teach me to do it!! Sounds like im missing out lol

lovely article, it's great to be involved with a woman that squirts uncontrollably

I have to agree squirting orgasms are a completely different orgasm all together. I can have four different orgasms all unique in their own way but totally different. Squirting is one of a kind and while it doesn't happen every time during sex it will happen with longer periods of penetration and can projectile across the room if it's built up too long :-)
Totally worth learning girls! Have shown a few the ropes and they too now have fun with it !!!
Learn and perfect! That's my advice!
Wonderful for you, just as great for him! ;-)

My man makes me squirt and it nearly hits the ceiling and its not wee,ask my man he loves it squirting in his mouth so sweet ..and bunnings drop sheet work the best .....

I always find it bizarre that I'm one of the only females who doesn't enjoy the feeling...

Others rave about it but I'll pass thanks!

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  RiverSweetie

  More than a month ago

  I feel the same, I have never really enjoyed attempt to stimulate the front wall of my vagina. It's not a mental worry about extra fluid etc., I find that need-to-pee feeling quite uncomfortable physically. Maybe people have gone for it too early during foreplay... in any case clitoral or even better deep vaginal penetrative orgasms do it for me just fine

I learnt to squirt after joining the swinging scene in my mid 40s...it is an amazing release and is different and separate to my orgasm but can happen simultaneously which is mind blowing....it does make for a very wet bed but so so satisfying.

in my experience some woman orgasm when squirting and others don't . some can squirt just with clitoral stimulation . its all good which ever way it happens :)

I'm pretty sure I was 20 the first time I experienced squirting, once you've been there, you won't go back! Happy days!

Is it true that once you have a squirting orgasm you cannot have an orgasm without squirting ever again?

Absolutely love it! AND MY FRIEND KNOWS EXACTLY HOW TO GET IT!

Great article and so very true!!

Can somebody teach my wife to squirt????

In my forties I learnt how to stimulate a woman's g-spot and that led them to having g-spot orgasms. That type of orgasm took them by surprise and then 4 or 5 of the ladies ended up squirting.
These women were also in their 40's.
One element that I can attribute to each was that I made all these women feel very relaxed, we moved at the pace they were happy with and they knew I was totally non-judgemental in the bedroom. This seemed to give them a greater freedom to be less inhibited sexually than they may have previously been accustomed to.
My long term partner has been very sexually active over the years and was shocked when she first squirted and that was in her early fifties.
Lots of women are squirting!!!

Hi Eva, a fantastic article, love to share it with my community (with the appropriate credit ofcourse), can we link to this article to a location outside of adult match maker? Is it published on your blog? Thanks

Mistress Aditi

How do I "Like" this? Damn you facebook!

I love taking a woman to new heights and having her squirt everywhere wether with fingers toys or intercourse and of course some dirty pillow talk goes nicely also

I am 72 years of age and I squirt profusely just by dancing for my lover or it can also happen when I am massaging him. I write erotic poetry and actually have one about my juices flowing like melted snow.

Yes squirting is absolutely real. More ladies I've been with have squirted than haven't. It's amazing to help a woman achieve this level of pleasure

We're all different, and it's not the be all and end all if you can't. Each to their own. That's why we're all individual. There's enough pressure going on in the bedroom - just cos you don't doesn't mean anything other than there's other fun things to and use. Variety afterall, is the Spice of Life!
No Complaints from my menfolk...Ever.

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  RiverSweetie

  More than a month ago

  Hear hear! I find all this emphasis on "making" woman squirt a bit excessive. If we ask for for help with it sure, but if we are satisfied with our orgasms let's carry on & enjoy! It might just happen anyway... or not, all good.

Wow, this is our most popular article ever! The human body is such a wonderful machine with so many unique features it's certainly fun to learn how to turn some of those switches on. While the medical jury is still out on many things (some still don't believe in the Gspot) what Eva has written is backed up by countless medical articles so we encourage you to do your own research between the pages and hopefully between the sheets.

There are a few YouTube videos on how to get the action right. This one is a bit on the long side but describes the how-to really well. How To Make A Girl Squirt - Give Your Girl An Exp…: http://youtu.be/7FmAHDECFsY
It isn't wee. It looks, tastes and smells different. I can squirt with an empty bladder...or can squirt squirt squirt and then go and pee afterwards with a full bladder still.
Also don't expect it to coincide with orgasm every time...it does what it likes and can appear before, during or after orgasm. Waterproof mattress protectors can be a good investment. Or puppy pads from the $2 shop. Have fun :)

I first heard about squirting 18 months ago and have been on a mission ever since to be able to learn how to do it. Thank you so much for the article I feel like it has answered many questions for me.

I have only ever squirted with clitrol stimulation , thou I gush big time with penetration

I love squirting. I feel so good afterwards, quivering on the bed.

I want to squirt ;)

P.s. Just takin the piss,( no pun intended ) SHE is a great Reverse Parker too, just had to reference NoHarminAskin. Funny stuff.

Ditto to all the above comments EXCEPT for the hot4curves re : pissing. We too went close several times but SHE thought it was a urinating urge. Once she pushed pass that imaginary boundary and let go ...!! Giddyup..!! It was and is sensational.
Now for the more difficult stuff... Reverse Parking..

