Creating connections is what Adult Match Maker is all about, so it's no surprise that Valentine’s Day is one of our most favourite days here at HQ.
AMM members celebrate all forms of sex and relationships, from hook-ups to lifelong companions, and don't subscribe to the idea that sex must be reserved solely for people "in love", however there's no denying the unique soul-like connection and feelings of completeness we experience when love and sex are combined.
Because Valentine’s Day is a celebration of lovers Eva Sless has put together five of our favourite sex positions that embody the connectivity and intimacy that comes from sex with someone you love.
He sits cross legged on the bed and she sits on his lap, wrapping her arms and legs around him and slowly rocking. It's a really beautiful position for slow love making with both of you wrapped so tightly together you can feel your lover's heartbeat through your own.
From behind, he envelopes her into a close bear hug, pushing into her body as he pulls her into him. Not only does it give him perfect access to her breasts and her unobstructed access to her clitoris, it's an ideal position for him to whisper his deepest feelings and desires into her ear.
Like the rocking horse, but instead of sitting on the bed, he sits on a chair (a straight-backed dining chair is the best sort) and she sits in his lap facing him. She can use her legs as leverage to move up and down on top of him, and also controls the speed and depth of penetration.
Eye contact and kissing go hand in hand with love and intimacy so face to face positions are always great for those deeply meaningful and connective moments. Cowgirl not only ticks those boxes, it's also another position that puts her in the saddle and allows her to set the pace.
Always given a bad rap and labelled boring and "vanilla", missionary position is probably the best and most intimate position for the sex we have when we want to make love.
Seriously, don’t listen to the "sex police". Just because it's probably the most common sex position enjoyed throughout the world doesn't mean it's boring, it just means billions of people love it. And why wouldn't they? Two bodies moving together, literally as close to one another as they can possibly get, is anything but boring.
So Happy Valentine's Day to all our members and their lovers. We hope you have a wonderful, love-filled day and that all your sexy, intimate dreams come true.