What do you do with an uncircumcised penis?


Q: I hope you don't feel this is a silly question as it's something which, as a newly divorced female, is troubling me. I was married for 25 years to a lovely man but we grew apart and now I find myself back in the "dating" game. The problem is my husband was circumcised and looking at some of the profiles there appear to be many guys out there who aren't. Help. What do you do with an uncircumcised penis?

It's absolutely not a silly question, it can be quite daunting not only jumping into the world of dating and sex after a long relationship, but also navigating bodies we're not used to, regardless of specific differences like foreskins or not.

There are a few distinct differences between circumcised and uncircumcised penises, the most obvious one being how they look.

Probably the most common penis type we see in pictures and in things like sex toys is the circumcised ones, the long shaft and the helmet on the top, so it's no wonder that if all you've ever seen in reality and images is one type you're nervous and curious about coming across the other.

An uncircumcised penis, looks a bit like a circumcised one wearing a turtleneck, with the skin of the shaft coming up over the tip. Some foreskins are longer than others so the head isn't visible at all, and others you can see the head peeping out, and as they grow to an erection some foreskins will retract further than others with some showing the full head and others not.

The other distinct difference is in the way it feels, both for you and him. Firstly for you, it will feel like the penis is in a sort of wrap, which essentially it is. You can slide the skin up and down the shaft and it's like a sleeve rubbing the penis. In sex this means there's less friction to the vagina and can actually be more comfortable than constant thrusting, especially if you're sensitive or have low lubrication. Secondly, for him, the foreskin is not just extra skin, there are thousands of nerve endings there so when you tug and stroke and play you may find you need to be a little bit gentler than you've been previously. Also be aware that even though the foreskin moves up and down as you tug, if you pull it down too far it can really hurt!

Probably the best advice I can give you, though, is to actually ask the owner of the penis you're playing with what they like. Be honest. Tell them you've not played with one before and ask them to help you by guiding your hands to show you what they like. It can be really sexy and fun learning all the ways a new partner ticks, so enjoy the journey and have fun! And remember to always look after yourself and have safe sex.


  • andrewhawk1976 Photo
    More than a month ago

    I once got shamed by a female because i was uncircumcised and that the skin sits lower then other guys. I have tight foreskin and doesn't go back and can actually hurt when it does and while i try not to let it affect me, sometimes it does and makes me ashamed of how i look and think that this is why i am single and sexless.

  • DDdelite
    More than a month ago

    I love all cocks.....

    HOWEVER uncut cocks drive me wild. Yes your heard me.....I'm positively wild about foreskin.

    I love the taste and texture, the movement of it as you massage your hand up and down the shaft.

    Watching the foreskin cover the knob is so sexy. I especially love running my tongue around inside the end of it and sucking on it gently. It gets me so incredibly wet and the guys love what I do with it.

    • hauman2u
      More than a month ago

      Yes i agree with you fully.

  • SweetDesirezz
    More than a month ago

    I prefer uncircumcised. I love pulling the foreskin over the knob with my mouth then rolling my tongue between the foreskin and the cock. Oooh yeah!

  • Bartender84 Photo
    More than a month ago

    I am cut but i LOVE the look of an uncut! Also the uncuts would also have more easy movement when inside a woman or man just anatomically speaking. The extra skin gets wet and slippery causing easier movement inside the vagina...making it more pleasurable to the man and the women. Just a dumb theory of mine :) shit horny again!

  • SaphireTS76
    More than a month ago

    I honestly prefer circumcised penis's ..but since reading your article, I may be swayed to give the other kind of penis a go..

    • SirLaughalot72
      More than a month ago

      Darling., if you haven't tried it - how do you know ?

    • DDdelite
      More than a month ago

      Oh believe me lovely, it's the best. Just give it a do. You never know unless you give it a go. Make sure it's clean. Most men are taught at a young age how to care for their foreskin. I taught my son how to gently pull it back and clean it with his finger and water only from age 3.

  • Slimshaddy
    More than a month ago

    Hmm thats intresting; I have a circumcised cock; the article regarding it being more comfortable in the vagina with an uncut one makes me regret getting it cut; so to speak. The main reason i had my one cut was that I find it much cleaner; looks as well as bacterior wise; regarding inbetween the foreskin and the head.

    • DeliciousEva Photo
      More than a month ago

      Its all so subjective and individual it's actually really hard to make definitive positions on it.
      I've had great sex with both and not so great with both.
      Sex and sexual enjoyment is different for each person... And with each person that person has sex with.
      If you're enjoying yourself, and your partner(s) enjoying it... Then I don't think it matters one way or the other at all.

    • DDdelite
      More than a month ago

      Well said Eva!

    • Account Closed
      More than a month ago

      Yeah i guess your both right ladies; either way i think I still would get off with a cut or uncut cock, ??????

  • sexlesstony
    More than a month ago

    I have a uncircumcised but i have been rolling the skin back since i was a teenager but when my penis get erected the fore skin rolls back and it looks like circumcised and the extra actually give more pleasure to a woman and because i been pulling my fore skin back for many years it made my penis head much bigger and i keep it clean all the time really lady's look for me if you interested to find out.

  • BareNakedLady1
    More than a month ago

    Yep - ask the penis owner. Always a safe bet!

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