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40M Liverpool NSW

Looking for Women, Couples, Groups, Non-binary between 18 & 60 for A relationship, Casual encounters, Something discreet, A Dom/sub relationship, Something kinky

Hedonist, lover of kink and roleplay

Subscribe to the idea of GGG (Good/Giving/Game - strive to be good at what you do, be giving to your partner and be game to try new things). Very much a hedonist always in the pursuit of pleasure (both my own and other people's). That of course has turned into a fierce desire to enjoy time with women who are very upfront about what they want and are not shy in getting it.

Am really enjoying a new found love of fisting. There's something very sexy about drenching your hands in lube and working them inside someone... It's of course not for everyone, I'm only looking to explore it with those who are keen to explore it with me.

Am polyamorous and have a few partners. Am here and play with their consent. I am fairly active within the Sydney Poly community and run the monthly Sydney Poly Discussions and Sydney Poly Board Games events.

PS: Live alone and can host.

Ideal partner

Deal makers (things that will pique my interest but not necessary to have): You're kinky and love getting messy (I'm talking about lube, sweat and squirt), you love someone going down on you - like a lot, you know that the orgasm isn't the only pleasurable bit, you're older, you're well endowed and you're on the fuller figured end of the spectrum.

Deal breakers (if you see yourself in any of these, I would be concerned about our compatibility): You don't practice safe sex, you have a hard time communicating your needs with your lover, you're a smoker, you don't really like kissing all that much, you have a full bush (I love going down way too much to navigate this)

I'm particularly interested in fisting at the moment so if that's an interest of yours as well, say hi! Also, I've discovered a love of ejaculation without orgasm (they call it ruined orgasm but that sounds so negative) mainly because my recovery period is so incredibly short. Loooooove being able to ejaculate multiple times so if you have a fetish that this hits, get in touch!

I host raunchy house parties on occasion, from mild on up so if that kind of thing interests you, get in touch and let me know.

I didn't include this for the longest time because it's pretty cliched but then I thought, screw it, live your best life... I have a fetish for giving oral so if you love the idea of someone coming over, giving you head until you're done and then sending them on their way but didn't know how to go about asking for it, hit me up.

For the kinky people reading this, I'm a switch. The more sub you are, the more dom I become and vice versa.


Gender: Male  
Age 40  
Location Liverpool, NSW  
Status In a relationship  
Sexual Preference Straight  
Can Host Yes  


Height 172.5 cm (5'8'')  
Weight 88 kg  
Body Type Cuddly  
Eyes Green  
Hair Brown  
Body Hair Light  
Pubic Hair Shaved / Waxed / Lasered  
Endowment Length 18 cm (7'') - 20 cm (8'')  
Endowment Girth Thick  
Circumcised Yes  


Lifestyle Relaxed  
Drinking I drink socially  
Smoking Non-Smoker  
Drugs I don't take drugs, I don't smoke weed (No 420)  
Practice Safe Sex Always  


Ethnic Background White / Caucasian  
Personality Independent  
Star Sign Scorpio  


Have Children No  
Want Children No  

Work & Education

Education High school/Equivalent  
Industry Advertising, Arts & Media  


1 on 1 sex
Anal sex - receiving
Anal sex - Giving
Anal stretching
Anonymous sex
Edge play
Fisting - giving
Group Sex / Orgies
kissing - and lots of it...
Multiple ejaculations
Oral Sex - Giving
Oral Sex - Receiving
Role play
Ruined Orgasm - Receiving
Squirting - female ejaculation
Threesome - 2 Girls, 1 Male
Threesome - 2 guys, 1 girl
Toys (Vibrators / Strapons etc)