The What Why How of Squirting

The What Why How of Squirting

It's really only in the past decade or so, since the invent of social media and the huge influence it's had on the world's population, that certain things have become part of our everyday lives and consciousness. Like, for example, the fanatical obsession humans have with cats, or the unquestionable healing powers of bacon (you know it's true). And one thing that really seems to have taken the world by storm, or at least the sex world where I reside, is the awakening knowledge of one of the most awesome things a woman can do when it comes to sex and orgasms: Squirting.

Just like the worship of cats (Ancient Egypt anyone?) squirting is by no means a “new” thing. It is also not a “mythical” thing. It is very real, and very cool, and is actually possible for almost every single woman on the planet to achieve. Really it is. It takes a bit of patience and a bit of work but the rewards are most definitely worth it.

What Is Squirting?

Squirting is the name given to female ejaculation and I don't just mean the wetness and lubrication that comes from being turned on and orgasming. I mean actual ejaculation. Like a gush or squirt of liquid (quite a lot of liquid sometimes) that can occur when a woman has a g-spot orgasm. The liquid itself is completely different to any other sort of liquid a female produces and comes from a place not many of us women realise we have, the Skene's gland. It is located within the walls of the urethra and the liquid itself comes out of the urethra (where wee comes from) but it is absolutely NOT urine. It's clear and a completely different consistency. It's made up of glucose and prostatic acid which is pretty much the same sort of stuff that semen is made up of (without the sperm of course).

What a lot of people don't realise is that the g-spot (which is located on the front wall of the vagina about one or two inches up from the entrance), is made of different stuff than the rest of the vaginal wall. It's actually made of erectile tissue which, when manipulated, fills with blood and can swell up to three times its normal size. It has a sort of ridged, spongey feel and, when aroused and pushed, can make you feel a bit like you want to wee. It is this feeling that often stops women from experimenting further because for the great majority of people, sexy time and urination are not connected.

Let me assure you that you will not wee. You won't. The reason it feels like that is because pressure is being put on the urethra which is the same sort of pressure your bladder puts on it when it is full.

So How Do I Achieve A Squirting Orgasm?

Pressure. Lots of pressure. Unlike the clitoris, the g-spot does not respond to vibration, it responds to pressure so a traditional vibrator probably won't do much at all in the process. A lot of sex toys these days have the curled head on them which are designed to reach and push on the g-spot and, if you're going to use a toy to get there, this is the sort you want. If you are using your fingers (or a partner is) then the best way to describe how to find it is this: curl two fingers towards the front wall of the vagina, kind of like you're trying to reach just below the belly-button, find the spongey spot that is the g-spot, and push/move your fingers in a kind of hard and fast “come hither” motion. When I say hard and fast I mean it. Especially in the beginning when you're just learning how and where.

Because most sex is 50% mental and 50% physical you really do need to be in the right frame of mind. You need to relax your whole pelvic floor which can be really tricky to do in the wake of that whole feeling-like-you're-going-to-wee thing, but it is really necessary. One good way to mentally prepare yourself is to make sure your bladder is completely empty before you try. This way you can tell your brain you KNOW you aren't going to wee because there is nothing in there TO wee. When you do achieve the squirt it is these pelvic floor muscles that will contract and push and ultimately squirt the liquid.

So Why Do I Want To Have A Squirting Orgasm?

Because it's amazing. It is so strong and good and deliciously satisfying that you almost lose control. The noises, the spasms and the ultimate release of endorphins and orgasmic blissful sensations is like no other orgasm you will have ever felt in your life. It is truly primal and truly fantastic.

Be sure to put down plenty of towels before you start trying because there will be a lot (LOT) of liquid and, because of this fact, make sure you have a big drink of water near you for afterwards because it can really dehydrate you.

So relax, curl your fingers, push push push and happy squirting, my friends!

155 Comments

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    Goodcook1957
    More than two weeks ago

    Brilliant article. I have taught quite a number of women to enjoy this and the results are life changing for them. Even women in their 40's suddenly are like teenage boys pleasuring themselves more than daily. :-)

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    kismet1311
    More than two weeks ago

    Thanks for a great article. My wife and I have discussed making her squirt for quite some time but have never had such a simple explanation of why and how we could achieve it. Your comments about pulling back at the last moment because of the "I have to wee" sensation are totally enlightening and have given us the confidence to push through it next time.

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    FlirtyDuo
    More than a month ago

    Eva states that the skeens gland which is located within the walls of the urethra. The urethra is a very thin tube (in diameter) of connective tissue. For a gland to be able to secrete/ ejaculate such a large volume of “liquid”, it would need to be a large gland with a large reservoir capacity. It would have to be much much larger than the male prostate (which can only produce around 5ml) . Now can you imagine trying to squeeze such a large gland inside the thin diameter of the female urethra ? It is medically and physically impossible. You may also ask yourself what biological function “squirting “ would have ? And why it has only become known as squirting after the advent of porn movies ? Previously it was accepted as incontinence by the medical fraternity. So far not one person, nor study, has been able to prove that it is not comprised mostly of urine. Just because some may believe it does not taste like urine, does not mean it is not urine. If you are well hydrated and drink a lot of water, your urine will be colourless, odourless and tasteless. Add to that the lubricative secretions of the vagina, together with its taste & smell, and that could be why some believe it’s not urine.We instead choose to rely on clinical studies and the opinions of qualified medical practitioners, who have devoted years of study on the issue.

