Don't Be A Dick With Dick Pics!

by Eva Sless - 05 November 2016 - 68 Member Comments
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Unsolicited is NEVER okay

Dick pics. If you're a female on the internet, chances are you've been sent one, and if you're a female on a dating site, that chance probably triples. As a sex writer and somewhat public person, I couldn't tell you the number of times I have opened my inbox to be confronted by an image of some dude's genitals, usually accompanied by a misspelt “Hey Hunny” or some crap. No matter how often it happens, it still jars me for a minute. There's something really disconcerting about it. I often feel the same as when I get a “hey baby!” shout from a car, or an unwanted grope at a bar. As sex positive and as genital loving as I am, when someone sends a pic like that unsolicited it is an invasion of my personal boundaries, and completely lacks any consent on my part. I honestly don't understand why they send them. There's enough articles and blogs and videos out there talking about how gross and unwanted they are, and yet, even as I write this, I have two unopened dick pics in my inbox. It's an absolutely, 100% guaranteed way to never ever get my attention. And if I do ever reply, I just Google “diseased penis” and send back the most revolting one I can find. 

Okay, gang, so in the interest of word count, and saving you all from a typical Eva rant, let's just say there was a very large paragraph here on how disrespectful and gross they are, with comparisons to monkeys throwing poo and other gross things animals do to try and get attention... But let's move on shall we. Bottom line is, unless it is specifically asked for, do not send someone a picture of your dick. Simple.

Dick Pics can be awesome!

Now please don't get me wrong in this piece. I actually really like penises. I think they can be lovely! I have asked people for them, and swapped explicit photographs of myself too. I have no problem with nudes, nudity, pornography, anything like that. But on my terms. With my consent. And that's the same as almost every other woman I asked.

“Oh I love a good dick pic. LOVE! But only if I've asked for it. The same pic just sent to me randomly makes me want to vomit.” - Carly

“I really like going through the galleries and looking at people's nude pics. But for some reason if it's the first thing I see on their profile it turns me right off” - Jenna

“If I want it, I'll ask for it. And trust me, if you impress me with your words and your humour, I'm probably going to ask for it.” - Leisha

Dating Sites and Dick Pics

But what about those dick pics that aren't aren't necessarily sent directly to us, but we still see without asking for it? Like on sites like Adult Match Maker, having your dick as your profile pic. For me personally it's never quite AS confronting as being singled out to have one sent to you, but it still doesn't make me want to jump onto your profile and have a look at the rest of your stuff. I put forward a question about it to a group of friends, quite often the reaction is the same.

“Personally it's the biggest turn off. I won't even look at their profile” - Dianne

“Definitely less likely to contact...” - Helen

“Dick pic equals instant ignore” - Natalie

On sites like Adult Match Maker I understand that one of the main purposes is to get laid. I get that. I was a member on here to get laid for a long time before it became my job to write, but I still don't see why having a picture of your genitals as a first contact will get you in faster. I mean, even on a hook-up, one night stand deal you still kind of have to have some chemistry of sorts. So many women, including myself, find sexual attraction goes hand in hand with personal attraction so even if you look like [insert current celebrity heartthrob here], if you're a dick head or rude or something, that attractiveness instantly plummets.  

Take a Pic and Make it Good!

Adult Match Maker is unique in that they introduced an “Adult Mode” option, which basically means you can turn it off and you won't see any explicit pictures. But this also means if your profile pic is of your genitals all members with “Adult Mode” off will see nothing but a grey square, and that can actually be a useful indication for them not to go looking further.

But, in saying all of that, there are some women who like it and who are actively seeking out men with certain types of cock, or want to picture swap and that's perfectly cool too. 

“Actually I like it. I wanna see what I'll be getting later. No point making all the small talk to find out later they have a crappy cock” - Helena

“It doesn't bother me one way or the other. At least if I can see it I can work out if I want to put it inside me” - Janie

“Love them. Honestly I do. But it has to be a nice picture. Ugly, or bad pics are such a turn off.”

So how do you take a decent penis picture that will attract and not turn off? There are a few key things women put to me to help you guys take a decent pic of your junk that may get a bit more attention.

