The Bottom Line on Anal Sex Taboos

you can not compare any other orgasm , when you have your sex partners cock inside your anus when your cumming , there is one other ultiment anal orgasm.

when your sex partner cums inside you as you are having amazing anal orgasm at same time,
the feeling of hot cum filling up inside your anus is out of this world sex

I really enjoy giving anal sex, from experience I find that if the other person is more relaxed, uses lots of lube and has their ass teased and worked over gently before hand, that can make a huge difference.
I also have a lady friend that always makes herself cum while I'm giving her anal, with her on her back, ass on the end of the bed/ table / chair , legs spread and her rubbing herself with her hand and sometimes with a vibrating dildo. She says the combined feeling is amazing.

A few women I have known have not been keen initially but generally because they believed they shouldn't admit to the intrigue. I have never had anal sex with a woman who hasn't at least enjoyed it and occasionally preferred it. I agree that you need to go slow and stretch gently - tongue, fingers, lube, maybe toy before cock ... but then fees so good for both - unfortunately I still can't last very long once my cock is deep inside that tight, yummy cavity!!

Best root I`ve ever had, it should be compulsory

Love it!

anal sex has been practiced in Europe and especially in the middle east when a girl wants to keep her boyfriend and still be a virgin on her wedding day for her husband

I really enjoy anal, but don't put it on my list of interests. This is because I once had a message from a guy saying "So, will I be wiping sh*t off my dick" - I found this extremely revolting and disrespectful. Some men on this site should stick to cheap hookers - that's all they deserve.

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  so true, what a dick

For 4Erioed

Normalising is such a loaded word. Because it lends itself to the idea that it is otherwise "abnormal" and that's simply not the case.

You know, people used to carry on about "normalising" pre-marital sex or homosexuality or other sexual practices that are deemed "taboo".
The key issue in any sexual contact and experience is consent. If the people you are meeting/sleeping with are not respecting you enough to ask or discuss or realise that everyone's preferences are different, my suggestion is to find new people to have sex with.
There is nothing "abnormal" about anal sex. There are just different people with different tastes.
Not being into it is as normal and okay as wanting to do it every time you have sex... Like I said, it's about consent and communication.

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I find its not all its cracked up to be.

When done right...it's the best feeling

if it feels good go for it!
its very sexy licking a girls arse and having it in return. also fingers and toys are fun to play with, should not be taboo! its just a very sensitive and sexual area to enjoy! go for it. :)

The problem with normalising anal sex and saying it is just like normal sex is I find 99.9% of guys expect it. Not ask about, not talk about it, but just expect to get it and act like you're weird if you don't want it. I'm not saying it's good or bad depending on people's preferences, but keep in mind the more popular it becomes, the more weird and strange girls who don't want it are treated :(

Nothing like Receiving anal sex i Love it just wishes i could Land more cock in my arse Mmmm. Oh yes and I'm male and Orgasm from my arse....

OMG.... Face down ass up, that is all i have to say

Anal is like nothing else give or receive I love anal

Pegging is the best. I think if you wanna bang your girl in the tail pipe, you should try it too.. you know, be fair and all haha! I think the stigma with male anal play and being gay is ridiculous.. If it makes you cum harder than anything has before, why wouldnt you do it!? Id never go back ;)

I love anal sex in every way.It's so much fun and I love everything about it.

I guess is all fun for as long it's not my arse the one we r talking about!! Happy arse fucking,

That all being said, my last boyfriend and I engaged anal a few times, and he was pretty respectful/understanding (even without us having an explicit conversation about aforementioned "issues"). I enjoyed it, and maybe I'd enjoy it even more often if that anxiety was taken away. However, I think maybe it is important we talk more openly about anal sex, if for no other reason than guys realising it can not always be an option. I'm not sure where the balance is, but I certainly know that I don't want most one-night/casual affairs putting it up my butt.. Yet it really is almost expected, even in terms of fingering.

Speaking of which, that's another thing I've noticed lately... Guys going directly from rimming, to cunnilingus. I mean, in one straight lick up.

Please; no matter how clean someone is or appears to be, this greatly increases the risk of a UTI, and she won't thank you for it.

... I guess these are the types of things we need to address more in Sex Ed or something, because seriously, it's not cool to have to be explaining the potential unpleasant health risks so often.

Thanks to the people who have a good knowledge of the body and cleanliness (and good sex etiquette)!