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      Ninja1969
      More than two weeks ago

      Totally agree with you both.
      This obsession with squirting is ridiculous.
      If you are into watersports fine but call a spade a spade.
      Science cant be defeated because porn has an agenda

  • SirMasseur
    More than a month ago

    Yes an absolute spectacular experience for any woman. I find best relaxing first with a slow build up and massaging on my table before playing with the vagina. Once I begin usually start gently fingering the clitoral area and leading up to an intense pleasurable orgasms. Now completely wet in her juices I slide 2 fingers inside and curl up and start massaging the G spot and women just go wild.... they have very primal and intense orgasms with body shaking and I urge them to release and "get it out"!
    Women can experience the most amazing sensations and mind blowing squirting orgasms they looking for and I am available for women who seek to explore this an other erotica!

    Dr FG

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      FlirtyDuo
      More than two weeks ago

      Lol you and your constant self advertising

    • SirMasseur
      More than two weeks ago

      That's so professor know it all Troll!
      Sweat the big things
      Cheer up lol

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    FlirtyDuo
    More than a month ago

    Many clinical studies, that also included analysing (chemically) the constituents of the “squirted” fluid, have proven without any doubt, that the liquid is mainly urine. It is expelled via the urethra is it not ?

    Some may argue that it’s not urine but instead secretions from the skeens gland, a tiny organ which cannot produce the quantities that occur during “squirting”. Not even the male prostate (which is so much larger than the skeens) can produce such volumes.

    Have any of you (those who firmly believe that the squirted fluid contains NO urine ) had your squirts laboratory tested ? Of course you have not.

    Incidentally, before the porn industry “romanticised” squirting , it was simply known as incontinence.

    :)

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      AMM.Editor
      More than a month ago

      "Many clinical studies"? - it's not a well researched area of sexuality! In fact the most widely quoted study in 2014 only involved 7 participants which is laughable for a statistical analysis.

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      FlirtyDuo
      More than a month ago

      AMM editor .

      Have there been any studies in which the “ejaculted fluid “ has been found to not contain any urine ? We perhaps should have written that ALL the clinical studies undertaken have confirmed that the ejaculated fluid is mainly urine .

      How many squirters, that you know of , have had their fluid tested.

      There has been zero proof offered / put forward, that the ejaculated fluid contains no urine.

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      AMM.Editor
      More than a month ago

      As Eva replied to someone else below it comes from the same area, of course there will be traces. But ask the partners of squirters if it's urine and the majority will tell you it's not.

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      Ninja1969
      More than a month ago

      You are 100% correct.
      In UK it is illegal to show squirting as it has been proven (yes scientific proof is the majority of opinion) thatit is just urine.
      Pissing is appatently illegal to broadcast in the UK
      This fantasy is a porn think ( gee, those girls dont piss at all. And if you believe what you see lletme sell you some prime real estate in iyt back Oz).
      Like gaping and bdsm it is a marketing ploy to exploit a market looking for something new.
      Oh. By the way. If i said i can cum out my arse and i discharge brown cum but it isnt shit would you believe me?

  • mbr8008
    More than a month ago

    I'd love to drink anyone's squirt...

  • Outtforfun
    More than a month ago

    Oh Eva what a great article. My last lover was a lady that use to love squirting not just once, not twice but sometimes 3times or more in a single session. The experience from a point of view is fulfillment, from hers it was absolutely bliss.
    I have a penis with a slight upward hook or bend which use to rub straight on the G spot and when making love it was so easy to stimulate her. Best position was sitting on top and riding up and down. Time from penetration to squirting was sometimes less than a minute. I have to admit it's a good idea to have a towel down to soak up the blissfull mess. Ladies give it a try.!!!By the way she was in her mid 50s so age is no barrier. Pity she moved interstate. I'll miss those sessions.

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    FancyTicklers
    More than a month ago

    Exciting as the concept is, there's a bit of wishful anatomic thinking in this article.

    The skenes gland does produce liquid, but there is no reservoir to contain that liquid prior to release, so there is an absolute limit to the volume it can produce in one squirt.... and that's significantly less than the volume of sperm that a male can ejaculate.... maybe a teaspoon full at most. To complicate matters further, given the placement of the gland itself, the pelvic muscles would not contribute greatly to the force of the emission.

    For many women, the skenes gland may contribute liquid to their ejaculate, but there's no escaping the fact that a considerable amount of the fluid that comes during female ejaculation is urine..... the author's reference to 'dehydration' is a bit of a give away here.

    Does that make it any less enjoyable. I'd argue no.... like anything else it's an entirely legitimate sexual experience that gives a lot of people immense pleasure. It just doesn't need pseudo medicine to give it credibility.

    • Account Closed
      More than a month ago

      Totally agree, the clarification need to be clear

  • CURVYLOVER7
    More than a month ago

    Fantastic read! My personal experience with giving women squirting orgasms on my massage table just a sensational experience for both but particularly the lady. I have had ladies first time are minded blown and obviously want more.
    I find that the Yoni massage is what a lot of ladies like to try and helps them reach a primal orgasmuc state they rarely find. Toys and different objects can sometimes be used to assist for those who wish to explore so much more.....
    Pete

  • Surrey22
    More than a month ago

    On reading your article it made me curious about how to make a woman squirt. You stated that squirting can be achieved by curling 2 fingers and putting pressure on the roof of the vaginal wall 2 or so inches in.
    I have Pyronies desease, I prefer to call it an affliction as it can sound a little scary, of course it is not contagious.
    The affect is that when the penis is erect it curls or bends in an upward direction similar to 2 fingers.
    Some cases of Pryonies are debilitating, some men cannot have intercourse because the curl is so dramatic but in my case it is fairly mild and does not prevent intercourse.
    I wonder if this would enable or assist a woman experiencing squirting during intercourse, as although the pressure would not be as great as the action of 2 fingers pressing on the upper wall, the position the bent penis would take inside the vagina is different to that of a normal penis.
    Very curious about this.....
    Surrey22

  • Iggysingle
    More than a month ago

    Prostatic acid.??? You need an anatomy lesson - women DO NOT HAVE a prostate gland neither is there acid. Skenes' ducts are near the distal urethra.

