The Ultimate Sexual Bucket List
Eva Sless
on 10 March 2015
44 comments
Ever since the movie with Morgan Freeman and Jack Nicholson people have been getting on the Bucket List bandwagon and I for one am happy to budge up and make room for others on this trend. I love them! Whether it's something awe-inspiring like climbing Everest or a silly personal goal like eating every single flavour of Tim Tam ever made, creating a list of things you want to do before you die is a great way to set future goals and work out what and where you want to be in life. Or just have some awesome fun that you probably normally wouldn't in your everyday life.
I reckon, though, everyone needs a few different lists. One for your career, one for your experiences of once-in-a-life-time things and, probably my favourite, one for your sex life.
Let's face it, sex is awesome. Expanding your mind and discovering new sexy things to do is even more awesome and I truly believe there are some sexy things everyone should try at least once in their life. Adult Match Maker's recent Sex Survey found that Aussies have an extensive list of sexual fantasies.
So here it is, my sexy bucket list suggestions that will open your eyes and your world to some of the most amazing sexual experiences you'll ever have.
Go to a Sex Club
Whether it's a swinger's party or a BDSM club or a live sex show, there's nothing more exciting than being in a room full of erotically charged people. Find an event in your area (the Adult Match Maker Events Section is the best place to start searching) and find one that suits your needs and curiosity. There are all sorts of different nights and parties to suit all tastes and experience levels (yes, there are even events that cater for single guys). Find a beginners night or ones that encourage first-timers if you're a bit nervous about being thrown in the deep end, and go experience something new!
Have a Same-Sex Experience
I kissed a girl and I liked it. In fact, I liked it so much I do it as often as I can and encourage everyone (yes, everyone, boys too) to see what it's like to indulge in the sensuality of a person who shares your gender. You don't have to even fuck them. It could just be an FFM or MMF threesome or group play session. Be comfortable with your sexuality! It won't make you gay. It won't send you blind. It won't cause the world to end... But it may just cause you to open up a whole new world and dimension to your sex life.
Play Outside
Now I don't necessarily mean boning away in the middle of the street, I mean not only is that illegal but you do have to remember we live in a society and not everyone wants to see you bumping uglies in the marketplace, but there are ways and means of “getting off in public” that can be so subtly done no-one but you and your partner will ever know. Having your partner rub their hands between your legs while you sit in the back booth of an inner-city cafe, sneaking into the airplane loos to join the Mile-High Club, hiding behind the sand dunes at the beach. You won't believe the rush you get from the exciting risk of getting spotted and the intimate sharing of a secret that no-one else is aware of.
Play a Sex Game
You can buy specialised sex games at heaps of adult shops or you could make up your own version like strip monopoly or naked hide and seek. Play with food, and ropes and blindfolds. Getting sexy while playing and having fun is awesome. Laughing and sex go hand in hand and you find so many of your inhibitions go out the window. Give it a go!
Have a Faceless Sexual Experience
I don't mean necessarily literally, like in a dark room or wearing masks. Go out and have a one night stand. Pick up a person in a club or on an online site with the sole purpose of having a one-off experience. No strings. No names. No phone numbers. Just go for it. Liberate yourself!! (But remember to be safe!)
Go to a Sex Ed Class
Learn the art of Tantra or take a course in shibari rope tying. There are classes and workshops you can take on how to spank, how to learn how to squirt, the art of strip-tease, pole-dance, burlesque. I have seen information sessions on sex toys and anal sex. There are always new things to learn and taking a class run by a professional who knows their stuff is a great way to learn all about them.
There are so many new and exciting experiences out there to indulge in, and we only live one life, so get out there! You could even combine some of them. Like having a faceless experience in a BDSM club with a person of the same sex. Orgasmify your world with an experience like no other and start ticking things off your sexual bucket list!
44 comments
JessicaLou
More than a month agoPersonally i like to call mine a 'fucket' list
ReplyItson1985
More than a month agoYeah that was very basic. You have to be kidding right?
Replykinkeykink
More than a month agoGee I thought I was going to read something new and exciting.
Replytacokisses
More than a month agoNice. Done them all and would love to try them again :)
ReplyWhenwemeet
More than a month agoI didn't know that all excisted I will try it all at 84 I have to hurry any one that can help me,very much appreciated.
Replybigasia
More than a month agoLove hard xxx
ReplyAMM.Events
More than a month ago@pleasingcple check the Events section for Tantra workshops and there is another article by Eva about Squirting which you can read.
Replypleasingcple
More than a month agoWould luv to do tantra. Squirt. Orgasm freely. Where do u get info on there.
Replypleasingcple
More than a month agoI'd like to try d p. Woman fuck me with a strap on. Sex on a train. Sex party. Gang bang. Two woman fighting over me and pleasing me while I lap it up. Plus lots more.
Replybingbang45
More than a month agoDo ladyboys in Thailand count as same sex?!!! It's a starting point on what should be an amazing journey but you only find out by going out and trying it.
