If I’m Poly am I Kinky?

If I’m Poly am I Kinky?

I strongly identify as poly, and as I’ve started discussing this there seems to be an assumption that this means I’m kinky. So do I have to be kinky if I’m poly?

Why it is easier to experiment with a hook up partner?

Why it is easier to experiment with a hook up partner?

With a partner, especially a long-term one, the idea of bringing up something new and outside the box (especially sexually) can be daunting. But with someone new you can say “tie me up and spank me!” and if they say no… Well okay. Next!

What do kinky people mean when they say ‘vanilla’?

What do kinky people mean when they say ‘vanilla’?

Due to being the world’s most popular flavouring, vanilla has a connection with convention and normality – it’s something almost everyone likes, therefore can be seen as nothing special. So what do kinky people mean when they say ‘vanilla’?