  • Focus! Make sure it is in focus.
  • Background! No toilets, messy floors, kids (yes I've seen kids in the background of nude pics before although they wouldn't be approved on AMM). 
  • No undies! Seriously, the rumpled up jocks at your ankles just looks ugly and messy.
  • Angles baby! I always tell people who compliment my pics that I give great angle. It's true. How you position yourself (and your bits) in a pic is important. 
  • Highlight the best bits! Have you got a nice smooth, round head? A thick shaft? A nice length? Try and focus on the best bit of your cock and take the pic from that angle.
  • Clean cocks! Yes, I have been sent some of the crustiest looking cock pics before and I just don't get it! Wipe off the dick cheese, boys. We really, really don't want to see that!

So all in all, to round it off, the consensus seems clear. Unsolicited dick pics are a no-no, dick profile pics are a so-so, but a decent, well angled, and asked for pic can be a great way to start a horny journey with someone. Get it right, and you may just get some!

68 Member Comments

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  1. shellygurl1970

    More than a month ago
    great to see a nice cock,but seriously guys,its mental stimulation also!
    Love to be romanced also,just be a little romantic!
  2. Wifesfantasies

    More than a month ago
    Blah... blah... blah!!

    Each to their own. We are getting sick and tired of this ear bashing about being political correct on EVERYTHING!! Telling people how to think, what to eat, what to wear, how to act. Its getting to the point of redickulous ;). Think for yourself question aurthority, think for yourself question aurthority this includes "people that specialise in sex" lmao what nonsense. If your that sensative report the people that offend you and lets see what happens to this site. Im sure someone else will make another dating site to cater for the needs of those like-minded people.

    DeliciousEva

    More than a month ago
    I've always found that people who complain about political correctness are the sort who seem to think the world revolves around them and how dare society expect people to be decent to each other.

    But hey. If you're okay with getting penises sent to you without being asked that's excellent.

    But remember... The world doesn't revolve around you and what you like.

  3. trythishard1

    More than a month ago
    For fuck sake..... If you are on a site like this for whatever reason you are giving consent to seeing a cock pic. If you choose to join a site like this a cock pic cannot be "unsolicited" !!! What do people not understand !!!

    Leolady727

    More than a month ago
    You just don't get it. do you? This article is about being sent unsolicited dick pics. Yes, we know that many guys on here think their dick is SOOOOOOO special that every woman want to see it, and therefore it's the main profile pic - we can always turn off "Adult Mode" so we don't have to see your main brain but that doesn't help when someone emails or Facebooks one a picture of their dick uninvited.

    trythishard1

    More than two weeks ago
    My comments relate to this site.
    The majority of the article and comments do too!!
    Where have I mentioned Facebook or email?
    I do get it actually!!
    Turn off adult mode, who cares!!
    My profile is just that, my profile.
    I'll put on it what I please.
    If you don't like it that ain't my problem.

    Leolady727

    More than two weeks ago
    Oh dear, as Eva said, you ARE angry -:)
  4. josheee72

    More than a month ago
    Tell women to put the tits back in ! Also cover the snatch..bloody hypocrite.

    Leolady727

    More than a month ago
    Hypocrite? Are women sending you these pictures unsolicited? THAT'S what this blog is about, or did you not read it?

    Fiona.Ring.CD

    More than a month ago
    It's not being hypocritical at all, you only think it is because you have completely missed the point. Men & women think totally differently & they have different views on what they deem as appropriate.

    Michelle112

    More than a month ago
    Leolady 727, You look stunning. I love your new picture :)

    Leolady727

    More than a month ago
    Why, thank you, Michelle :-)

    ASensualsoul

    More than a month ago
    WellI'm sorry but if a womans profile only contains tits and pussy pics then its a big turn OFF for me. Yes us men know you have different bits and they are magnificent, don't get me wrong, but is that what you want to be known as, a pair of breasts and a vagina? No, and this goes for both sexes, profile should have a genital or breast pic as the main one. I mean please people grow up a little. Keep them for the private gallery and treat them like a "reward" for sending a first message. If thats all you have going for you then sadly you should look at yourselves and think "I wonder why I can't find the right/nice guy." Mystery people, its a HUGE aphrodisiac, as most men would rather see you in sexy underwear, even if its transparent. We all have dicks , tits and pussies but what will you do before and after sex or is that all you want to be known as, the great rack or (insert random female name here)?

