5 Reasons why we love a quickie


"Quickies are the Big Macs of the sex world. They are pure, guilty pleasure," says Joan Elizabeth Lloyd, author of Now and Forever: Let's Make Love.

A quickie can be every bit as satisfying as a slow, languid love making session - and sometimes even more so. There's something about sneaking away from a party and getting down to business or grabbing your partner when he's already dressed for work and throwing him on the bed. Quickies can be amazingly hot! There can be a lot of excitement and arousal and sometimes the orgasm doesn't seem as important, it's all about the journey rather than the destination (for those of you who have read "Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance").

There's a time and a place for quickies - well actually any time and anywhere as long as you're not going to be arrested and as long as all of your sexual encounters are not wham bam.  Here are the 5 reasons why we love them.

1. You can leave your hat on 

It's the urgency which gives quickies their appeal. Sex is generally about getting naked but when you're talking about quickies there isn't always time to waste those precious minutes. Part of the thrill of a quickie is spontaneity and nothing says spontaneous more than not stopping to get your gear off. And there's nothing sexier than sliding clothes aside just enough to expose the bodily bits you want to play with.  

2. Location, location, location 

Quickies in the bedroom don't quite have the same allure as a quickie up against a wall, in the shower, on the kitchen bench or even in a more public location. It's often the thought of getting caught which ups the excitement ante. But really as long as it's relatively private and you're not going to be interrupted for 5 mins there's really nowhere a quickie can't be indulged in.

3.  The after glow rocks! 

You'll boost your mood, feel energised, reduce your stress levels and the flash backs will continue throughout the day and the night.  Encore anyone? And the next time you hook up or practice some self love you'll have those images in your head ready and raring to get you in the mood.

4.  Orgasms are not the main objective 

Well it would be nice if an orgasm happened every time but 5 mins doesn't give you enough time for heaps of foreplay and oral sex to make any guarantees.  And a quickie doesn't even have to be about penetrative sex - a quick blow job in the shower or some mutual masturbation can be loads of fun. So think about pleasure rather than orgasms, adjust your expectations, pick a position that works for both of you (but with plenty of clitoral or g-spot stimulation for her) and enjoy!

5. There's no time to feel self-conscious 

The whole point of a quickie is you usually don't know when it's going to happen and given that most of your clothes are staying on there's no need to feel self-conscious about grooming, or lack of grooming. We guarantee your lover is so focussed on the task at hand there's no time to focus on the smaller details. 

We're definitely not suggesting you forgo your candlelit date nights followed by slow, sensual sex for a series of wham bam moments but a well orchestrated quickie can do wonders for your sexual repertoire.  

Yep, we love stepping out of our usual routine and indulging in a down'n'dirty quickie.  So c'mon - your turn to share - where, when and who did you enjoy a mind blowing quickie with. 


  • chesswiseagain Photo
    More than a month ago

    At my age, a quickie is never on... A lot of foreplay is...

  • Shyner
    More than a month ago

    Quickies are great !!!! Quickies mean you're both on the same page emotionally and sexually ....If you have both initiated quickies ,then your relational health is robust, and yes , the flashbacks happen during the day and are the fuel for your future sexual encounters together! !! Have her tingling for the rest of the day, and hope you don't have to be a bastard at your work - you've got too many endorphins in your system ...

  • Sb455t
    More than a month ago

    Wife never liked to see an erection wasted, dropping home for lunch was always a bonus desert! Memories!

  • JustR8ted
    More than a month ago

    Quickies-I read the headline,i didn't read further,is there need to?
    Ever wonder there is substance past the quickie rather than self gratification?
    And what is in a quickie?
    Wondered why,there after and where there is unfullfillment and questions.

    Ask yourself why,would a quickie be an oversight?And why you would let it affect your mentality lol?

  • JydinTobio Photo
    More than a month ago

    Ahhh the quickie, if only it was possible to find someone that quick for a quickie lol.