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      AMM.Editor
      More than a month ago

      The Skene’s gland is also referred to medically as the female prostatic structure and a study in 2014 found that prostatic-specific antigen (PSA) was found in 1 in 7 participants in the study.

  • sexkittensquirt
    More than a month ago

    thank you Eva for this excellent informative article. I only discovered squirting in my 40s with an amazing lover...I was mortified though I was getting incontinent and would have to give sex up!!! my lover showed me porn to convince me squirting was a thing lol! to the ladies who want to try it I would say it is different to clitoral orgasm...for me it is more like a state of bliss where I am continually coming once I start. I always had an inkling all women could do it ....

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    funangames57
    More than a month ago

    Great article as you can see by the response . I have been able to make most of my partners squirt and have always been up for the challenge however It was something I stumbled across many years ago . It is reassuring for me that I have been going about it the right way and I think it will help me fine tune it a little . It is one of the most amazing experiences to watch a woman squirt and see how intense it all is and is one of the biggest turn ons for me . Thanks for another great article !

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    RosieAnne
    More than a month ago

    It is such a mind blowing feeling when squirting

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    Nicegirlxx
    More than a month ago

    Now I find out we should have put down towels! Lol

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      possibilities3
      More than a month ago

      Hi Nice girl thanks for the positive comment Would love to read what you write
      Julie

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      Nicegirlxx
      More than a month ago

      Hi see my poems, only 2 currently on Literotic.

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    TheWonderofYou
    More than a month ago

    Squirting orgasm and clitoral orgasm are so so so very different ladies. When you get there, it will be amazing and you will want more!! In my opinion, squirting orgasms are more organic. Clitoral orgasms I feel sometimes are hard work. But definitely not squirting orgasms. Relax and let your body go..........

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    possibilities3
    More than a month ago

    I love it when  my juices flow
    Just like a river of melted snow
    ‘Melted snow ?’ you ask ‘Now that's a first’ 
    Do you think your snow will quench my thirst?’
    Of course!’ I say ‘my sweet juices start flowing 
    Sometimes without me even knowing.
    You see quite  suddenly I am filled with desire  
    Because  it is ever so easy to light my fire. 
    No! I do not need to be seduced with romance
    But simply  before you let me naked dance 
    For I love the look of lust in your eyes
    So for me the juicy flow it no surprise. 
    Also my melted snow gushes freely 
    When I quite provocatively 
     Squat just above your cock 
    And  like the pendulum on a clock
    Through my silken veils 
    Back and forth Your proud penis sails
    And then for sure there is a water shed 
    All over you and all over the bed.
     I also love my cunt to slippery slide 
    Over the curves of your smooth back side
    Yet another waterfall you need to know
    Can also happen over your big toe!
    And of course I feel no disgrace 
    Squirting my juices all over your face.
    But these scenarios are only a few
    Of the sensuous time I could share with you

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      Nicegirlxx
      More than a month ago

      Very good.

      I write too. Love it.

  • 2SIRShareu
    More than a month ago

    We luv to help ladies squirt and is really a highten state of sexual pleasure for them when their juice and cum is squirting out.
    Usually we do with our fingers touching and playing rapidly with the upper side of the pussy, we alto have done with vibrator on clit and a dildo inside pushed in and out until they explode! Enjoy women who squirt or want to try and are even welcome to squirt over both of us.
    Pete & Dave

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      possibilities3
      More than a month ago

      I met one of you over 2 years ago On the day in question I had an attack of cystitis, and when you messaged me for sex I thought 'Why not ? I can't feel any worse than I feel now” But the opposite happened .Throwing all abandonment to the wind, and not caring what the consequences were I squirted everywhere .
      Then I waited for the sledge hammer to fall, but a miracle occurred! .My cystitis completely vanished, and I have not had an attack since (after at least 40 years of frequently reoccurring attacks ) Now I squirt every time I have sex or when I masturbate, because I am an avid believer that the liquid keeps my urinary tract healthy. On the odd occasion if I feel a urinary tract attack is imminent I will take my electric vibrator, and stand in the shower and simply squirt. Contrary to what I have read here I squirt without penetration. It can happen while I am massaging a lover , or while I am dancing;but for me the sure fire way is to straddle my partner, and use his cock and simply tap it repeatedly on my pussy. It works a treat ! Pity it took me so many years to discover the anti-dote to the dreaded cystitis which wrecked havoc on my sex life and my health in general.
      Almost forgot ,,,Pete if you remember meeting me a much belated thanks

    • Account Closed
      More than a month ago

      Yes Julie I remember vividly with what happened that day and your concerns about having sex. Miraculously as we found out were the exact opposite when you released your juices everywhere and excitement become explosive and cum all over me, I just lapped them all up. What a great cure we discovered that day! Thanks for your kind note and appreciate very much that. One last thing plan to visit Byron late May and wonder if we could catch up again and revisit where we left off? Pete

  • soulmates56
    More than a month ago

    My wife is a rabid squirter and I love it. It is so satisfying and really when she really goes off you need to wear a raincoat. Being adults who play it often takes the other guys by surprise but most guys like it. I have no issue with it and will even stay down on a lady while she squirts if that is her preference.