    trythishard1

    More than a week ago
    I hope you're being sarcastic :-)
  5. Lasciviousme

    More than a month ago
    It's about consent and respect - unsolicited is never OK, and if it is your only selling point, you should look for something to differentiate yourself. A woman can get a cock anywhere, but what is it that differentiates you from the other guys on here?
    BTW, cock pics, especially where it is the only pic, is an auto delete and block - perhaps if more people did this, it would encourage more respect and weed out the 'dicks'.
  6. willinghelper

    More than a month ago
    Great article.... cant see the point of getting it out for a photo... not the most photogenic thing are they....I would hope that most women are looking for what you can do with it not how good you are with photoshop.
  7. DeliciousEva

    More than a month ago
    Curious to me how many of the men are getting offended
    Have any of you actually READ the piece? Or did you just read the title and assume it was a penis bashing article?? Haha.

    trythishard1

    More than a month ago
    The point is.... If you sign up to a site like this that caters
    for people who like to post cock pics, in no way are they
    " unsolicited ". You choose to be here, I didn't make you!!
    How do people not understand this? If you don't want to
    see cock pics sign up to a site that caters for you. This
    " unsolicited " debate is crap!! It's no different to walking
    Into a sex shop and criticising the guy behind the desk
    because you're offended by seeing a cock. Who would do
    that!!!

    DeliciousEva

    More than a month ago
    So... You *didn't* read it.
    lol

    Perhaps reread the bit about dating site cock pics in profile pics.

    When referring to unsolicited I pretty much only mean ones that are sent in messages without being asked.
    Profile pics are a different matter. Not unsolicited as such, no... But a good indicator for some on whether or not they'll pursue a meeting or communication.

    You're very angry... So many exclamation marks!
    Are you okay? Perhaps a nice cuppa and a lie down will help to calm you down.

    It's just cock, babe. Not everyone loves them. And that's okay. Settle.
  8. Travellingman34

    More than a month ago
    Horses for courses I guess.

    Totally understand it's not for everyone however I have had profile pics with and without dick pics ....... and I have had a LOT more interest with a dick pic. It's one way to stand out amongst the 100's of guys on here.

    Leolady727

    More than a month ago
    For me, I think the way to stand out is to have a well-written and interesting profile - leave the dick pics for your PG. Actually, I can't imagine ANY circumstance where I want to see a picture of a dick (as opposed to an actual penis).

    Travellingman34

    More than a month ago
    Fair enough, each to their own.

    However in my personal experience I have a lot more success even getting a reply with the dick pic than without. I understand you prefer not to see it, lots of others obviously do :)
  9. LaBonk

    More than a month ago
    What a lot of bull is this a swinging site or another womans chat forum

    DeliciousEva

    More than a month ago
    Interesting.

    Do you also ignore consent or respect at a swingers party?

    Leolady727

    More than a month ago
    Eva, he's probably that annoying guy at a party who tries to shove his dick into one's face uninvited.

    Ms.CupCake.

    More than a month ago
    Actually LaBonk, this is an Adult Match Making Site - to my understanding that means the site is designed for like minded ADULTS to find each other regardless of what they are seeking.

    People join for different reasons.
    If a person, a couple or a group want to swing - they look for swingers, if a person wants to chat in a forum - they are able to do exactly that in the many chat rooms that are provided.
    If someone wants a relationship (and I personally know many who have found relationships here) they search for a compatible partner.

    Such a pity there are so many small minded disrespectful people around.

    LittleLiasons

    More than a month ago
    I see a pic of a guy getting head and I think we'll that's all he is after. I would not even read your profile or talk to u in chat. Sex is sex but a woman still needs to have her motor started and most of us don't do it with. Dick pick. Understand you men may from boobs etc but we don't function that way. Good luck if your getting it with you pic
  10. dingusdid

    More than a month ago
    can wait to see this mirror turned around and squared on the female profiles, or is it just the lads you feel the need to 'educate'. ?

