A few years ago when I first told my wife I wanted to watch her have sex with another man we were not sure how to find him . This was before we were aware of A.M.M. , so we decided to go to a swingers club on a night they allowed extra guys . For the first hour or so we stayed in the main bar area where my wife pointed out a couple of guys she liked . We then changed into our towels and went into the play area just as one of the guys from earlier wandered by and I simply asked him if he would like to join us and the three of us found an empty room and my wife was the first to drop her towel and layed down on the bed on her back , we both quickly joined her and I started to kiss her and play with her tits and when I moved my hand down her body I found she had already spread her legs and our friend had 2 fingers in her pussy and as she was comfortable with this I got off the bed to watch . After a few minutes our friend got off the bed and prepared to put on a condom , he looked at me and I shook my head no , he smiled and put some lube on his cock and got between her legs and in only a couple of thrusts was fully in her and began to slowly fuck her , shortly after his pace started to speed up and my wife made a loud moan and I knew he was cumming in her . He stayed still for a minute , then pulled out and left the room , no words were spoken . I then got on the bed between my wifes still spread legs and she raised her knees to her chest and said "is this what you want " , her pussy was still open and cum was beginning to leak out , to this day the memory of my first sloppy seconds still makes me hard , it did not take me long to give her a second load . I have not kept count of the number of guys I have watched fuck my wife as she often enjoys more than 1 a night at clubs but nearly all have been happy to bareback , there is something very erotic about cumming in another mans wife . We now have a regular guy visit most sunday afternoons to spend an hour fucking my wife , sometimes I watch , sometimes I leave them alone , but I always have my turn when he leaves !! He has asked about bringing 1 or 2 , extra guys but my wife is a bit concerned about being gang banged every sunday afternoon but has said she would like to try 3 or 4 guys every 2 or 3 months at a motel , but that would be another story