  • nativxxx
    More than a month ago

    yes its the zennith of sexual intimacee especially wen ur saturated nd sheets wett to the brimm from pure sexual exploration nd shariin the xperience can be an all round amazzzinnng tyme twogether we change the sheets weekly... squirtinn on tapp...anywon else experiences this will now how bodees talk to eachotha..start by applyinn nd then sexploration let womban guide u along her humanscape of architectural curves...

  • kissingmeyum
    More than a month ago

    My vibrator is small, very powerful and only for the clit. I squirt like crazy using it and i have not inserted it i vaginally either, straight on clit. I can squirt fr 10 minutes before I cum really hard.
    I have even had orgasm headaches where I thought I had a stoke, it was so painful and totally killed my orgasm. Thats another topic I hope you talk about soon.

  • Msmiya
    More than a month ago

    Thanks for the article, it is very reassuring of something I have been wanting conclusive information about.

  • HornyMalayGent
    More than a month ago

    Great article & thank you very much for sharing it.
    I fully understood what it is now cuz all these time I miss understood it thinking it actually is. ...weeing which puts me off & not wanting to try it with someone. Now I surely look forward to make or do whatever it takes to make one squirts cuz knowing that one will feel satisfied etc. I've always thought to make women cum/s is only the best thing/feeling for them but now l know there's more. Wish me luck at finding one that l can experience these with! :)

  • jay1767
    More than a month ago

    Can't say I have ever had a girl squirt but in saying that ,I have never had a girlfriend who has been wanting to try or relaxed enough in their body to try! Will certainly discuss this with my next partner !
    Great article as my ex partner always thought squirting was wee ! That blows her theory out of the water ! Sorry about the punn ! Lol

  • Pisces1954
    More than a month ago

    I have only in the last couple of months had this experience , being of the older set i had never known of this . My (friend) seems to be a master of finding the well of fluid that escapes me . I was so embarrassed on the first meeting , but he talked me through it and put me in the picture .On our next evening i was totally enjoying the sensations that this has on my whole body . More joy to come i hope . Thank you for enlightening my naive brain about this .

  • MrRandyboy
    More than a month ago

    I have partner, who loves to squirt, and only experienced it while having an affair. How awesome it is, for the female bliss and for the man, something you should be able to achieve with your lady. I was amazed how easily I was able to make her squirt, having her ride on top and pushing down on my penis, it would only take a minute or two to squirt and then again a minute later. It might be the fact that I have a little curl upwards on my penis which manages to achieve this.
    For my partner, absolute bliss with the sensation, even bought tears to her eyes.

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    Sweetangelic3
    More than a month ago

    Lol personally I am a gusher, the first time I experienced this it made me cry for nearly an hour.. it was such an overwhelming sensation... I would normally get so far along and snap my legs shut because I was terrified of what the feeling was... now I love the sensation and when my partner can find the way to blow my mind like that

    • Account Closed
      More than a month ago

      I loved reading your comment and can understand how good it must feel for you.

      Alex

    • Account Closed
      More than a month ago

      Im a gusher too, and the feeling is out of this world. I actually squirt lots before i even cum and when i do, OMG im in fucking heaven, my clit vibrator is very powerful and I can feel it through my whole body, im shaking, jerking and my heart rate goes through the roof.

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    Unidentified82
    More than a month ago

    I squirted last week. I was quite relaxed but I wouldn't say it was fulfilling like a traditional orgasm.

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    Kinkykitten101
    More than a month ago

    I taught myself how to squirt about 3 years ago. I love it! As do all the guys!!
    I'm more of a gusher than a squirter, little tip, put a waterproof protector on your bed, otherwise it stains your mattress.

    • Account Closed
      More than a month ago

      Found that out the hard way lol

  • Fiesty.Fun.Chic
    More than a month ago

    Hi Eva.
    Im a little confused.
    I gushed for the first time yesterday *yay* but the fluid did not come from my urethra. The reason i know this is because my hubby did not have his fingers inside my passage where urine comes out. I felt it gush around his hand when it was in my vagina and the gush came from behind his hand.
    Given the anatomy of a female, how can it come out the urethra when the openings are two different openings? Also as a couple of others have said in their comments they feel it around their dicks?
    Sry just confused....and intrigued!

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      DeliciousEva
      More than a month ago

      Hey there.
      Firstly, what he may have felt is just a lot of lubrication which can come when aroused and orgasming. Also, if it was a gush, not a squirt, it will pool around the whole area and can feel like it's coming from everywhere. Mix that with the pressure of your muscles contracting and the amount of lubrication your body makes, and it'll just feel like liquid central.
      The skenes gland which creates the liquid is offset from the bladder and the path it takes is often through the urethra or small openings that are basically side by side.
      Not all orgasms end in squirt and not all squirts come from orgasms.
      If you can get to a squirt, where it actually sprays from the body, you'll see what I mean about where it comes from.
      I hope this makes sense.

    • Account Closed
      More than a month ago

      i sure hope he didnt have his fingers inside your urethra, that would have really hurt!

  • Teafourtwo
    More than a month ago

    Great article !
    I am a squirter and it really is something else !