    DeliciousEva

    More than a month ago
    Well when it becomes a world wide issue with women using their entitlement and lack of respect to start sending unsolicited vagina pics, and it becomes a world wide issue of men not wanting to receive them and feeling quite confronted when they do...
    Yep.
    Of course.

    Until then... Stop with the "poor men are so oppressed these days", and get an education.
    :)

    LittleLiasons

    More than a month ago
    I don't think it is so much as having the mirror turned around but more an education on what the majority of woman like. It's not a bad subject. As stated a good pic is nice. But woman like it when not emailed to them. On here it's nice to see a good pic of one.
  11. Badboy7373

    More than a month ago
    I guess being on AMM;as a male you need to flaunt what you percieve to be desired by the opposite sex; or what you think is diffrent and better about you in contrast to other men, If your an every day bloke trying to land a lady and you have a huge cock then obviously it shouldnt be a shock to see a dick pic on his profile; We are on AMM; I for one however think we should be better than that give women on this site a bit of respect and not think every lady here is just out for a shag and should only send a explicit Dick Pic if asked; but in saying that, I wouldnt complain if i got an unsolicited pussy,ass or tit pic sent to me. Make of it what you will

    LittleLiasons

    More than a month ago
    Haha. The difference between men and woman. Yes a good dick pic is nice but a good body is better for woman. Like your comment.
  12. Femilla544

    More than a month ago
    Yes, I get it.
    You were born with a penis!
    You didn't have a say in the matter, but there you are! And funnily enough your pretty impressed with yourself.
    All blokes have dicks! It's about what you can do with it that counts! And that's where the required interaction comes into play.
    And that is where there is a bit of a break down in communication.
    Definitely please ask! And if you get a positive response and send the pic, please give a reference data. E.g. A beautiful man sent me a dic pic after confirming that's all good with me prior, and he held a shaving can against his impressive organ, so I could absorb the mass. Beautiful! Mind you he also gave me a pic of his tongue. , ! I will do what ever he wants. Consensual , respectful, & considerate. Thank you!
  13. Lov2lov2

    More than a month ago
    Unsolicited dick pics shouldn't 'happen' for those not interested in them. But unfortunately, they will occur from time to time because:
    - M's outnumber F's here
    - there's a spectrum of risque on here - face it, the most conservative profiles have some naughtiness
    - on the internets that there's always some tool...

    Fortunately, Adult Mode was introduced to deal with all this.
    "Adult Mode allows members to control the display of restricted content, such as member photos with restricted classification.
    When Adult Mode is OFF:
    Member photos with a restricted classification will not be shown
    The ability to broadcast your webcam or view other webcams in chats will be disabled"

    On = no dick pics at all. Off = allows you to view someone 'special' ;)

    And aren't you better off sometimes knowing 'incompatabilities' early on to avoid time-wasting or tears - rather than people acting/charading as someone else? And aren't there some respectful but quite risque folk on here who only seek like-minded - in which case, go for it & each to their own.
    Cheers
  14. Ms.CupCake.

    More than a month ago
    Great Article Eva.
    It's just a pity that most men will not read it let alone take notice of your suggestions.

    ditto19

    More than a month ago
    I have read the article and others. I only have them in my pg, and will share if other party wants.

    DeliciousEva

    More than a month ago
    Latest comments attest to this prediction.
    Haha.

    It always amuses me how angry and offended some men get when women pull them up on offensive behaviour.

    The comments here show such a great range from the respectful and willing to learn and listen and understand... To the #notallmen omg how DARE you question my masculinity and OMG WHAT IF A WOMAN DID IT YOU JUST HATE MEN!!! Rhetoric.

    Amusing.
    Typical.
    :)

    Privateer76

    More than a month ago
    Eva, love your comments here.
    Illuminating.
    Dudes - are you listening?

    Ms.CupCake.

