How to enhance her arousal with breast play

by Eva Sless - 06 August 2016 - 32 Member Comments

Boobs! How good are they! Not only do they feed and nourish us when we are new to the world, and look awesome in certain types of clothing and designs, they can also be sources of great pleasure and eroticism. There are so many fun and exciting things you can do with breasts and there are even some people who can orgasm directly from nipple and breast stimulation! 

Like all people and bodies, every breast you'll come across (no pun intended, really!) is different and will react and respond differently, but the good news is it can be a lot of fun working it all out and exploring the sensations you can give and receive from concentrating on pleasuring the boob.

We've come up with four really simple and effective little tips and tricks you can do to maximise boob pleasure and improve your bedroom skills.

1. Breasts Are Not Just A Nipple

This is, I think, a really important thing to understand and realise. Yes, that perky, pinky brown nub is the centrepiece, but it is not the be all and end all of breast stimulation. In fact, for some people, direct nipple stimulation (especially without a warm up) can be sensitive to the point of painful and uncomfortable. Take your time to kiss, and stroke, and touch all around her breasts, along the sides, on the so-soft-it's-almost-like-air under skin, even the areola (the coloured bit around the nipple), before you even attempt to bring the nipple into it. If she's someone who has super sensitive nipples she will appreciate the care you've taken to warm her up and not dive right in, and if she's someone who craves that nipple touch... well, just imagine how much she'll crave it if you touch everything but it for a while.

2. Warm Chocolate Sauce

Or caramel, or strawberry, or whatever flavour takes your fancy really. All you need is regular ice cream topping and a microwave. Make sure the sauce isn't too hot because ouch, and drizzle it over the breasts and nipple. The sensation of that thick, warm gooey sauce is incredible, and match that with a hungry, slurpy tongue and the kissing licks of your partner's mouth, and you could end up being one of those lucky nipple orgasm people!

3. Ice Cubes

Like the chocolate sauce, going to your kitchen for kinky accessories is so much fun and super cheap too! This is a really fun and sexy way to play with breasts (and for the kinkier of us out there, is even better when matched with hand cuffs or restraints and blindfolds) and is a phenomenal and practically fail-safe way to get the nipples as hard and as sensitive as possible. The icy cool of an ice cube, matched with the eager hotness of your mouth, can illicit the most amazing and opposite sensations. 

4. Clamps, And Clips and Chains, Oh My!

Before you go covering your nipples and running away saying “nuh-uh I don't think so!”, let me reassure you that not all clips and clamps and chains need to be as hardcore as fetish pictures and porn can make it out to be. There are so many things you can use and buy and play with to add extra sensation to your nipples, and they really don't have to be that scary. Nearly all clamps etc that you can buy are adjustable so you can have them as tight or as loose as you like, and just the act of having something lightly attached to them can make all the difference in sensation play.

The main thing to remember is that breasts can be just as erotic and sensitive to some people as their clitoris or penis, and that learning how your partner likes to be touched is the key to a happy and satisfying sex life to you both. It's important to always communicate your wants and desires, and act and listen accordingly, and remember to have fun, be safe, and always have consent.

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  1. Jessyj

    More than a month ago
    I totally enjoy having my boobs played with! The more boob play the better for me! Jxxx
  2. angie689

    More than a month ago
    In my 20's I enjoyed breast play so much I could almost orgasm.. but they have changed in sensitivity over the years.. still very important as a part of foreplay, but takes more care to get the motor running nowdays! Very good article! I like the chocolate topping idea :)
  3. twisted47

    More than a month ago
    I dream of having my breasts played with just like that....
  4. TEN4YOU

    More than a month ago
    Hi , great suggestions you give in your articles and it would be great if the advice were taken . Some of these men can't pleasure a woman to save their lives ,they're all words and no action . Maybe manuals should be sent directly to their homes lol .Thanks.


    More than a month ago
    Hmmmm you think so ? lol
  5. beniceeveryone

    More than a month ago
    Great suggestions I have a few new things to try on my next encounter
  6. wewantoshare

    More than a month ago
    Gonna try a couple of things there. Think I have lost the art of erotic breastplay.
    Love using oil, but I tend to go straight for the nipples, and neglecting the breast,
    something I will change.
    And the topping also.


    More than a week ago
    put some Nutella on your breast and get it licked off.
    I would do it for you LOL
  7. Privateer76

    More than a month ago
    Once had a girl over (Zero Date Bang Recipe, natch)...
    Kissing over wine on the sofa..then she pinched my nipple under my Trump 2016 t-shirt, hard. Not to my liking and I told her.
    A little later it happened again.
    Last warning.
    She must have been deaf, or very persistent.
    Third time she was directly out.
    I kept her coat.
    She's lucky I'm a nice guy.


