When Fire Signs Collide

''My Car won't bloody start, how embarrassing'' I muttered down the phone to A as I was trying to leave the house for our first 'meeting' since we started chatting.

It hadn't been long, and things progressed through chat really quickly. But I had a good feeling about this. He was different, cautious & reserved like me. He was careful & aware of the risks associated with Online dating, not cocky and assumptive like others had been. A was confident but not arrogant. So I gave him the benefit of the doubt & we had traded numbers just days before.

After the initial embarrassment of having car troubles, and our first phone conversation being about tapping the Starter Motor with a broomstick handle, A went out on a limb in a big way & offered to home deliver the coffee we had intended to have in a public neutral place. I had heard stories about having Online people come to your house, and I was weary. Really weary. Scared even! There was this complete stranger about to enter my life, my home, my safe haven.

I gave directions over the phone about where to find me. And after driving past 3 times before he saw me standing on the curb at the front of my house, A delivered me that coffee.

Having already broken my first rule of 'We meet in public' I had absolutely no intention of having sex with A. I didn't want him to get the wrong idea, or think he could help himself. We sat outside & drank alfresco Latte' talking about work, life, car troubles and AMM. But then he leaned in and kissed me. I melted. Instantly. Right there & then I was absolutely lost in his kiss.

We kissed passionately. Long, slow and deep. I'd not felt fireworks like that from a kiss in, I don't know how long. A felt it too! We moved that kiss inside onto the couch & started getting heavier. It felt so right. Here was this man I'd just met, in my house, on my couch, passionately kissing and embracing me.

What the hell was I doing?! I had a moment of hesitation, of caution. I was way in over my head! But then I noticed A was having the same thoughts. And I knew it was OK. A bit of hesitation, a realisation that this is crazy and way outside both our comfort zones was reassuring for me. This guy was real. He was as real as I was & this was new for both of us.

A got hard. I could tell. His body language changed. His breathing changed, his movements changed, he was into me. And I was into him!! I'd almost forgotten that I'd just met this man. It was like we had been lovers for years.

A had to go to work that afternoon. But I couldn't send him on his way like that. Not in his condition. Erect, excited, hypersensitive & wanting. That would just be mean. After all, this man had home delivered my coffee!! I undid A's pants, and he was ready. He was wearing odd socks, because he didn't believe he'd take his pants off the first time he met me. Whenever I fold his socks now, and I find odd ones, it makes me smile.

A layed down on the couch in the mild midday sun beaming through the window & I knelt down between his knees. I began to kiss him. His pelvis, his thighs, his hips. He was touching my hair, my shoulders, my breasts. It was beautiful & felt so right. I took A's erect and wanting penis into my mouth and began to work it with my tongue & lips. Getting it wet and lubricated with each downward thrust of my mouth. A was engrossed in my touch, fixated on my caress & very, very into our first meeting. I was too!

When it was over, A was incredibly sweet with me, we both realised we had met someone special. A rare find of genuinely nice, but weary and cautious person was here, semi naked and feeling completely at ease in my home.

That was 2 months ago now. And A & I have been happily dating ever since. Happy, content, fulfilled and very very into one another. We didn't have sex the first time we met, but I'm so glad that my car didn't start that day!! That was, hands down, the best Latte' I've ever had.