    More than a month ago
    Go get em Eva .. lol

    I guess no matter how many tips and suggestions you try to offer people to help them be more successful in achieving their desires or goals, there are always going to be those that will be offended by such help.
  15. godown64

    More than a month ago
    I must admit that when I receive unasked for personal pictures, I am put off by the audacity to think that I am simple enough to be attracted to such a thing.
    In saying that I have different values, morals and needs to others and
    I am sure that when I receive these messages that the sender is not trying to shock me, after all, I feel that only a very naive and easily offended person with differing values to the majority of those on this site would possibly have.
    In short, I have my nudie pics in my private section and only send permission once a mental rapport is established. I Am not a piece of meat and I have no wish to spend an evening with someone who I don't have a connection with . Have fun finding your fun!
  16. GoldieHorninc

    More than a month ago
    I skim past profiles featuring a dic pic... this is my personal preference...
    I love dic pics if they are erotic and/or are from someone that I know intimately or I desire too know )
    Unsolicited, I find offensive. Full stop
    Again this is my personal preference
    I have had guys send me videos of them coming and some more and when solicited ii find it immensely erotic and very hot
    It could be likened to consensual vs non consensual sex and have read cases where it has been successfully argued in law
    Interesting forum )
  17. Leolady727

    More than a month ago
    Some guys obviously don't think about the dick pic they're posting. A couple of examples:

    The pic of a dick next to a coke can (really?) - hand holding said dick has filthy BLACK fingernails.

    Picture of a dick with a HUGE wart on the side - nauseating.

    ditto19

    More than a month ago
    I have rarely been given any feedback on my pics, dick or otherwise. Maybe a few could do this to help out an first time photographer. Also, it is not easy to take a good "selfie" and getting everything right.

    ASensualsoul

    More than a month ago
    Maybe you should look at some womens profiles Leolady, just as nauseating I can assure you. Pics of genitals can be erotic if asked for but when not by Men AND Women it is puerile in behaviour. I mean this site is called ADULT MatchMaker not CHILD MatchMaker. Oh and I thought it was a great article Eva, but maybe it should be about both sexes, unless you plan on a follow up with women as the topic.
  18. Fiona.Ring.CD

    More than a month ago
    I forgot about an all time favourite cock shot... the comparison shot, where a guy holds an inanimate object along side his cock to show everyone how big his cock is. A beer can is such a good choice lol.

    I'm a member of other site, besides this site & guys everywhere seem to opt for the cock in favour of any other part of their anatomy. When these guys message me I sometimes just address them as "Dick"... hey Dick, thanks for the compliment... thanks Dick... you have a nice day Dick etc. Mostly I ignore them.
  19. AMM.Editor

    More than a month ago
    Eva also sent us this link which you will have to cut & paste: http://critiquemydickpic.tumblr.com/
  20. Fiona.Ring.CD

    More than a month ago
    I love this topic & pretty much agree with all the author has written. I'm probably a bit of a hypocrite because a lot of my photo's have my penis exposed.

    I do believe that your profile picture is the most important part of your profile, so it has to appeal to the people you are trying to attract. Having spoken to many women, CD's & TG's etc, on this subject, it's quite apparent that a close-up dick pick is the biggest turn off of them all, at least for most of them. For Bi guys, it's probably what most of them want to see straight away.

    When a guy joins a site like AMM they are reluctant to put up a portrait shot because of the fear of been found out, even though that is what the majority of girls want to see. So a guy joins this site, can't think of anything else but sex & his cock, races to the bathroom & takes a quick snap of their dick & uploads it.

    In my opinion, there are a few categories of dick pick's. My Favourites (sarcastically) are the bathroom floor shots, with, an out of focus dick, hanging over their jeans or jocks, in the foreground. Also with dirty bathroom tiles or socks on or long gnarly toenails. Then there is the dirty bathroom mirror shot. Well what does that say about a person. Next is the computer chair shot with the big hairy stomach hanging over a stump surround by an overgrown undergrowth. Let me just flop it out of my jeans & take a quickie for the girls shot... mmm nice one, put a lot of thought into that one. It goes on & on. Guys, just don't have a cock shot as your profile photo, it's that simple. I think no photo at all is better that a cock shot. Although, on very rare occasion I do see a cock shot & think wow, what a great photo & a great looking cock but that is very rare indeed.