  • J5l6m56
    More than a month ago

    I have never squirted until recently. And omg I just can't get enough. Squirting feels like you just want to explode. With the right touch anyone can do it. So come on you guy make me squirt over and over again. I love it and
    You will too

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    HotinBrisbane
    More than a month ago

    In my 20's I experienced a couple of girls that squirted during sex and wasn't experienced enough to make it happen more often. Now however I've had the absolute pleasure of helping many lovers squirt multiple times in a play session. So horny sexy and a huge turn on for me and my fave way to spend the 10 or mins for me to get really hard again. Can leave them in a very very relaxed state after multiples.
    Ahhh, if only I'd known in my 20's what I know now (45)!! The fun that could've been had....

  • Summerbicurious
    More than a month ago

    yes i do this often and wow!!!!

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    Stacey4444
    More than a month ago

    Great article....now can every man read it please?

    • Account Closed
      More than a month ago

      volunteers ?

  • HolidayFun69
    More than a month ago

    Great article. Squirting is one of the most satisfying and complete things I can do as a woman sexually. Men love the feeling of warm liquid all over their cocks during sex. So liberating!

  • MissMelxox
    More than a month ago

    Love this article!! Totally on point ;)

  • urnewbestfriend
    More than a month ago

    Very interesting- I have just met a girl who does this multiple time every time we have sex. I have never had any experience of this and very interested to get more information- from the man's perspective- Is she always consciously trying to do this? Can we have "less messy" sex if it's needed. Is it just me or does this happen with every guy she is with (she is really bashful and won't talk about it- we are a very new couple)

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    Bustydreams
    More than a month ago

    I have only just recently found my squirting power!!!
    I was embarrassed at first now love it!!

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      xtraskilled
      More than a month ago

      Wow it is the hottest thing ide love to make you gish

  • SomeSex4UnMe
    More than a month ago

    My ex is a natural squirter! And I could not get enough of the delicious tasting juices, however her ex husband had got it in to her head that she was pissing the bed and really made her feel guilty about it, so she stopped herself from having orgasms and would freeze up when she was about to ejaculate. It took me two years to convince her she was not peeing but enjoying a natural highly sort after orgasms! The only way I could was to go out and buy a porn video about a girl in her situation who sought help for her "problem", watching that video opened her eyes and her willingness to finally after nearly 20 years of insults she would let go, and we would achieve multiple orgasms for her, One night we managed to have 21 orgasms! I was in heaven! I get my greatest pleasure from giving pleasure, so the more she had the hornier I got, and the was even able to have multiple orgasms of my own, without my cock been touched! Like you said it is 50% in the mind, well sometimes it can be 100%!

    • CoastCuple
      More than a month ago

      Your ex & I must have been married to the same person at sometime, as my ex also abused me when I squirted for pissing the bed, 12yrs I went without enjoying sex.

  • EM2015
    More than a month ago

    Who wrote this article? Are you adequately trained in this area? The fluid from squirting absolutely has traces of urine in it and to advise people otherwise is a total misrepresentation.

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      DeliciousEva
      More than a month ago

      I wrote it.
      Gday to you.
      And I am adequately trained in so far as I have researched it extensively. I have spoken to sexologists and doctors about it and I have done it myself and have helped others do it.
      And I never said it wouldn't have traces of urine. It comes from the same area, of course there will be traces. I said it wasn't solely urine. Because it isn't.
      Cheers!
      :)

    • Account Closed
      More than a month ago

      and as a squirter I can confirm this is correct...it has different consistency and smell, nothing like wee

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    maddoncurves
    More than a month ago

    Very interesting, it's a big turn on for me to make a women s wettness and squirt

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    Whenwemeet
    More than a month ago

    84 and so very much to learn

  • DrivenByYou
    More than a month ago

    Squirting is just best feeling, its so amazing. So guys work harder and girls just let is go. You don't know what your missing if your have never squirted before. Take a chance and go for it.

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    LadyDragon
    More than a month ago

    I have for years in a de facto relationship not climaxed. I have only just joined this site and did not before a few weeks ago realise that my need to "pee" was what this article has informed me of. WHAT A FUCKING WASTE OF YEARS!! My recent new partner has tried to get me to do this and I still resisted. THANK YOU! Guess what I'll be doing next time. Thank you :-)

  • Vans08
    More than a month ago

    It is a major turn on for me, the best sex you can have. I have made a few ex girlfriends squirt over the years. My last ex girlfriend used to squirt every time we made love over and over. My advise is to go and buy a water proof mattress protector other wise you will kill your bed. It is real and it's the best sex that I have ever experienced with a women. If guys can't make a women squirt, they are not in touch with their partners body.

  • PerfectForUs
    More than a month ago

    I knew a lady who squirted every time she orgasmed, ever since she first became sexually active decades ago. Interesting was that she only regularly orgasmed through clitoral stimulation... AND she squirted through 3 small "slits or indents" in her g spot that were visible at all times. I have video of this :-) It wasn't tricky to get the video because she was very orgasmic, and would come every 5 minutes or so once you got your clitoral finger technique right to her liking :-) Mmmmmm feeling aroused thinking of her now...

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    sweetbbw68
    More than a month ago

    thank you for writing this article...now to find a man who can do that lol

    practice practice practice

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      maddoo
      More than a month ago

      I can and I am good at it, u can call me sneaky golden fingers...lol

  • Controlit
    More than a month ago

    We struggled to get my partner to do so, she's further in then most women. It wasn't until a threesome we had that confirmed she can squirt a load the size of a river, the shape of his d hit the spot perfect, But rest assured I have learnt how to get her now, it is worth the patience an erotic play.

