10 Reasons Why Sex with a Toy Boy is So Hot

by Adult Match Maker - 05 January 2016 - 37 Comments

“A girl can wait for the right man to come along but in the meantime that doesn’t mean she can’t have a wonderful time with all the wrong ones.”

We’ve already touched on why we love the sexual energy and experience of a mature, older woman - now we’re turning the tables and taking a good, hard look at some of the sexiest playmates anyone could ask for - toy boys!

According to the Urban Dictionary a toy boy is a "the much younger male partner to an older or middle-aged woman".

We're sorry but this doesn't cut it. We think you're more the " younger lover who adores mature women" or a "passionate younger muse to remind us to spend more time in bed and less at work".

A survey by Prevention Magazine found that a third of Aussie women over 40 admitted they had dated (or bedded) a younger man and we know why. So here’s just a taste of why we are so very fond of taking a toy boy to bed - again, and again, and again. 

#1 You're exciting

Maybe you've come out of a long-term, boring relationship or you've been busy building your career. Regardless of the reason you now have a hot, willing young man in your bed, or on the beach, or up against a wall.  If you make it out of the bedroom you'll find your toy boy is a risk taker (younger men usually are) so prepare for your heart to be in your throat outside of the bedroom too. You'll feel alive and your heart will pump. It's like a sexual roller coaster and you won't want to get off. 

#2 You're great for the meantime

Toy boys aren't at the stage of their life where they're looking to settle down.  Sure, if they find the right girl it will happen but they're loving life, they're loving sex (with you) and they're not expecting you to make long term plans which include them. 

There's no need to introduce him to friends, or your parents - unless you want to - your toy boy relishes alone time with you and, in fact, he probably prefers it. Toy boys are good for the meantime, and that's exactly where they stay.

#3 You aim to please - and you do 

We're not implying that an older partner will always be the most experienced one or that a toy boy will be relatively innocent - it’s simply that toy boys, in general, are tremendously keen to learn and to please and are generally dedicated to the task. When you have a toy boy between your sheets you have a willing student like no other.

#4 Your stamina

You stay up half the night, wake up for another round of hot sex in the morning, head off to play sport or work the whole day, then still have the energy to come to bed as if you’d done nothing but lay in a hammock all day. 

You’re more of an energiser bunny than the guys we've dated previously and as long as we send you home every couple of days so we can refuel we're more than happy to be along for the ride. 

#5 You're not clingy or demanding

We talked about it in our article In Praise of the Mature Woman but it's worth mentioning again. We're not looking for a boyfriend who is attached to our hip and toy boys aren't expecting anything permanent.  So it's the perfect match. 

Sex on tap with an adoring younger man who isn't going to sulk when you've made plans with your girlfriends or when you have to travel for work. He can scurry back to his mates, his Fleshlight or the sports channel when you're otherwise occupied and you know he's only a phone call away when you beckon. 

#6 You boost our confidence

You love having a sexy confident woman in your arms and in your bed - and you tell us - repeatedly. It's refreshing to have someone younger appreciate our maturity, our outlook on life, our confidence. You're not threatened by us - you're proud of us - and that makes us feel like a goddess, a highly sexual woman who has found someone to match her desires.

Another benefit of your confidence boosting attitude is you make us feel younger and having a toy boy at our beck and call is way more fun than botox. 

#7 You’re uncomplicated

Any kind of relationship with a toy boy has a good chance of being uncomplicated.  Both partners know exactly where they stand, as toy boys are great at making their intentions and feelings clear straight off the bat. 

#8 You're playful

You're not dragging your past relationships into our casual relationship so you allow us to escape reality for a brief moment and add a playful or silly side which we might not get from a partner the same age. We love waking up with you and spending the day watching Netflix in bed, or eating jelly shots in bed at 1am or toast at 11am, or doing a nudie dash for a midnight swim. 

#9 You won't break our heart

Ladies we're all guilty of going to bed with someone and after 3 dates we think we're in love.  It's the way we're made! But there's something about going to bed with a toy boy that's different.

Your eyes meet across the room with a handsome young man who is obviously trying to flirt outrageously or can't keep his eyes off you.  After a moment of hesitation - if any - you engage in conversation and most probably decide fairly quickly whose place you're going back to.

At this point you're not thinking past ripping his shirt off and having his hands all over your body. Breakfast - relationship - marriage - kids - they're just not on the agenda and you both know it. 

#10 You have technology smarts

If we can teach you a thing or two in the bedroom, you can probably teach us a thing or two about our smart TV or controlling all of our electronics through our iPad.  And believe me, that almost gets us as wet as remembering what you can do with your tongue - for hours.

There are so many reasons to love toy boys. With the sex-positive approach to a younger lover, you’ll very quickly discover all of these reasons for yourself - that’s if you haven’t already!

If you enjoyed this article you might enjoy our blog post In Praise of the Mature Woman


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  1. justforfun558

    More than a month ago
    I have had several younger men, and they don't do it for me at all. I find younger men to be very inexperienced and don't really know how to please, and they cum too fast before anything else is done. I know men always tell me that age is just a number, but sorry, not for me. I will definitely give a younger guy a chance if I am attracted to him, but just to go with a younger guy just for the sake of it, no thanks. I prefer someone more older and more experienced and easier to talk to.
  2. Melody2973

    More than a month ago
    I don't think I agree:))

    I've found them to be all about themselves but then again so have the men I've met that are my age :))))

    Age means nothing and I'm not a ' demanding diva ' so maybe that's why I wasn't satisfied but yeah.
  3. littleshy58

    More than a month ago
    wife has a 25 yo toyboy who she has been playing with for the last 4 years about 2 times a week and every time she has played with him she comes home horny as any thing and wants me to play for hours been best thing we ever did in our 38 years together only time they never played was for 6 months when he found a girl friend wife says she hopes to keep him for a few more years as he respects her in every way and only does things she wants
  4. Savvyblueeyes86

    More than a month ago
    Interesting article , something to think about
  5. Amante.