    Personally I'm not interested in men that much but it never ceases to amaze me how little they seem to know about how to attract a mate or a fuck buddy.

    As I said, I'm a bit of a hypocrite but I do try & show my cock in context with the rest of me & I do try & have a variety of shots.

    Everyone is different & you're never going to please everyone & you are never going to be everyone's cup of tea but put up a profile pic that's going to do the least damage to your chances.
  21. shortncute

    More than a month ago
    I can't understand why Guys post only pictures of their Dicks & only their Dicks & nothing else, what is the method of thinking?? do they think its the only attractive feature on their body & when you ask them to put up a face shot they send you a reply with abuse when we don't deserve it & when you see it once & then you see it over and over again it gets a bit off putting.
  22. Boaboy

    More than a month ago
    As usual, horses for courses.
    Guys who just post dik-pix are most probably coy about their actual looks - and rely on dik-pix to attract like-minded partners.
    Personally, an interesting mix of pix is gonna give a potential partner more to go on.
    Nevertheless, as already noted, some women are as 'genitally-focused' as many men seem to be - and post pussy-pix as their main photo... so go figure - you can't pleez all the people all the time...
    Aaand after all - this is AMM , not RSVP - so to be 'shocked' or repulsed by dik-pix is a little amusing on a site like this...
    Butt of course - (pun intended) - crass, unimaginative, gross and boring images are a turn-off for any1.
    I've certainly tried to post graphically interesting and 'off-the-wall' images - (images that reflect male energy/eroticism and are definitely a notch above the ordinary) - and and yes I get a lot of attention from gay and transgender dudes as a consequence - which I find flattering... and have no problem with.
    The thing is, if you're a dickhead with ONLY dik-pix - you'll attract the same kinda gal...
    At least, that's my phat 6.5 to 7 inches worth...
    :P

    Leolady727

    More than a month ago
    OMG - HOW many times have I heard "this is not RSVP" (or E-Harmony). To me, it says that some guys think that a woman who is on this site does not deserve to be treated with any respect. - she's obviously up for anything with anybody.

    That sort of attitude, along with a dick pic profile picture, is a one-way trip to my "block" list.

    GoldieHorninc

    More than a month ago
    I'm with you leolady .. 100%

    nicegurl3072

    More than a month ago
    Yes, I totally agree with you too Leolady.
  23. 1thatlikesthat

    More than a month ago
    Are they awesome, really. Lets assume for one moment that your grandma sees your dick is it still awesome. Technically when your 2 maybe, its cute but when your 52 your dick is not your most precious possession, its not even a highlight. Women don't walk around without a top on, well some tops have less material then others but well the point is a dick is like a big toe, just because its attached to you doesnt mean it needs to be paraded around. Oh and I find nothing against a rock hard cock, but its always better not to see 50 in flash card versions all at once. So one every now and again is better than 150. Cheers. Have a naughty day.

    Privateer76

    More than a month ago
    Is that why women dress provocatively? Low cut,tight tops, short skirts,tight jeans... Just because they're attached to you,doesn't mean you're meant to parade your blobs,ass or legs around. Oh wait...

    DeliciousEva

    More than a month ago
    I have a friend who sends the dick pics she gets to the person's mother. If she can find them. The funny thing is many guys are a bit stupid and send them via their personal emails or Facebook profiles.
  24. Dinks67

    More than a month ago
    As a couple we always insist that there is a profile picture. Really don't care if its a Dick pic or Face pic or anything in between. But to have no Pics well they just get ignored full stop.
    But certainly if there is a Dick pic then there are a few turn on's and turn off's. The main turn off is Dick pics taken in the toilet especially a public toilet lol.
  25. triXXXi66

    More than a month ago
    A well thought about 'cockshot' can be very horny... avoid toilets, jocks, socks, powercords, mess in the background, cans of beer, aerosol cans of any description trying to show size comparison. A well placed hand will do that! If you really want the best kind of attention you have to make sure you 'ROCK THE COCKSHOT' . And ANY PHOTO in the main profile photo pic is better than NO photo.... doesnt have to be a cockshot... just shows you are serious and willing..
  26. CopperTop111

    More than a month ago
    Thank you!!! At long last been trying to ask this question in my "diary" log for a while and keeps getting rejected..at the end of the day its just a piece of gristle...yes it can bring pleasure to both parties..the other thing to remember is that blokes are visual, we like to SEE..females are "feelings" yes fellows there's that word again..so I agree totally with the articl..thank you again..think I delete my "dick" pic..