    More than a month ago
    Surely this comment is a joke :))))


    More than a month ago
    No, Melody - serious.
    But it was before my Trump shirt came in the mail. And I didn't keep her coat.
    But I did "Get her outta here!"
  8. Smoothnsexy88

    More than a month ago
    Mmm memories of an ex that would cum in minutes just by slowly kissing and licking her boobs!
    Where are these women?? I'm yet to find another :(


    More than two weeks ago
    They are out there... They are just more sensual than others!
  9. trusted8

    More than a month ago
    Thanks again Eva for throwing some light on this subject. We are all built differently, but fortunately have similar desires and needs when it comes to sex. Guys, take the time to explore another breasts and find out what works for them, (guys or girls) whether it be gentle massaging, tweeking the nipples between your thumb and forefinger, licking around the nipple, sucking slowly and drawing outwards.....whatever works, I tell you that its one of the best foreplays one can do for another....before doing the horizontal mumbo.
  10. friskypuz

    More than a month ago
    love great breast and nipple play,, suck,them nibble them pinch and enjoy they.

    when done right I will cum just from the right nipple play. love it
  11. sweeth3art

    More than a month ago
    What amazes me is when I go to bed with a lover and they pay no attention to my breasts and nipples at all? Especially given my profile states 'nipples connected to clit'!


    More than a month ago
    They must be blind!
  12. MrandMrsMichael

    More than a month ago
    I knew a lady with E cups, she would orgasm just with me orally massaging and sucking her breasts. She would shudder with orgasm. Then again when we fucked, her on top with her beautiful E cups being sucked. Amazing experience.
  13. Misterious1

    More than a month ago
    I love how a woman responds to good breast play. Massage with hands, tweek nipples with fingers, suck nipples, clamp with teeth then suck. Running feather over them whilst she's blindfolded and ice in mouth with massaging clit,pussy with fingers. Caress the neck with soft to firm touch, run tongue along ear lobe and soft suck at bottom. Then whisper in her ear "I'm going to fuck you so hard!" exchanging nipple play with ice to clit and pussy lick. Mmm, nothing better than pushing all the right buttons to make a woman cum.
  14. SusanGKing

    More than a month ago
    Mmm love my girls played with, fondled, licked, slapped, juggled & play with them myself. But very nice having my partners fingers in my juicy puss while sucking on my nipples....
  15. Mike.D.001

    More than a month ago
    I like to massage breasts while kissing (Natch), but also, licking around the breast (especially the underside). Another thing is that just after nuzzling/suckling a nipple, pull back & gently blow on said Nipple. Makes it Harder.
  16. CurvvyBella

    More than a month ago
    Breasts and nipples have never been a big focus for me. But get the suck just right and it's a leg trembling delight


    More than a month ago
    Thats why you are on my hotlist Curvy
  17. Zamboon

    More than a month ago
    I have met 3 women who love their nipples pinched - but strangely in different ways - the one that likes her nipples pinched hard between thumb and forefinger doesn't like them being pulled, the other prefers a firm grip and then pulled hard until she begs to stop , the other likes them pinched firmly and scratched on the tip - just illustrates that people are different and one needs to communicate and ask and find out what is preferred before plunging ahead and hurting - another lively lady who loved being fucked hard ( her words) only wanted her nipples sucked gently..... I am always happy to oblige but one lady asked for her tits to be slapped - I was brought up never to hit a girl in the breasts so that's the one thing I cannot do ...


    More than a month ago
    That's not very gentlemanly of should always accommodate a "lady's" requests ;)
  18. Leahan

    More than a month ago
    I am one of those very lucky people who can orgasm from breast and nipple play, it is nearly always the first orgasm I have, it is as intense as any, and has the added pleasure of increasing the moisture level in my pussy....yes, yes, so very good,


    More than a month ago
    Have we met? Because I do remember a wild fling with an AMM friend and making her cum with delight simply by playing with her tits.....well done!


    More than a month ago
    Mmmmmm, me too Leahan. I love breast & nipple play. I love my G cups, put simply


    More than a month ago
    Our girl is one of the lucky ones too. To see the body shudering with only breast and nipple play is amazing


    More than a month ago
    I'm a lucky one as well - has to be done just right!
  19. allinmymind

    More than a month ago
    I like urea cream and cum. Please don't apply a peg and ask the women to turn over in bed. Some people might have flat lumps and one near the nipple isn't very nice. Also you can sometimes have sore boobs when you take off your bra from stress, and apparently B6 helps. You could write a boob on boobs. Some people might have a fear of being clamped down on with teeth, bad past experiences.


    More than a month ago
    Shine on, you Crazy Diamond.

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