    More than a month ago
    I must have been dating the wrong ones....unsatisfying intellectually, looking for a mummy, can't perform, won't listen to learn how to satisfy me....I've given up!
  6. rboy01

    More than a month ago
    I would love to be some lady's toy boy, it's something I've always wanted,
  7. Dinks67

    More than a month ago
    We have had a couple of toyboys lol
    Both were great and the experience for the wife is just out of this world.
    But they are just quick relationships and so it should stay that way. They are not wanting to tied down and couples and single females should bare in mind that young hormones are playing rampant with their pants.

    All for our fun :-)


    More than a month ago
    its the way to go I say
  8. skanknz

    More than a month ago
    I find this to be quite intriguing indeed.

    Where I am nowhere near a toyboy anymore, My ex wife had a best friend whom entered into a fulltime relationship with a young man (41 and 23) at the time. The problems arose when he started disrespecting her older women friends thinking they were all old and desperate (including my Ex) which got him one hell of an Arse kicking lol!

    Moral to the story... Keep your pets on a leash!
  9. Pandhforfun

    More than a month ago
    Mmmmm I have had the pleasure of playing with younger guys on several occasions ( in late 20s & 30s) some are reg playmates now and they def get my juices flowing. Willing to participate in 3somes or one on one depending on circumstances oh and love kissing lol
    Definitely worth trying ladies
    Mrs pandh :)
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    More than a month ago
    I totally agree with this.


    More than a month ago
    I also agree...


    More than a month ago
    Soo true.....matty6969er
  10. Leolady727

    More than a month ago
    No, sorry - give me a mature man any day!


    More than a month ago
    But...but..not even if you were asked nicely, pretty please? ??


    More than a month ago
    Sorry - I have found younger guys are selfish, they think mature women must be desperate and will put up with anything (NOT the case with me).
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    More than a month ago
    Go on, give him a chance to show you otherwise!!


    More than a month ago
    I am not going to be critical of your personal views, we are all different - i respect that. I can't say that I'm not disappointed, you're a sexy looking woman who speaks her mind, which just only makes you more attractive in my mind. I will however wish you only the best in your search, and may the lucky man exceed your every desire.
  11. msjones69

    More than a month ago
    Great article! Love having a toyboy in my bed!
  12. newthings808

    More than a month ago
    Great article, hopefully it will kick-start a wave of mature women keen to get some youth into them - fingers crossed, as they are 'the sexiest of them all'! I do feel a little bit sorry for them, because there's so many of us seeking their attention, where to start would be troublesome. . Let me help you ladies "Pick me"!!! ?? ?? ??
  13. sweeth3art

    More than a month ago
    17 sleeps and I'm sharing my 10mth virginity with a gorgeous toy boy who thinks quite rightly that I'm his Christmas pressie :) he's 26 hallelujah and amen ;)
  14. Sydfitfun80

    More than a month ago
    Number 3 is 100% correct. Great article. I love mature ladies :)
  15. NevaNoWotzNext

    More than a month ago
    Preaching to the converted. So much fun. Toy boys also (#11 reason) make my skin glow and (#12 reason) make me smile all day at work ;-)


    More than a month ago
  16. Iween1

    More than a month ago
    Toy boys are a fantastic no strings arrangements. I have a couple of early 30 somethings in two different towns, so I'm never going 'without'. Lucky me BUT MORE, lucky them! I love to put my hands and mouth on a darling willing sexy young male. They adore this. I'll make him feel that good that cumming several times isn't unusual but isn't necessary. It is about mutual pleasuring plus plus. Try it - these younger males do like to please and I'm a living testimony of appreciating some awesome attention over the years. I receive a lot back but more, turning on these darlings and hearing them moan is the epitome of a great connection.


    More than a month ago
    I have a couple of young girls who serve much the same service. They love to Fuck and can often b seen in my house &. Land, naked. Some of my employees, including me Fuck them too.


    More than a month ago
    Interesting ;)

    McCapper toooooo much information I think :(,
  17. hotNexotic

    More than a month ago
    Great article and I agree.
    So, where's my cougar ? :p
  18. JackNP

    More than a month ago
    I agree. And from a toy boy's perspective - there's just something so sexy about an older woman.
  19. brazenhotlips

    More than a month ago
    Love it. Maybe i shouldn't rule one out lol
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    More than a month ago
    Dont rule it out i had one 10 years younger he
    was the best id ever had
    knew so many fun things id go back to him every night
    to feel the way he made me feel
  20. SassySandy

    More than a month ago
    NOTHING better than toy boys, I'm 66 and having toy boys 20, 30, 40's making me VERY happy and vice versa, no strings attached and keeps my hormones VERY RIPE!!!!! It's a good feeling knowing they want my body to experience the "older" woman maybe for the first time, how exciting mmmmmmm, shall enjoy while the body can still perform hehe!!


    More than a month ago
    You go girl, wish I was your you boy ??
  21. Readyforyounow3

    More than a month ago
    Only problem is the toyboy always wants to come to my place
    which is impossible.
    And his place is out of the question as he has house mates
    or lives with mum and dad!
    So where does that leave us


    More than a month ago
    hotel room


    More than a month ago
    Where there is a will there is a way. I've had some incredible toy boys who live the sexuality of mature women. We know what we want. We live their bodies and making them feel desired. Well I do!!!

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