    LittleLiasons

    More than a month ago
    Keep it in your private gallery. If you get asked for your pg as you are your pic on public then usually she will be asking for a dick pic. Just let them know that it is in there before you send it is another option. If the pic looks blah I will help u take another one when I'm over next as it is a nice dick. I like it.
  27. AdultMode.

    More than a month ago
    The only thing Disappointing about my dick pic is that its rated 'R' & not all get to see it!! haha
  28. Privateer76

    More than a month ago
    My cockshots are arty...&impressive.
    But they stay under wraps until my cock has been inside her.
    I'd make an exception for Eva though. Just to get a rating out of 10.
  29. Ryan183

    More than a month ago
    Yeah I agree, you can't just be going around in life dishing out uninvited cock shots. Not cool. But. some girls like it. And to my constant frustration, So do a lot of homosexual men on this site. It's a personal preference. Everyone's different. I don't wanna come across as a dick, but they're just about always well received from my personal experience. If anything, it has helps me seal the deal. I have to disagree. I reckon there's women who would be especially interested in a blokes cock. How it looks, size, cut or uncut etc could be potential deal breakers for them...

    DeliciousEva

    More than a month ago
    I'm not sure exactly what you're disagreeing with?
    Did you read the whole piece?
    Interesting how you note how frustrating it is that gay guys like to show their cock. And perhaps send them unsolicited.
    Yes. Yes it IS frustrating isn't it?
    Think about that.

    LittleLiasons

    More than a month ago
    Actually Ryan I get where your coming from. A dick pic can seal the deal for some woman. When dishing them out uninvited is not on. You obviously chat to the right woman who like to see it.
  30. trythishard1

    More than a month ago
    I can't understand. Are cock pic profiles less successful because you don't like people who are " exhibitionist "? I post cock pics because i enjoy doing it and I wouldn't waste my time meeting someone who doesn't get turned on by looking at them anyway.
    The only difference between me and a guy who only shows his face(which I do in private gallery) is that I get off on the thought of people looking at my cock. I don't understand why I would be less attractive and be judged unsuccessful because of this.
    But I do agree that you're suggestions on how to shoot cock pics is a valid point.

    BareNakedLady1

    More than a month ago
    I don't want you to immediately think I'm just having a go but I suspect you've missed a huge point made very early on in the article.
    "As sex positive and as genital loving as I am, when someone sends a pic like that unsolicited it is an invasion of my personal boundaries, and completely lacks any consent on my part."
    Also, just because I do not appreciate 'unsolicited' cock shots, does not mean that I'm not turned on by certain cocks!
    You might deem your cock to be a really nice, good looking and clean one - I can assure you, this is rarely the case if what is on offer is what we have to judge.
    I've seen more nasty cocks on this site than I would care to in a lifetime.
    Truthfully, all this has done is made me extremely picky.
    I guess I've learned in my 43 years that I'm likely to respond to someone when I run into them down the street based on recognition of their face - not their cock!

    Melody2973

    More than a month ago
    Fortunately I e only ever received cock shots of cocks that are impressive so I'm not complaining :)

    Happy to know what they look likes etc :), if it doesn't move me it's not getting any further, no ' unfortunate ' surprises you could say :)
  31. HulkIsMyBitch

    More than a month ago
    This is such a good point... Literally one in every 3 contacts/messages i get are a dick pick. Also on the other side the first thing a guy usually says to me is "nice tits"...

    The only people who get messages back are the cheeky, sarcastic and charmingly written messages detailing themselves. NOT a summary of how nice their dick is and how much they think I should want it accompanoed by a badly angled snapshot of a cock in terrible lighting!

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