An egg vib above the clit hood will make a woman squirt a lot easier than finger and easier on her

Thanks for that article. It's totally true. I am 51 and never squirted until two years ago. The right stimulation made it happen and now it is easy, can happen in an instant, and feels fantastic. And yes, a mattress protector comes in handy, as some of our amm friends know too well :-)

Wow trying that tomorrow

I find the best part when a female is squirting is to be going down on her at the same time. The compliments afterwards and smile on their faces, makes it all rewarding (for everyone involved). Foreplay too, I have found is a great way to build up towards making a female squirt !

bring it on,i drink the stuff,pure honey from the sweetest place on earth....

Thank you for communicating in simple terms where others can understand and allow themselves to experiment. I have never explained it so simply. Selfishly, if I could cum this way every time I would. Mindblowing for everyone involved! If you never enter "Aladdin's cave" you can never fully understand the treasure that lies within.. Humbly grateful. Sharing is caring! ??

They feel different squirting and orgasm

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  More than a month ago

  I agree. For me squirting doesn't happen with an orgasm. It's not the same at all.

Is it also possible to do it through cliteral stimulation? I've experienced a huge gush of liquid like what you describe using a clit stimulator. It's more of a gush and I've never seen it 'squirt' but it does leave quite a puddle though, lol. I've tried it internally and although it feels nice, it's never had the same result.
Wondering if I'm missing something.

ellekate: The sensation can be a lot different to a clitoral orgasm, yes. Some girls experience it like a release of pressure and others like a rush of all over pleasure.
If you can stimulate your clitoris at the same time it can really help with the all over pleasure side.

Hi, hot4curves.
If you read the article it clearly states the gland where squirting comes from.
It's called Skene's Gland and is the female equivalent to the male prostate.
The liquid is not urine. Although sometimes urine can be present as it comes out of the urethra.
The article also states what the liquid is made of.
I am aware that some porn movies will say they are squirting when they are in fact golden showers but squirting is very real.

Comfortablynumb, no. Not all orgasms will be squirting ones every time. However once you can do it it's easier to achieve each time

Cheers to all comments!
Eva

My partner has made me squirt a number of times by using his fingers but I didn't really experience an orgasm with it. Is it supposed to feel like an orgasm?

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  More than a month ago

  I find the same I squirt but prefer clitoral orgasm

I have been with a number of women who squirted. One X in particular gushed heaps...we always made sure we had lots of towels under her or slept in a wet bed. Funny thing it doesnt stain the mattress. Hitting that G Spot is the key and for her to relax and know its not piss and enjoy. We used to web cam and she destroyed [squirted all over] several keyboards and even hit the cam itself.....it shoots a long way sometimes...and not only one time...no problems it was fun...lucky girl..

Wow. That squirting sounds intense and amazingly awesome.

Awesome

Piss!.. if you disagree please name the organ/gland all that liquid originates from.. looks like piss, tastes like piss, is piss, not that I dont like it, just prefer the facts than convenient invention because some may be turned of watersports.. when your hitting a womans gspot you're pushing against her bladder also..

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  perennielle

  More than a month ago

  RTFA

So tell me though, once you squirt will you always squirt?
I hear some women are unable to turn off their squirting capability once they find it?

Great article there! :)

My wife enjoys squirting. It isn't a myth and a technique that is easily learned. Some woman are simply amazed that they are able to squirt in a matter of seconds. We enjoy showing other people the technique and have introduced many women to the joys of squirting over the past 7 years.

You are so right . When my lady friend squirts. She can blow from one side of the bed to the other. Missing the towels laid down ,

So I've been with a few guys that argue this is urine I feel dehydrated when I squirt it makes me feel like I've been to heaven now it's just to find me a man that can remind me what I taught myself with my toys when I was single, well hang on I still am bring on the best years of my life

it is so rewarding having a lady squirt such a turn on, it is honestly very exhausting for the lady.

I am 60 and have been teaching women to squirt for some years now... Couldn't have explained it better myself.. Yes most have concerns as to peeing but when they get passed that there is no stopping them.. Well done Eva

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  More than a month ago

  I don't know what the fuss is about. Obviously im missing something.
  I can,do and have squirted many times. I can feel the wetness and hear it. But there certainly is no orgasm that comes with it.
  What's that about?
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  DeliciousEva

  More than a month ago

  That's also common. And completely normal. I've had similar. Sometimes quite a while after the actual sex or orgasms. Sometimes before.
  Because it has a lot to do with the muscles in the area the gush will often happen with the orgasm because that's when the muscles are at major tension and release. But it's not technically a result OF orgasm if that makes sense. I think, for me anyway, the double release of orgasm and squirting creates the intensity. But I have also experienced it without. There may be ways to see if you can match them up. Can you recognise the feeling? Can you control when it comes?
  Pelvic floor exercises and kegel balls could definitely help you strengthen and train the area to give yourself more control .

Wonderful ! It is that intense, it blows me away for about 20 mins, I feel like a rag doll.. Then I want more !!

I love it!!! plus unlike a clitoral orgasm I can have squirting orgasms over and over!!! I go through a lot of towels!!!

And I heard it was little more than a weak bladder, well there you go, women learning to ejaculate, next thing you know they'll be learning to reverse park :-)

yup absolutely exists...glorious to watch...never tire of having a girl just lose it completely during a huge climax...fantastic moment...

My wife squirts every time we have sex. Each time we have to place a waterproof mat down on the bed to catch it all.

It simply gushes out of her....very sexy !

Wow what a amazing article. Thank you for giving insight to this. It is awesome so try !!

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  More than a month ago

  mmmmmmmm

is like everything,,find the right way and spot and u will get what you are after,,so guys,,work hard,,and have fun!!

and so true...you're spot on. She does gush a Niagara load!!

Wow! Amazing and very helpful! Thank you for myth busting :-)