  • bbwlady4u00
    More than a month ago

    Now I know what happens when I flood mean gush lol. It's the best feeling and sound haha

  • Codeblak67
    More than a month ago

    This has been my challenge to every girl i`ve been sleeping with.
    First explain to them they will feel the need to pee and its ok to do so..I`ve found in the shower is a great way to start for first timers so they don't have to worry about wetting your bed...
    Trust me once they experienced it , they`ll want it every time and be back for more.. Very rewarding and a win win situation for both xx

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    rubicon4
    More than a month ago

    http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_ejaculation

    This makes for an interesting read

  • allinmymind
    More than a month ago

    I'd like to squirt and reverse park.

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    SmooninSweet
    More than a month ago

    It's absolutely heaven, magical to explode into orgasm not just once but over a three and a half hour session with some mutual friends of mine. The best workout anyone could ask for. One of my partners for the session came three times as it takes a little longer for the fellas. Us women are quite luckier on that level.

  • idealmanforyou
    More than a month ago

    Great article. Will definitely try it. I really want to please the ladies.

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    ItsBrock
    More than a month ago

    Sweet. Now I just need to find a girl. Lol.

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    Dragonfly86
    More than a month ago

    Awesome :) and well written. Very helpful. Thank you

  • Perfectionist83
    More than a month ago

    I actually look forward to this moment,it tells me i did it...Acheived for what I was there for ;) Mission Successful ?

    I Know How To Make My Lover Come,Like She Has Never Come Before...

  • Lovleyy
    More than a month ago

    I squirted for the first time yesterday, I cried because it felt so good and it frightened me because I didn't know what happened (did I just pee in his face)

  • clahrahx
    More than a month ago

    great !

  • Stanton73
    More than a month ago

    Great article. I've never personally witnessed it and can't wait for the first time. I've been with girls who have come close with the 'needing to wee' feeling and not continued, if I had read this I'd have pushed to continue.

    I'll get there, one day!!!

  • coming.out
    More than a month ago

    Thanks for this article and the tips on how to make a woman squirt. Myself and some female friends have been looking for some help on how to squirt. will def be trying this and hope the fun in trying brings the rewards. Thanks again

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    pleasingcple
    More than a month ago

    i hope i can master this squirting,sounds like loads of fun.

  • couple4up
    More than a month ago

    Took a while to master it but my wife goes crazy when we set aside an afternoon for it...

  • blueprint75
    More than a month ago

    Well i wish someone could teach me to do it!! Sounds like im missing out lol

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    looking4some53
    More than a month ago

    lovely article, it's great to be involved with a woman that squirts uncontrollably

  • milflovsblack
    More than a month ago

    I have to agree squirting orgasms are a completely different orgasm all together. I can have four different orgasms all unique in their own way but totally different. Squirting is one of a kind and while it doesn't happen every time during sex it will happen with longer periods of penetration and can projectile across the room if it's built up too long :-)
    Totally worth learning girls! Have shown a few the ropes and they too now have fun with it !!!
    Learn and perfect! That's my advice!
    Wonderful for you, just as great for him! ;-)

  • tooabu70
    More than a month ago

    My man makes me squirt and it nearly hits the ceiling and its not wee,ask my man he loves it squirting in his mouth so sweet ..and bunnings drop sheet work the best .....

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    JessicaRabbit.
    More than a month ago

    I always find it bizarre that I'm one of the only females who doesn't enjoy the feeling...

    Others rave about it but I'll pass thanks!

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      RiverSweetie
      More than a month ago

      I feel the same, I have never really enjoyed attempt to stimulate the front wall of my vagina. It's not a mental worry about extra fluid etc., I find that need-to-pee feeling quite uncomfortable physically. Maybe people have gone for it too early during foreplay... in any case clitoral or even better deep vaginal penetrative orgasms do it for me just fine

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    hottestmamma
    More than a month ago

    I learnt to squirt after joining the swinging scene in my mid 40s...it is an amazing release and is different and separate to my orgasm but can happen simultaneously which is mind blowing....it does make for a very wet bed but so so satisfying.

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    leemaree
    More than a month ago

    in my experience some woman orgasm when squirting and others don't . some can squirt just with clitoral stimulation . its all good which ever way it happens :)

  • Dreamingof3
    More than a month ago

    I'm pretty sure I was 20 the first time I experienced squirting, once you've been there, you won't go back! Happy days!

  • kinkybabe5
    More than a month ago

    Is it true that once you have a squirting orgasm you cannot have an orgasm without squirting ever again?

  • Dreamingof3
    More than a month ago

    Absolutely love it! AND MY FRIEND KNOWS EXACTLY HOW TO GET IT!

  • sexymischiefyes
    More than a month ago

    Great article and so very true!!

  • Nipsnlips
    More than a month ago

    Can somebody teach my wife to squirt????

  • CorruptibleGent
    More than a month ago

    In my forties I learnt how to stimulate a woman's g-spot and that led them to having g-spot orgasms. That type of orgasm took them by surprise and then 4 or 5 of the ladies ended up squirting.
    These women were also in their 40's.
    One element that I can attribute to each was that I made all these women feel very relaxed, we moved at the pace they were happy with and they knew I was totally non-judgemental in the bedroom. This seemed to give them a greater freedom to be less inhibited sexually than they may have previously been accustomed to.
    My long term partner has been very sexually active over the years and was shocked when she first squirted and that was in her early fifties.
    Lots of women are squirting!!!