  • Leolady727
    More than a month ago

    I well remember a lady I worked with, many, many years ago, telling me that her partner was a lovely, romantic man and she appreciated that but she said "you know, sometimes you just want a quick, hard fuck"

  • Firmyoungman
    More than a month ago

    Love quickies!
    Quick wank on the back seat of the bus, quick wank in the movies, quick one in the drive-thru car wash. Awesome fun, really gets the juices flowing!

    • Leolady727
      More than a month ago

      Oh dear, poor you - a "quickie" usually implies with another person

    • trixie46
      More than a month ago

      Yes a quickie is normally with another person NOT your right hand!
      PS - Very hot body buddy!

  • rimdriver Photo
    More than a month ago

    Love 'em! Being unzipped and played with while watching a band on the dance floor, never saw her face. A doggie while admiring the view from a balcony window at a party. On the warm bonnet of my girlfriend's mothers' car after she asked me to leave her daughter's party. In a park at Waterloo near overlooking units. Not far away in the unisex toilets in a restaurant. Couple of close encounters, 3some and 4 some at Hellfire.
    You always remember them in instant flashbacks.

    • Account Closed
      More than a month ago

      Your quickies made me laugh after a shit day :) Thanks

  • Ourdirtysecret2
    More than a month ago

    Mmmmm I have a few good memories of the quickie. The perfect one for me was bent over the bonnet of a car by one of our finest, boy did he teach me a lesson or two. But then on the other hand I had what was suppose to be a quickie ended up taking for ever to get rid of him.

  • Que5tor Photo
    More than a month ago

    Call me the wet blanket, and not the good kind. Like the idea of a quickie, but am neither young enough or old enough. The legacy of films about S.T.D.'s has prevented me from going out and having fun randomly. On the plus side, I've missed a lot of awkward conversations. On the minus side, I missed out on having fun. Lots and lots of fun. The book Zen and the Art of Motor Mechanics was a title I saw. Never read it.

  • Sweetangelic3
    More than a month ago

    I agree... the best stress release is when you contact a random and ask if you can quickly drop by to say hello... (my hello generally involves me on my knees and a mouthful of stress relief..)
    Then can generally just say catch ya next time and go on about my day...

    I walk away feeling amazing

  • dangme
    More than a month ago

    Contacted a woman on a dating site. She was a real estate agent. Agreed I'd go to her office and meet for a coffee. Arrived and the secretary had gone home sick and the other agents were out. Opportunity knocked. Quick suck and fuck in the office kitchen. And back to work for both of us.

  • Sextraordinary
    More than a month ago

    Birdie Beach with onlookers (+ 'digital' participants!)
    Disabled toilet in St Leonards (dang me that was a first!)
    Up against a tree in a national park
    Can't remember them all.... SUCH naughty fun! Quickies get the juices flowing!

    • Account Closed
      More than a month ago

      he he he x

    • trusted8 Photo
      More than a month ago

      You are such a naughty girl, it wouldn't matter where it was as you always seem horny enough to accept a quickie, let alone a long quality session with those who want to please you. Well done gorgeous.

  • coastiegirl80 Photo
    More than a month ago

    A friend that I had been with before and knew if I hinted he'd accept
    Good thing own a 4wd seat dropped back climbed up and over did the deed

    • boaty92
      More than a month ago

      well he must not be good when he is trying a 4wd as you could want as more to that than just 4wheels to as he would find out to

  • Gemxxx
    More than a month ago

    Place - Lookout tower black mountain Canberra.
    Timing - about 5 mins
    Partner - a friend I was catching up with.
    Clothing - her mini skirt, me jeans.
    Position - doggy. Cliterial stimulation.
    Result - orgasmic view :)

  • baysidermale Photo
    More than a month ago

    One of my best quickies was bumping into an ex girlfriend in the shopping centre, still having that sexual spark between us and going down to the car park where she gave me the best blow job and not spilling drop.
    Thinking of it now even many years later is still hot

  • SassySandy Photo
    More than a month ago

    MMMMMM Quickies!!!! an INSTANT HORNY BLAST!!!!! the car, the office, duck in and out at home, on the beach.......LUV IT!!!!!

  • wildone76
    More than a month ago

    I love quickies especially when it is with someone you aren't committed like a work colleague where they can be a one off.

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