Top 5 Sex Positions for Her to Orgasm

Orgasms are one of the best pleasures in life. They are free, mostly abundant, and have the power to make everything better! I say mostly abundant because, while most women can achieve orgasm via clitoral stimulation, for many women reaching orgasm purely from internal stimulation is as impossible as trying to lick her own elbow. While there are all sorts of ideas and theories as to why this may be, a scientific study by the Indiana University School of Medicine and the Mayo Clinic published in the journal Clinical Anatomy suggests that one of the secrets to achieving it lies in what sex position we have sex in.

According to this study it is all to do with what they call “the migration of the clitoris”, which refers to how closely the clitoris gets to the front wall of the vagina, and with the angles in which the penis enters and hits the front wall (for your information the ideal angles are between 30 to 45 degrees).

With all that science in mind, we came up with some of the best positions for you to try to get the best chance of finding that elusive O.

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Cowgirl

Girl on top positions are always great for both parties because not only does she feel like a gorgeous sex goddess riding on top of her man, she’s also mostly in control of everything that happens. She directs the pace, the depth, the angles, everything, and also has her hands free to touch herself or him, to have him touch her breasts or her to lean in and kiss her partner (if forward facing), and all the excellent visuals for him if she’s backwards facing. It’s a fun and sexy position and one that almost anyone can do!

Take it to the next level: As mentioned you can face forward or back, you can sit up on your knees or lower down, and you can also change it completely by doing the backwards sit and then lying right back so her back is flush with his front in what is commonly referred to as Asian cowgirl or squat position.

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Doggy

While normal doggy style is probably the most popular of all positions for so many reasons and in so many ways – visually for him it’s an incredible view of her arse and back, and it frees up the vulva and clitoris for playing with fingers or toys – according to this study it’s not actually all that great for the internal orgasms as the front wall isn’t as stimulated as it could be. But by turning it into lay down doggy, with her belly against the bed and his weight on top of her, it makes all the difference and this popular position can now be enjoyed not only by those with dodgy knees and other joints, but to also help facilitate those hard to get internal pleasures.

Take it to the next level: Using pillows under her belly or pelvis is a great way to change angles and depth of penetration while still getting to that front wall spot.

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Spooning

Intimate, sensual, and close. That’s how spooning feels just in a cuddle, so when you add intercourse it’s a really gorgeous way of sharing that intimate moment with your partner in a closely held, loving way. As he wraps around her pulling her close she can use her hips and arms/elbows as leverage to keep the rhythm going, and he can reach around and touch her breasts and belly and there’s also room for adding toys to the mix as her vulva is exposed enough for clitoral stimulation. For those demisexuals out there (those who are only sexually attracted to those they are in love with) this is a wonderful position of closeness and sensual feelings.

Take it to the next level: As mentioned you can add sex toys to this position and she can change the depth and angles of penetration depending on how both parties move their legs.

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Modified Missionary aka Coital Alignment Technique (CAT)

This is a missionary position that relies on good communication and a little bit of patience from him, but is very worth it in the long run. Basically it’s very similar to your original missionary position but with a bit more thought on his part. Get your partner to gently slide inside you while being as close to your body as possible (without suffocating you of course) until the base of his penis is in direct contact with your clitoris. Then, instead of pumping up and down, he keeps his body at that flatter angle and moves in and out, rubbing against your clitoris and your G-spot at the same time. Keep it nice and slow (too fast and he can slip out) and make sure you use lots of lube. We also recommend, if you shave down there, to not do this on those stubbly sharp days because it will feel a lot like sandpaper and that isn’t sexy for anyone!

Take it to the next level: While you’re just learning this technique it’s a good idea to stick to the basics, but once you’ve both worked out the best angle and depth for alignment you can start changing it a bit by adding pillows underneath or changing the angles of your legs. Remember this is not a deep, thrusting position and he needs to be slow, patient, and aware of your needs.

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Anvil

With her legs right up against her chest and him pushing into her, there is a depth to this position that is rarely achieved through other positions. His penis rubs not only against the front wall of her vagina where the G-Spot is, but also his pelvis rubs closely with hers allowing for clitoral stimulation. It can be slow and soft or hard and dirty, but there’s always a kind of mutual intimacy with eye contact and the closeness of your two bodies. It’s not a brilliant one for those with slightly less stamina in their legs than others but there are ways to achieve it with a few adaptations.

Take it to the next level: Spread her legs a little wider, or close them tighter for a completely different sensation and penetration. Try the legs straight, and then bent to also see how that changes the way it feels, and there's always the option for some fun BDSM type accessories with ropes and cuffs and other ways to hold the legs in place.

 

39 Comments

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    LuluandHarry
    More than two weeks ago

    Anvil is one of my fav positions:) Great article!

  • MarcAsk
    More than two weeks ago

    I have a theory or is it someone else's too...Is there any truth to the body having the orgasms as a defence mechanism. Meaning that pulsing of the blood stream in both man and woman is like pulsing a hand in the bath tub. If done in unison at similar pulse rate the bath will start to overflow, hence in lovers may do some kind of damage if not for the orgasm reaches a resonance, to more sensitive areas eyes brain ??? The theory goes further too as it may even be some kind of servicing or tuning of the heart. Maybe a Calibration ??? Enjoy your resonance and servicing....lol

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    Ineedsum12bwith
    More than two weeks ago

    Although I haven't had a lot of success bedding a woman ,I am confident that cowgirl is the best position. I have a kind of dancing -based like fantasy, and if a woman is on top of you, and in the reverse position especially, it really feels like she is really dancing for joy on top of you!!!