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    Mindmatters
    More than a month ago

    Hi Eva, a fantastic article, love to share it with my community (with the appropriate credit ofcourse), can we link to this article to a location outside of adult match maker? Is it published on your blog? Thanks

    Mistress Aditi

  • MatthewHimself
    More than a month ago

    How do I "Like" this? Damn you facebook!

  • 50Shades2204
    More than a month ago

    I love taking a woman to new heights and having her squirt everywhere wether with fingers toys or intercourse and of course some dirty pillow talk goes nicely also

  • intomeic
    More than a month ago

    I am 72 years of age and I squirt profusely just by dancing for my lover or it can also happen when I am massaging him. I write erotic poetry and actually have one about my juices flowing like melted snow.

  • Bighornbull
    More than a month ago

    Yes squirting is absolutely real. More ladies I've been with have squirted than haven't. It's amazing to help a woman achieve this level of pleasure

  • ForPlayXR
    More than a month ago

    We're all different, and it's not the be all and end all if you can't. Each to their own. That's why we're all individual. There's enough pressure going on in the bedroom - just cos you don't doesn't mean anything other than there's other fun things to and use. Variety afterall, is the Spice of Life!
    No Complaints from my menfolk...Ever.

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      RiverSweetie
      More than a month ago

      Hear hear! I find all this emphasis on "making" woman squirt a bit excessive. If we ask for for help with it sure, but if we are satisfied with our orgasms let's carry on & enjoy! It might just happen anyway... or not, all good.

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    AMM.Events
    More than a month ago

    Wow, this is our most popular article ever! The human body is such a wonderful machine with so many unique features it's certainly fun to learn how to turn some of those switches on. While the medical jury is still out on many things (some still don't believe in the Gspot) what Eva has written is backed up by countless medical articles so we encourage you to do your own research between the pages and hopefully between the sheets.

  • CurvyGirlie
    More than a month ago

    There are a few YouTube videos on how to get the action right. This one is a bit on the long side but describes the how-to really well. How To Make A Girl Squirt - Give Your Girl An Exp…: http://youtu.be/7FmAHDECFsY
    It isn't wee. It looks, tastes and smells different. I can squirt with an empty bladder...or can squirt squirt squirt and then go and pee afterwards with a full bladder still.
    Also don't expect it to coincide with orgasm every time...it does what it likes and can appear before, during or after orgasm. Waterproof mattress protectors can be a good investment. Or puppy pads from the $2 shop. Have fun :)

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    ImaSexyAngel
    More than a month ago

    I first heard about squirting 18 months ago and have been on a mission ever since to be able to learn how to do it. Thank you so much for the article I feel like it has answered many questions for me.

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    trayway6977
    More than a month ago

    I have only ever squirted with clitrol stimulation , thou I gush big time with penetration

  • makemesqu1rt
    More than a month ago

    I love squirting. I feel so good afterwards, quivering on the bed.

  • pippylove123
    More than a month ago

    I want to squirt ;)

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    Us2forFun70
    More than a month ago

    P.s. Just takin the piss,( no pun intended ) SHE is a great Reverse Parker too, just had to reference NoHarminAskin. Funny stuff.

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    Us2forFun70
    More than a month ago

    Ditto to all the above comments EXCEPT for the hot4curves re : pissing. We too went close several times but SHE thought it was a urinating urge. Once she pushed pass that imaginary boundary and let go ...!! Giddyup..!! It was and is sensational.
    Now for the more difficult stuff... Reverse Parking..

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    cherylann2
    More than a month ago

    An egg vib above the clit hood will make a woman squirt a lot easier than finger and easier on her

  • coastplay69
    More than a month ago

    Thanks for that article. It's totally true. I am 51 and never squirted until two years ago. The right stimulation made it happen and now it is easy, can happen in an instant, and feels fantastic. And yes, a mattress protector comes in handy, as some of our amm friends know too well :-)

  • Toon1978
    More than a month ago

    Wow trying that tomorrow

  • STIMUL8.UR.MIND
    More than a month ago

    I find the best part when a female is squirting is to be going down on her at the same time. The compliments afterwards and smile on their faces, makes it all rewarding (for everyone involved). Foreplay too, I have found is a great way to build up towards making a female squirt !

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    micklick69
    More than a month ago

    bring it on,i drink the stuff,pure honey from the sweetest place on earth....

  • 1HotChilliWomen
    More than a month ago

    Thank you for communicating in simple terms where others can understand and allow themselves to experiment. I have never explained it so simply. Selfishly, if I could cum this way every time I would. Mindblowing for everyone involved! If you never enter "Aladdin's cave" you can never fully understand the treasure that lies within.. Humbly grateful. Sharing is caring! ??

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    snugglebug78
    More than a month ago

    They feel different squirting and orgasm

    • Account Closed
      More than a month ago

      I agree. For me squirting doesn't happen with an orgasm. It's not the same at all.

  • curiousnhorny82
    More than a month ago

    Is it also possible to do it through cliteral stimulation? I've experienced a huge gush of liquid like what you describe using a clit stimulator. It's more of a gush and I've never seen it 'squirt' but it does leave quite a puddle though, lol. I've tried it internally and although it feels nice, it's never had the same result.
    Wondering if I'm missing something.

