When it comes to facials, are there health risks?
Q: I’m a bit curious about facials, you know, the sex kind where he comes on your face, but I’m also a bit concerned. Are there health risks? Is it degrading? Any help or advice would be great, thanks!
Let me first start off by saying this: Anything in sex is only degrading if you feel degraded by it. We’re all so policed by other people’s opinions that we often forget we are individuals with our own likes and dislikes. One person’s idea of degrading is someone else’s idea of the best time ever, and that’s perfectly okay! As long as both (or all) people involved in the moment are consenting, happy and feeling good, then it actually doesn’t matter what anyone outside of that moment says or feels about it because it’s got nothing to do with them! If, however it is something you feel uncomfortable about or unsure, it’s important to work out if it’s something you actually want to do, or something you are doing to please someone else. While yes, it is good to listen to, and communicate with, and want to satisfy, our partner’s needs, sometimes there are certain things that just don’t sit right with us, and it is always okay to say no.
What is also okay is starting off slowly. As in, start lower. Having him come all over your belly and boobs can be super sexy for both of you, and can help you to build up to the facial thing.
Another thing that is really important is to make sure (unless it’s part of the play) he lets you know when he is going to come. This will help you prepare for the splash, the taste, the smell, and to make sure you close your eyes. This is, in my opinion, the MOST important thing.
I’m not gonna lie, one of the most uncomfortable and painful things I have ever experienced in my lifetime of sexy-times is getting cum in my eye. Seriously, that shit stings and can turn a super sexy, ultra horny moment into a “fuck fuck, my eye, get a cloth, fuck, where’s a towel ouch, fuck, ouch!!” moment.
Apart from the super sting and ensuing red, sore eye for a day or so, there are other health risks that you should take into consideration. The eye is protected by a mucus membrane, very similar to the mucus membranes in and around your vagina and your mouth so, even though it’s not quite as risky as unprotected sex, anything that has other people’s bodily fluids coming into contact with your body poses risks, and just because the risks aren’t as great, doesn’t mean you should be lax in your vigilance. Regular STI testing is definitely recommended for people who have lots of sex with lots of people, and even in monogamous relationships it’s a good idea to get tested, even if just for peace of mind.
It’s a really good idea to keep a wet wipe or towel or something nearby for wiping your eyes before you reopen them, because that stuff is dribbly and can find a way in easier than you think, but don’t stress too much about wiping it all off if you don’t want to, because according to a few different research papers I’ve read, semen is actually full of proteins that can be effective in moisturising and toning your skin, double-meaning for facial really!
So all in all I think the advice is the same for any sex act and curiosity you have. Be sure you want to, be sure you have consent, be sure you’re safe, and then go on out and enjoy yourself in whatever way you choose!
14 comments
Subcurious75
More than a month agoI normally have my glasses on to keep it out of my eyes, but love the feeling and the look on the guys face when he unloads, degrading no its tells me I've done an awesome job
POPPRTBEAR
More than a month agommm cool lol nice lot of cum is nice
Blue262
More than a month agoThe cumshot was included in early porn as proof the sex wasn't fake. The facial is a violent version of that, from the late 60s/early 70s when men realized that males in straight porn were appendages, of no importance.
ReplyIt's been a cliche for so long now that people think it's sexy because they saw it in a porno when they were young and forming their preferences. You can be into whatever you want, but be aware: much of what you think is great might just be ideas that were received and never examined.
Wickedlyfun2022
More than a month agoLove cum sprayed over my face.. of course i close my eyes. Lol
ReplyAlso nothing hotter than feeling the sensation of cum hitting my skin.. on my boobs. My back my arse. Love it..yes my tongue too. But i never swallow.. lol
But hey thats just my likes and comment...
Softtouch35
More than a month agoSounds like an article written by a heterosexual lady for other ladies.
*Having him come all over your belly and boobs can be super sexy for both of you, "
You need to get out more sweetheart.
DeliciousEva
More than a month agoSounds like a comment written by a rather pathetic person who has nothing better to do that comment on articles that were clearly not written for them.
But I'm the one who needs to get out more?
Cool story, "sweetheart".
Carry on...
KinkyGirl101
More than a month agoJust an interesting observation about facials and AMM members. Search for women who are into facials and you get 40 pages, search for men and you get 788 pages. Personally I think this tells us more about porn than anything else.
tastetester61
More than a month agoI don't disagree with you on this, but equally I think it gives an indication of the disparity of member numbers between males and females. You girls really are in a position to pick and choose, the AMM world is your oyster.
KinkyGirl101
More than a month agoYou're right, I should have done it as a percentage. So looking at members who have been active in the last 30 days, 7% of women and 19% of men have facials as a sexual interest.
CriCat99
More than a month agoDon't mind a facial but prefer that yummy cum in my mouth for me to swallow .... real power trip.
Replytastetester61
More than a month agoCum isn't good for your skin. Repeated applications will result in dry flaky skin. After hearing the same thing about it being good for skin, a girlfriend I had many years ago decided to put it to the test. While the application of it was fun, she was looking like a leper in no time. She went back to swallowing and looked all the better for it.
ReplyFriskybeach
More than a month agoDefinitely not good in the eyes..
Replymandgee
More than a month agoAh, yes; the sting in the eye. Some years back my wife and I were at a party, and got into a very inviting 69. A guy came along and accepted the invitation. I watched his cock going in and out an inch from my face. And when he came I really got an eyeful.
POPPRTBEAR
More than a month agoMMMM SOUNDS COOL