7 Reasons to watch your wife have sex with someone else
Eva Sless
on 1 December 2023
35 comments
Having an ethical non-monogamous relationship is a pretty special thing. For the most part, if done correctly, it can be a way to create strength and bonds beyond anything you thought possible in your past relationships. It has a way of connecting couples deeply, through mutual experiences and shared secrets, and can open your minds to a world of fantasies and sexual pleasures which could completely change and enhance your life, even outside the bedroom. Whether you're into hotwife/cuckold or stag/vixen scenarios, threesomes or the swing lifestyle there's something extraordinary about watching your wife enjoying herself and being enjoyed. We've narrowed it down to seven sexy reasons why it's so awesome.
1. Shared Pleasure - Even from a Distance
Voyeurism is a powerful turn on for many, many people, and sharing it with your partner is a great way to bring you closer together as a couple. Getting that exciting feeling of watching (maybe you're hidden, maybe you're not), and that naughty tingle of voyeuristic pleasure is arousing and titillating and will put images and fantasies into you and your partner's fantasy spank bank for years to come.
2. Strengthened Trust and Deeper Communication
Dipping your toes into open sexual lifestyles requires a high level of trust and mutual consent, which is formed by long, deep conversations, and respect for each other's desires, fantasies, and boundaries. Not only that, but talking out your fears, jealousies, and any others hesitations is such a great way to really get to know your lover in all the ways that make a good partnership great.
3. Heightened Sexual Confidence
For those of us who manifest compersion rather than jealousy (ie. feeling pleasure rather than displeasure at someone else's enjoyment) seeing your partner being desired and pleasured by others really can boost your own sexual confidence. That gorgeous woman, being enjoyed by another, comes home to you! Is performing for you! You can watch her pleasure from angles you've not seen before, and even learn or pick up some new tricks along the way.
4. Hands On Education
As mentioned up above, watching your wife having a good time with another person can be a top way to learn some new moves and ways to pleasure her when you get her to yourself again. Take mental notes of the different ways they touch her, and how she reacts, and then put it into practice yourself. Ask her about her favourite parts of the experience and see if you can replicate them. Even if it's something you've not tried before, it can be a lot of fun working it all out.
5. Exploration and Variety
Swinging and swapping and watching from across the room, as well as the conversations you have before and after the experiences really allows you and your partner to explore different fantasies and desires within the safety of your strong relationship. Maybe there's something your wife would like to try that you're not too sure of. Maybe there's a "scene" you'd like her to perform for you. Whatever the fantasy or fetish or kinky little thing, it's wonderful to be able to explore it all with each other's enthusiastic consent.
6. Relationship Growth and Self-Discovery
There is nothing better for your personal growth than self confidence, and this is the same for growing and mantaining strong partnerships. Knowing yourself and your own mind is not only important in living your own life in this great big, scary world, it's also super important for creating relationships that work on multiple levels to enhance and empower the people within it. Opening and sharing your sexual experiences, with all the communication and mutuality we've mentioned above, will give you tools and confidence in parts of your life you never even thought you needed them.
7. Fun and Adventure
Couples who play together stay together, and by that I mean couples who have fun and are silly and laugh a lot and know how to have fun are always going to be happier and healthier than couples who don't know how to have a good time. Regardless of if your "good times" are board games and long walks on the beach, or watching your wife getting fucked by a hot tradie while you watch from the corner it doesn't matter. Having laughter, sensuality, and excitement in your life will only lead to more fun, good times, and a relationship bond stronger than steel. And really, when you think about it, what more could a couple of sexy people like you and your wife want?
Always remember that consent is mandatory in all situations, and for all people. Even if the fantasy includes someone being hidden, it is imperative that all players are aware of the situation. When it comes to boundaries and hesitations you should always go at the pace of the most hesitant and never forget that consent can be given and withdrawn at any time.
We'd love to hear from the husbands out there! Tell us about your sexy wife!