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    Muscular2020
    More than a month ago

    I like 1 leg up and 1 down on missionary its the best feelings so I have been told..

  • Libertine001
    More than a month ago

    Anyone tried the "Angry Dragon"...??
    Mr google has the answer.

  • DeliciousMe29
    More than a month ago

    Love being on top so I can watch the enjoyment on his face, but when I put my feet flat on the bed he goes deeper and that feels so good. And I would like to try 69 with a women love to lick ??.

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    ednbondi
    More than a month ago

    No one has mentioned the "pit stop". Her lying on her side while you straddle her lower leg with the other bent up above your thigh. Great for deep penetration, has that stimulation of the front wall, can involve toys and you can also fondle her breasts, bum or bend forward and kiss. You also have the great view of her facial expressions, her back arching in pleasure and her throwing her head back as she orgasms. I have had so many women get off this way. You have to try this one. A few women only wanted to do this way once experiencing it as they got off every time.

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      AMM.Editor
      More than a month ago

      Is that the same as Binding Spoon? All the positions seem to have alternate names and Pit Stop isn't one we're familiar with.

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      ednbondi
      More than a month ago

      Not quite the same as the binding spoon. Move the woman further onto her side with the top knee on the bed and the man in more upright position much like he would be in doggie style but straddling the lower leg. Pit stop because it's a good middle point to transition from missionary to doggy without having to disconnect.

  • LaimaRizzel
    More than a month ago

    love being on top.. I bring myself to orgasm every time. I especially love being on top while he is sitting up in a chair or the couch.. makes it easy to grind down deep while he has full access to me with his mouth.

    • AdelaideBrent
      More than a month ago

      Yes, my fav position to see my woman climaxing while facing her.

  • Gnomey721.
    More than a month ago

    My ex partner introduced me to.lying side by side but my feet near her head and her feet next to my head,we moved a bit then she put h.er .rnear leg over my chest so my lovely hairy dinner was in my face allowing me to do what she loved,a pussy burger ,lol, all for her I said and she had multiple orgasms.plus many squirts,a great position to treat your lady to being looked after,no more wham bam thank you maam like ehen muuch younger,try this guys your lady will love it

    • Account Closed
      More than a month ago

      hah wow

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    slapntickle76
    More than a month ago

    Would love to try double penetration. Heard it’s amazing

    • 05bigpete13
      More than a month ago

      I don’t think it will be hard to find someone willing to help you out with that. You guys are a hot as hell couple.

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      Nopaperbag
      More than a month ago

      Only problem you’ll have with DP is you might find it addictive once you try it :)

  • April4986
    More than a month ago

    Loving that I've just found out the name of the technique that has always been much better for me than just repetitive pumping LOL: Modified Missionary, CAT.. this is why missionary will be my equal fave to cowgirl :)

  • BehindTheScene
    More than a month ago

    Not every woman can orgasm from just penetration alone.

    My favourite way to bring a woman to orgasm is her on top in like a reverse cowgirl position, but completely laid back on to me. From there you have have full access to nipple and clitoris stimulation while she grinds your cock into herself, and faces are close too for kissing.

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    Happywoman49
    More than a month ago

    I like them all

    • wantsfun21
      More than a month ago

      Would love to help you out with all those positions and would love to give you a full body sensaul massage

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    SweetestSins
    More than a month ago

    I love being on top.. I bring myself to orgasm every time. I especially love being on top while he is sitting up in a chair or the couch.. makes it easy to grind down deep while he has full access to me with his mouth.

    Better again is riding until I’m close then finishing on his face ;)

    • Mischeviouslad
      More than a month ago

      On top is such a glorious view, when a woman is in total control of her own pleasure and lost in the motions and moment ??

    • NursenDoctor
      More than a month ago

      And what a lucky face that would be!

    • charlesdesire6
      More than a month ago

      Now that is hot! Love having her sit on my face ;-)

    • agoodsoul
      More than a month ago

      You are what fantasies are made of.
      Guys like me can only dream of girls like you.

    • JustFun4us69
      More than a month ago

      Wow. That's hot!

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      InnerVampire
      More than a month ago

      Very well put!

    • Account Closed
      More than a month ago

      good girl...

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      wally7999
      More than a month ago

      Oh yes babe cum over my face

    • AdelaideBrent
      More than a month ago

      Its great for a guy, especially me.

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    Ifuwannadome
    More than a month ago

    all of the above an more

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    auracouple
    More than a month ago

    My sweetheart loves doggy & cowgirl. She gets her big Orgasms being a cowgirl while my hands on her beautiful ass or squeezing her sexy big tits.

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    IVAONE60
    More than a month ago

    Her on top taking charge while i play with her breasts and nopples. Drives her crazy.

  • Morepleasesir13
    More than a month ago

    Age and time (weight) has caught up with us
    67/77
    So doggie

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    cs4some
    More than a month ago

    Yes I have a great wife that loves all these positions, add an additional cock for some DP on her pussy and some toys and she is one happy women.

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    harrohorny
    More than a month ago

    I'm lucky. I have a top lady that puts herself in all these. And loves it

  • JustFun4us69
    More than a month ago

    Doggy, reach around and rub her clit and a finger in her arse. Works every time!

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    Lester518
    More than a month ago

    Her on top, my thumb on her clit works well

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