when a girlfriend lied

15/ When a girlfriend lied

When a girlfriend lied and then betrayed my trust
I branded her actions as being unjust,
and I tried to run, and I tried to hide,
but I was on an emotional roller coaster ride
Until eventually however I accepted it as a gift
and now understand the reasons for our rift
You see, she not only betrayed my trust and told me lies,
But she used her winning smile to beguile and to disguise
that in fact she did not give a toss,
because all she needed was to win at any cost
So, our friendship was built on false pretences,
But luckily finally I came to my senses,
and I learnt a valuable lesson that her well-rehearsed charm
was not only used to disarm
But was used to disguise her fragile ego and therefore she could do no harm
But in future I will remind myself that fickle flattery is my demise
Be it from either man or woman who pretend to idolize
Also, I feel compassion for her because her journey has been tough
making her believe she is never enough
But I reckon most likely she must be feeling so very much alone
cause it seems she has a heart made of stone
Nevertheless, may I issue a warning to any would be lover
“Please be ready to run, and take cover
because she will cunningly play the game
(that's called 'Dating' for want of a better name)
by using her feminine guile
to put you on trial
by hiding her true intentions behind her sweet smile
Then after a short while
You realize you have shouted dinner three times or more
Hoping then she may let you grace her door
Because after all her actions proclaim ‘She is not a Whore’
but a God's police obeying societies law
Therefore, before she agrees to sex you need to prove your merit Your feelings matter naught so just grin and bear it
Then she will string you along
On a not so merry a jig to the tune of her song
While all along pretend she is so innocent and pure
And make you prove your worth until she is sure
that she has you dancing like a puppet on a string,
because although her objective may not be a wedding ring
She loves the power of leading you on, and treating you mean
for that will surely keep you keen.
Not only that, but it's important for her self -esteem,
because she feels like a cat who licked the cream
It does not matter if your balls are hurting
for she gets so much power from just flirting
You see her ego feeds on her ability to play and win the game
and she is immune to any feelings of remorse or shame
Because as I said before her sole objective is to win at any cost
And she is not concerned about all the friends she has lost
Also, she has no empathy, but she sure can deceive
all men (and women too like me) who mistakenly believe
that she is open hearted, loving and loyal
but unfortunately, she uses her charm as a foil.
But the truth is she is self-obsessed and cares for no one
and she won't think twice to shoot you down with her gun
If she is in control and she feels she has won
for after all it is imperative, she is number one
So, if you too are caught in her web woven of bright colorful hue
Remember the lesson is a gift ... that's all we can ever do

/ No longer my egos slave

As a woman I am trying to understand
Why so many of my sisters seem to lead men on a merry dance?
So, I wonder if the above words ring true for you by any chance?
Because it sure has me puzzled and also, curious to hear
If it's happened to you does it make you furious?
And if so what would you suggest is there better way to behave?
Cause I believe men will always retreat to their cave
when women manipulate and deceive
to win the man, because it seems women perceive
That playing 'hard to get' will gain the man's respect.
So, I wonder men if you can help me here?
Tell me: How can men and women keep communication clear?
Are you content to play this game?
Or do you think it is a crying shame?
When man meets girl all is not transparent
but instead, the game of pretend is apparent?
Where does honesty and integrity fit in this mould?
As they say 'All that glitters is not gold '
So, it seems to me the glitter will quickly disappear,
because dishonesty soon leads to mistrust and fear.
And as fear and love cannot co-exist
so please tell me 'What is it I have missed'?
Between you and me and the gate post
I think what hurts me the most,
is knowing that some women will also betray another woman's trust.
Because for them being all powerful is a must.
It does not matter to them that a sister is bruised, hurting, and vulnerable
as long as to the outside world they appear honourable.
But what they fail to realize is deep down in their core
They are so afraid they will be branded 'A Whore'
that they resort to the behaviour
that I have already mentioned.
And as for their integrity and honesty that's never questioned.
It seems to me they refuse to face brutal the truth.
We are all sexual being at our roots,
and wired into our DNA is sex and lust.
But somewhere along the way us human beings have forgotten to trust
that we too like the whales migrating North
have our own inner compass to guide us forth,
and just as the river to the ocean keeps flowing
we too can heed our own inner knowing.
Yes, I can hear you proclaim 'Holy cow!
you must be in Utopia Now?
So, I will stop my monkey mind, and this rant and rave
And go to the ocean and ride wave after wave after wave after wave
until am no longer my ego's slave