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    DeliciousEva
    More than a month ago

    ellekate: The sensation can be a lot different to a clitoral orgasm, yes. Some girls experience it like a release of pressure and others like a rush of all over pleasure.
    If you can stimulate your clitoris at the same time it can really help with the all over pleasure side.

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    DeliciousEva
    More than a month ago

    Hi, hot4curves.
    If you read the article it clearly states the gland where squirting comes from.
    It's called Skene's Gland and is the female equivalent to the male prostate.
    The liquid is not urine. Although sometimes urine can be present as it comes out of the urethra.
    The article also states what the liquid is made of.
    I am aware that some porn movies will say they are squirting when they are in fact golden showers but squirting is very real.

    Comfortablynumb, no. Not all orgasms will be squirting ones every time. However once you can do it it's easier to achieve each time

    Cheers to all comments!
    Eva

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    ellekate
    More than a month ago

    My partner has made me squirt a number of times by using his fingers but I didn't really experience an orgasm with it. Is it supposed to feel like an orgasm?

    • Account Closed
      More than a month ago

      I find the same I squirt but prefer clitoral orgasm

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    MarsBar269
    More than a month ago

    I have been with a number of women who squirted. One X in particular gushed heaps...we always made sure we had lots of towels under her or slept in a wet bed. Funny thing it doesnt stain the mattress. Hitting that G Spot is the key and for her to relax and know its not piss and enjoy. We used to web cam and she destroyed [squirted all over] several keyboards and even hit the cam itself.....it shoots a long way sometimes...and not only one time...no problems it was fun...lucky girl..

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    Nicksta70
    More than a month ago

    Wow. That squirting sounds intense and amazingly awesome.

  • Flirtychat69
    More than a month ago

    Awesome

  • hot4curves
    More than a month ago

    Piss!.. if you disagree please name the organ/gland all that liquid originates from.. looks like piss, tastes like piss, is piss, not that I dont like it, just prefer the facts than convenient invention because some may be turned of watersports.. when your hitting a womans gspot you're pushing against her bladder also..

  • PriceofFAME
    More than a month ago

    So tell me though, once you squirt will you always squirt?
    I hear some women are unable to turn off their squirting capability once they find it?

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    oye123
    More than a month ago

    Great article there! :)

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    BumpNGrind6970
    More than a month ago

    My wife enjoys squirting. It isn't a myth and a technique that is easily learned. Some woman are simply amazed that they are able to squirt in a matter of seconds. We enjoy showing other people the technique and have introduced many women to the joys of squirting over the past 7 years.

  • MKY100
    More than a month ago

    You are so right . When my lady friend squirts. She can blow from one side of the bed to the other. Missing the towels laid down ,

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    snugglebug78
    More than a month ago

    So I've been with a few guys that argue this is urine I feel dehydrated when I squirt it makes me feel like I've been to heaven now it's just to find me a man that can remind me what I taught myself with my toys when I was single, well hang on I still am bring on the best years of my life

  • looking70s
    More than a month ago

    it is so rewarding having a lady squirt such a turn on, it is honestly very exhausting for the lady.

  • PETETtoG
    More than a month ago

    I am 60 and have been teaching women to squirt for some years now... Couldn't have explained it better myself.. Yes most have concerns as to peeing but when they get passed that there is no stopping them.. Well done Eva

    • Account Closed
      More than a month ago

      I don't know what the fuss is about. Obviously im missing something.
      I can,do and have squirted many times. I can feel the wetness and hear it. But there certainly is no orgasm that comes with it.
      What's that about?

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      DeliciousEva
      More than a month ago

      That's also common. And completely normal. I've had similar. Sometimes quite a while after the actual sex or orgasms. Sometimes before.
      Because it has a lot to do with the muscles in the area the gush will often happen with the orgasm because that's when the muscles are at major tension and release. But it's not technically a result OF orgasm if that makes sense. I think, for me anyway, the double release of orgasm and squirting creates the intensity. But I have also experienced it without. There may be ways to see if you can match them up. Can you recognise the feeling? Can you control when it comes?
      Pelvic floor exercises and kegel balls could definitely help you strengthen and train the area to give yourself more control .

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    Curious1947
    More than a month ago

    Wonderful ! It is that intense, it blows me away for about 20 mins, I feel like a rag doll.. Then I want more !!

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    ayoungcouple
    More than a month ago

    I love it!!! plus unlike a clitoral orgasm I can have squirting orgasms over and over!!! I go through a lot of towels!!!

  • NoHarmInAsking
    More than a month ago


    And I heard it was little more than a weak bladder, well there you go, women learning to ejaculate, next thing you know they'll be learning to reverse park :-)

  • mrmeaner39
    More than a month ago

    yup absolutely exists...glorious to watch...never tire of having a girl just lose it completely during a huge climax...fantastic moment...

  • cuddlypairrback
    More than a month ago

    My wife squirts every time we have sex. Each time we have to place a waterproof mat down on the bed to catch it all.

    It simply gushes out of her....very sexy !

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    ByChance2
    More than a month ago

    Wow what a amazing article. Thank you for giving insight to this. It is awesome so try !!

    • Account Closed
      More than a month ago

      mmmmmmmm

  • serg685
    More than a month ago

    is like everything,,find the right way and spot and u will get what you are after,,so guys,,work hard,,and have fun!!

  • SnoopMate
    More than a month ago

    and so true...you're spot on. She does gush a Niagara load!!

  • Funforus22
    More than a month ago

    Wow! Amazing and very helpful! Thank you for myth busting :-)

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