35 comments
hotcuckholdwife
More than a month agoI love watching my wife with other guys love seeing her enjoy her self also love watching guys enjoy my wife i love getting my self in positions where i can see penetration it also turns me on waiting for my turn it brings us closer together after we play
ReplyMelcra
More than a month agoGreat article, even though we do this and we both enjoy it, I never really understood why my hubby liked it so much. Now I understand better
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ReplyFuckudeep129
More than a month agobecause its such a turn on, watching and then joining in
sensualsixty
More than a month ago9th reason is to see how it's done properly. (-:
Replysensualsixty
More than a month agoThe 8th reason....you walked in and caught them at it.
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ReplyFuckudeep129
More than a month agoGood or bad
countryman25
More than a month agogood article and yes it got my wife n I closer
ReplyCouple002
More than a month agoGreat article,is a fantastic experience seeing my wife been enjoyed by others and the pleasure she receives,definitely brings us closer 😀
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Replyhot2go17
More than a month agoIt is Hot,
Im So glad I could join you guys a couple of times and enjoy your wife in front of you.
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Jayvon
More than a month agoWatching and joining are great. But seeing my wife give and get pleasure from others is amazing and for all the reasons above. Good artlcle.
Replypeter1p
More than a month agoExcellent article. Describes our mutual pleasure in each other’s pleasure.
ReplyCountryfun01
More than a month agoMy wife and I enjoyed it for some years, we were as close relationship wise than we ever have been. But for some reason she wanted to stop so miss it greatly but that’s the decision she was more comfortable with.
ReplyZilla088
More than a month agoI wish my partner would consider Swinging..😔
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ReplyAccount Closed
More than a month agoSame here - imho these people are so so lucky
countrytouch82
More than a month agoI've been the extra +1 sharing the wife with her husband present for over 8 years now :)
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ReplySexyExplorer
More than a month agoWow!
OzandViet
More than a month agoMe and my husband only swing in the same room as it's a turn on watching him enjoying himself while I let the other husband enjoy me.
ReplyPiconlyjohn
More than a month agoMy hobby is actually to watch others and take photos of them (for them). On occasions it has been for them to look back on when someone else was involved with them, sometimes they have asked me to be the extra. So much enjoyment in watching, can really add spice to a relationship.
ReplyBeautifullife79
More than a month agoIt s a beautiful article about our lifestyle .
ReplyFundayz10
More than a month agoWe were both married very young and for more many years then both marriages ended .When we met we both had very limited experiences and I was super keen for her to try more partners while I watch 👀and join in sometimes.She very much enjoy’s the thrill of setting up a coffee date and being pleasured in front of me when we arrange a play date.Nothing better than watching your sexy wife enjoy her new found freedom after so many years with only being able to play with one 🍆😜🔥.Merry Christmas 🎅everyone.
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ReplyTeetee2023
More than a month agoThat was great
santana2
More than a month agoTotally agree
Fundayz10
More than a month agoThankyou guys.xx
MrTMrsT
More than a month agoLove it
ReplyMissMasBeach
More than a month agoIt can be incredibly enriching when you are both really sharing the moment. With real trust and communication, playing with others whom we both like is the best thing about swinging, especially the pillow talk between all of us afterwards. You do need to be secure on your relationship for it to really work well.
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ReplyTeetee2023
More than a month agoYes I agree with you
Hedotoday
More than a month agoHave to say it’s an awesome dynamic to be engaged in.
ReplyI’ve been lucky enough to meet some great couples.
Fuckudeep129
More than a month agoI'm single not partnered up, but when i was in a relationship, i quite enjoyed watching her get fucked, was such a turn on.
ReplyHavefunwithme43
More than a month agoAbsolutely adore my hubby watching as I please other men and women
ReplyBiMarlin
More than a month agoWhat about vice a versa? The article focuses on sharing the female but what if the female sharing the male?
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ReplyAMM.Editor
More than a month agoThis article is really interchangeable for either but was written with this focus as it was a suggestion from a member. We did include some generic references to "partner" within the article.
abcplus1
More than a month agoWe both enjoy watching the other with someone else. It's a powerful image and a wonderful memory.
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ReplyTwinCities
More than a week agoLikewise! We both enjoy taking a moment to watch each other pleasure and be pleasured by someone else. Knowing how good what they do feels and seeing the other person experiencing that is awesome.
allforfun1965
More than a month agoAbsolutely spot on nothing better in life than sharing a beautiful wife
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Replykcodess
More than a month agoAgree knowing she's so into it and enjoying the moment