ReplyBrisbanelion69
More than a month agoLikewise....all the above... Even in an outdoor hot tub in the arctic forest...!
Replymrjones.sydney
More than a month agoThat's a fairly basic bucket list. There are so many other amazing things to do. I think this one is aimed at people not already on this website.
Replyserg685
More than a month agobucket list?get real,,i enjoy life as I go who cares whether I do it or not is all in your mind,,enjoy what you have got and while you do yeah?
Replythepervs40
More than a month agohow about cuckolding ?
Replypussykat1
More than a month agoCert on my to do list .
ReplyThe sex club and tantra classes.
A faceless stranger nice nice nice
Mr.Austin
More than a month agoyep, all bar same sex experience which is in the pipe line...
Replywelp...
sweetcheeks111
More than a month agoI agree with most other comments. That is a very common list of sexual desires. Most sexual ppl like myself would have done most or all of them.
ReplySome fantantic memories...
freshmeatxxx
More than a month agocheck, check and all check :)
ReplyDaddydom66
More than a month agoAll done.
ReplyHave my own more sinister sexual list im currently working through.
Biker67
More than a month agodamn done all that already its not very exciting really, oh well it was an interesting read
ReplyBlondiebaby
More than a month agoMmmmmm bbc Gang bang !!!
ReplyLeolady727
More than a month agoI still have ONE thing on my bucket list - a DP
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Replydamienchef971
More than a month agoAnd what still on your list
50shadesoffun66
More than a month agoSounds like fun bring it on
ReplyMindmatters
More than a month agoDeliciousEva luck has little to do with any of those experiences. Drive, curiosity and action has much more to do with it. We all can have the exact same opportunities like everybody else if you only realize your challenges and educate yourself so that you can surround yourself with opportunities to explore or creating those opportunities yourself.
ReplyMuzza139
More than a month agoGreat list and great aspirations...satisfying I achieved what I aspired to experience and it just happened so now a bigger list is needed.. enjoy your sexuality folks and remember 'If it feels good - Just do it' The world is a wonderful place!
ReplyDeliciousEva
More than a month agoYou're very lucky, MissPandora.
Replyyou and me and many other people have had the awesome luxury of being able to explore and indulge in some amazingly awesome experiences.
But, as you can see from many of the comments, not everyone has been that lucky, due to a myriad of factors...
This list is for them. For the timid, the nervous, the don't-wanna-be-vanilla-anymore-but-not-sure-where-to-start members of the world.
To a billionaire a ride on a private jet to a private island might get boring... But to the majority of the world, just getting on a red-eye flight to a new city can be an experience of a lifetime.
We're the lucky billionaires. Be grateful! And kind.
:)
Sultry78
More than a month agoDone all of this, never realised it was some people's bucket list...
Replybardot262
More than a month agoAnal sex receiving & group sex& gang bang only thing left for me
Replyandy0071
More than a month agoI can't even get my bucket list started well got married had kids it's started but with a shelter life I just want too get out and do everything that I possibly can before I am to old and fat as some already think I am
Replytallong
More than a month agoGet in now and do it all, because beleive me, when you get up in years, everyone seems to go of the boil. Im 76 and still want to do it outside, but partners are very scarce.
Replymisspandora101
More than a month agoWell is that all. .boring bucket list... Maybe that's why I call mine the fuckit list...done all of mine except fuck on famous landmarks around the world have to sell my house to afford that fantasy
Replyjinxee999
More than a month agoYour bucket list is only limited by your imagination and the size of your bucket....thank god for a active and fertile imagination
ReplyDeliciousEva
More than a month agoLuv181 Yeah absolutely start it slow and comfortable for you. You don't need to go jumping in to anything. It's not necessarily even about the sex with them, but about the broadening your sexual horizons and becoming as comfortable and in tune with your own sexuality as you can possibly be.
ReplyEnjoy the ride!
DeliciousEva
More than a month agoWhen you've tried them all you can't start making up new combinations!
ReplyEndless fun!
Add toys. And other people. And whipped cream.
Ooh... There's so much fun to be had out there!
aussieboy200355
More than a month agoall except the same sex ... not my cup of tea ... but there is a couple of fantasies id like to try with a woman who can squirt
ReplyMRandMRSbye
More than a month agoI am looking to try the same sex thing,but I would a female present too I think.
Replyreefexplorer1
More than a month agoWow this sounds like lots of fun. Playing outside is always fun. Maybe I should try the same sex thing as well?
Replyfuntwo13
More than a month agoWheewww. Nearly there!
ReplyWhere does one find contact details for the sex ed classes (those a bit more than mainstream)?
Pabs2.0
More than a month agoGood article.. but like wanting to & naughty .. Need a new list.
Replymkyguy38
More than a month agoSounds like a plan. although have done a lot of them I'd like to do them again.
Replynaughty.one
More than a month agoLooks like I need a bigger bucket list, as I have done all of them already
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ReplyAccount Closed
More than a month agoHahahaa agreed
wantingtoplay40
More than a month agowell thats the bucket list for me all done :-( now to find new stuff to add
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