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  barebummed

  More than a month ago

  I know this isn't the issue being discussed but it's amazing how many men are unaware of how a woman's body work, not just regarding potential infections going straight from anal to vaginal penetration, but also regarding female orgasms through penetration. The majority of women aren't able to orgasm through penetration alone (a very lucky percentage can), yet it's still expected.
  
  The problem is that we can't expect them to just know if we don't tell them. I gave my boyfriend at the time an article to read and said "don't take it personally" and I think it helped him to feel less inadequate. But it's definitely the same with anal - communication is extremely important and if you're uncomfortable about something or you're worried that they might go from back to front then talk to him beforehand and make sure you set those guidelines.

However, the actual comment I wanted to make was, I think why it's so hard to talk about -- especially for women -- is because we are not usually raised or encouraged to speak openly about bodily functions, especially pooping. It feels awkward, particularly with a partner that is a casual thing. Yet an unavoidable part of anal is talking about what the ass's primary function is; largely because, as you mention, these days anal sex is on top of a lot of people's interest list, so it will often be requested/mentioned in a sexual encounter... But how can I turn it down or express anxiety about it because maybe I'm not feeling too well or stable "down there" (see, it's hard enough to talk about when relatively anonymous online!), and I don't want to risk anything unpleasant?

... It's not exactly a sexy topic. Yet you can't really have one without the other.
By many accounts, gay men find it easier to talk about that aspect, as they're both more likely to have first-hand experience. Or maybe I need to stop being concerned about seeming "unfeminine" by talking about this... But something tells me that's still going to be a challenge.

Anal sex that has been prepared for with the proper stretching methods (ie. make sure you work up to it by stretching with a small, then gradually larger and larger butt-plug in the days/weeks before regular anal sex) should not cause incontinence. Although there are a lack of studies on this issue (it's not something that's easy to get funding for!), there is certainly no conclusive evidence that it will hard. Haemorrhoids would be a risk if one was having ill-prepared or excessively rough anal sex. So, if you do indeed find anal pleasurable, just make sure you do a but of muscle prep/stretching, and you should be fine :). (Yes, your ass won't be quite as tight as someone who hasn't let it stretch a bit, but it should by no means be loose... Muscles are made to accommodate stretching! :))

I would have been one to say OMG about Anal sex. No way
My first experience was so painful.
But then as time goes by. I'm finding it more enjoyable.
Better orgasms and to have a look of satisfaction on yours and your partners face. Well what a way to go.

I agree 100% with CaptainSCK, and with myself being bi, I can truely sympathise with a lot of women whom have had previous bad, forced, anal experiences with 'Mr Average', who seem to have no idea what the meaning of slowly/gently is:-/
....hmmmm, i can honestly agree with the time old women's saying's of-'pathetic male's', and 'simple male's'!!! ....even more so when aroused, and there brain certainly does indeed seem to shift from the head on their shoulder's, down to the one that when's hard, seems to half their mental IQ! Lol!
And as for 'buxombitch's' comment...all i can say is...you are one truely lucky bitch havin an 11 incher at your mercy!!!!!

Anal...Love it,giving and receiving.Girls,guys and Transgender. Being "pegged" yes. Like Buxsomb..It is for me a real turn on seeing and feeling your cock disappearing up a tight hot arse....no holes barred 3 or moresomes....ecstacy!

My wife says anal sex gives her the best orgasms...

I love anal sex. When im seriously turned on I can take my husbands mate whom is 11" balls deep & i orgasm. Trick is to get seriously turned on first.

I think a number of women don't go there because of either the pain factor or bad first time experiences which puts them off future experiences...

When anal foreplay commences with rimming and gentle unrushed fingering, toying, gentle care and respect, anal sex makes fantastic kinky sex!

Nothing better!! My ex loved it, I've had a lubed finger which is very nice and I would allow a lady to peg me if she was slow and gentle with me.

One in the bum no harm done i say

As a guy who's quite happy to let a woman fuck me with a strap on its funny when a girl says "you wouldn't know what it's like... " yes I do, which is why I think you should enjoy it :P but hey, to each their own

I would say 95% of girls like anal yes u can have a bad experience and yes there are guys out there who don't respect that you need to be gentle but from my experience when the have had it done the way it should the girl begins asking for it

No taboo around here. If it brings orgasms, squirting and smiles, get to it!

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  way to go