There are a whole of lot amazing advantages to being in the swinging lifestyle as a man or woman but we’ve already highlighted why being in a woman in the lifestyle ROCKS, so it’s time you guys got some spotlight attention on why being in the lifestyle is the ultimate for you!
- Well hello! You get to flirt, play with and enjoy having sex with women other than your girlfriend/wife/mistress, while the average guy out there is in the classic ball and chain scenario; getting slapped or glared out just for looking at other sensational women that happen wander past, show up on a TV ad or magazine cover. Yeah, you are one of the lucky ones for sure!
- How many other men get to go to big events where the women all walk around in sexy lingerie, sometimes naked, or in those sexy costumes that for many regular couples, only ever get worn in the bedroom? Oh and without getting slapped by your woman (if you have one)! Rooms full of eye candy and often leading to live porn!
- What other men have in the fantasy bank (and spank bank), you get to live and experience, and probably more than once! Threesomes with two girls, orgies, random and spontaneous head jobs, sex at lunch with a stranger… What else is on your list? Tick them all off as you go.
- You get to stroll around in your underwear and no one bats an eyelid… Well that’s not entirely true, there is likely to be quite a few eyes on you but only because you’re on the menu!
- Your sex life will never be boring again! How many men do you hear complaining about not getting any sex for weeks, months or even years? How unhappy are they? And if you’re single, how often do you find women who just enjoy having sex and don’t want a relationship? Even if you are a married/attached/committed man, this is also what you want, right?
- Your relationship won’t get boring or stale in the bedroom and sexy stakes so you are a whole lot less likely to be tempted or need to cheat (and nor is she). I hear this a lot in the work that I do with men who have ended up cheating on their partners, they weren’t getting their sexual needs met (sometimes for decades) and while they loved their partners, there was no discussion or resolution to the lack of sex in the relationship. You won't need to worry about that because you get sex and stimulation regularly and from more than just your sexy woman, or any one sexy woman if there is no Mrs.
- You get to learn even better ways to get a woman off, turn them on, rock their worlds and leave them begging for a bit more of you. All this sex with multiple women and you start to learn how to do things differently for each one (because we can all be so tricky in that way), which turns you into a flexible and amazing lover for more than just one woman! Woohoo!
- If you’re a good boy, your partner (or best mate) might organise a surprise orgy for your birthday! Or is that just what I do? Nah, I have been to many a birthday party which has resulted in many ways of being spoilt as the birthday boy… Girls stripping (note: have a pole handy), head jobs, random passionate kisses and sometimes there is a whole lot of oil, spontaneous intimate attention and even birthday cake being served on female bodies. Sounds terrible, doesn’t it? As my husband says, “it’s good to be the King!”
- You start to realise that size doesn’t matter as much as you think and that there is always a woman that will love and totally get off on what you have to offer. Whether you are smaller or larger than the average, straight or bent in some direction, thick or thinner, it isn’t so much what it looks like but what else you do to go with it.
- You’ll get to the end of your life and be able to say, “I got to do it all!” How many men get to say that?
Of course a lot of the rock-star type perks aren’t afforded to every male that chooses to grace the lifestyle with his presence, it’s those who are respectful and equally giving as willing to receiving, who are invited in, accepted, shared around well, get to fuck and be fucked a LOT!