Top 5 Sex Positions for Kinky Sex

Montage of sex position illustrations for kinky sex

There might not be such a thing as too many screaming orgasms in good old-fashioned missionary, but if you are ready for something a little different and a little kinkier, you’ve definitely come to the right place. 

Here are a few sexy and not-at-all sweet positions for you to tangle yourselves in the next time you’re feeling adventurous. 

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Cowgirl - Forward or Reverse

It doesn’t take much to take this much-loved sex position to the next level - the kinky level, that is. 

For the ladies, it’s an ideal position for you to bring out your inner dominatrix. Is he moving about too much? Tie him down. Want him in the dark about your next move? Blindfold him. 

And for the men, if you’re not too busy wriggling around in those restraints or blinded by your own necktie, bring a few props to the party such as nipple clamps to really spice this move up. If she’s facing away from you, this could be the perfect moment to bring out beads or butt plugs to add to the mix.

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The Mermaid

Tools you’ll need: A table, a pillow, an erection, a tie.

Ladies, you’re the mermaid in this scenario, so lie on your back on the table with the pillow under your hips. Keep your feet together (ties/cuffs are strongly advised) and hold them straight up - or have your man help you hold them up as he stands at the end of the table and discovers that mermaids are as sexy as they seem. 

Keeping your legs together adds loads of extra friction and by standing up, the guy can have as much control over the situation as he likes. 

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Doggy Style

It’s one (absolutely epic) thing to have sex in the doggy style position, but when you consider it as an opportunity for spanking, it’s another (even more epic) thing entirely. 

Over-the-knee is the classic spanking style, but with doggy style, you get the double whammy of penetration and a glorious pink-red bottom at the same time. 

Suspended Sex

Every good kinky couple has a pair of handcuffs lying around, and it would be a shame not to use them for at least a few of these fun positions. One that can really mix things up involves one partner - most likely whoever is taking on the sub role that night - having his or her hands suspended in the air. You can use almost any sturdy wall fixture, as it will only be used to hold your hands above your head, not support your full weight. The tied-up partner's feet will still be firmly planted on the floor, but having their hands up and out of the way makes them vulnerable to any sexy thing their partner wants to do - whether that be some vigorous fingering or torturous tickling. 

If you don't have a good spot to do this while standing, you can get the same effect when a partner lies down and has his or her hands cuffed above their head - usually to the headboard of a bed. This is a particularly fun position for 69ing! 

Orgasm Control 

We've already touched on the benefits of orgasm denial for men (hint: it can lead to a "super orgasm") but edging - or denying someone an orgasm - is twice as fun. While handcuffing the hands (see above) is a great way to gain an all-access pass to your partner's naughty bits, we think the best position for orgasm control is seated in a chair. The person being edged should sit straight up, with their hands tied behind them - add a blind fold and maybe even some headphones playing sexy music to help them focus on the sensations in their nether regions (and not the sounds or sights around them). 

The person doing the torture should pull up a chair or kneel between their partner's legs and go to work. Use a variety of techniques (and materials - like silk cloth or a sex toy) to get your partner close over and over and over again. Once you think he or she has had enough, bring them over the edge to a mind-blowing orgasm.  

It’s not a sex position, but it is vital anytime you wander down the path of kinky fun - make sure you talk about boundaries and have a safe word you can both remember easily and have it in place well before the playing starts. 

Anyone else feeling kinky yet? Exploring new sexual positions can be as fun as it is sexy, and the more you try, the more likely it is you’ll find some awesome new orgasmic position that simply clicks for you. If you’re trying something quite new, trying checking out porn or finding images of how it’s done so you both know your roles. It might feel a little staged at first, but you’ll quickly get forget about following instructions. 

What’s your favourite kinky position?

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    downundermumma

    More than a month ago

    Well isn't it nice to confirm you are kinky without even realising it after being shown these positions lol

    • MissThatTouch

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      More than a month ago

      Took the words right out of my mouth lol...if this is 'kinky' Im even more adventurous than I thought haha

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  • newcastleg

    newcastleg

    More than a month ago

    Dont forget the double penetration, also, its not how you do it, its about the look on you face when your finishing it.

    Reply
  • SummerSweat1on1

    SummerSweat1on1

    More than a month ago

    i love doggystyle but the reverse cowgirl position is a entirely different feeling altogether.

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  • jambon007

    jambon007

    More than a month ago

    Kinky ? And I thought it was the norm.

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  • luvvies

    luvvies

    More than a month ago

    "The Grinny" = She lays on her front with legs wide apart and I straddle her back facing her feet. In this position I can play with her pussy and ass as well as rub myself on her back or wank myself. I can lean forward and rub the back of her legs to her feet and my cock can then rub up and down in her bum crack. she can also put her hand underneath and play with her clit.. love it....

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  • whatevergoesxxx

    whatevergoesxxx

    More than a month ago

    We love doggy with male fucking from behind with another male getting sucked at the same time! We also love girl on top facing the opposite way (also called reverse cow girl) with another girl licking clit!

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  • hotblondeboy4u

    hotblondeboy4u

    More than a month ago

    Lol the mermaid haha never heard of it

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  • tecnis

    tecnis

    More than a month ago

    I was shown a position this year that I'd never seen before. Best described as reverse missionary - so guy on his back, legs apart and girl on top legs in between. Basically the girl is doing the driving/thrusting. Looks like it's called the amazon or a variation of that. Might take a bit of flexibility or getting used to but the girl who showed it to me did it effortlessly, really smooth. Anyway, I'm sure there are plenty of others too outside the regular favourite positions.

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  • dreamscumtrue1

    dreamscumtrue1

    More than a month ago

    Wow if these positions r considered kinky
    Who knows what to call what we do..
    we do lv to change things up a lot and we have experimented and found positions I dont think r even documented anywhere...hehehe...
    positions with fmf now there r some kinky positions there...

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  • Lord Richard

    Lord Richard

    More than a month ago

    All good posses, by using them and your imagination you get the best or gas. One position not mentioned is walking slowly while penetrated awesome mmm

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  • Clickable

    Clickable

    More than a month ago

    OH&S advice! Suspended sex....a sturdy wall or ceiling fixture is very important.
    Find a batten in your wall or a solid ceiling truss to fix the appropriate harnesses.
    That way you won't be home renovating the next day and you will enjoy the fruits of your labour.

    • 1DoorMan

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      More than a month ago

      Oh yes got to pickup the rafters or span a number of ceiling joists luv a suspended 4 chain fuck swing.

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  • 1DoorMan

    1DoorMan

    More than a month ago

    Side saddle lady on her side me on knees over her left leg cock in pussy my right thigh beside her cheeky so I can give it a slap. My right thigh pressed up firm against the pleasure button while her right leg over my left and hooked behind my back, I can lean forward and fondle and suck on those beautiful mounds we men love so much kiss her lick suck kiss the neck and what ever takes your fancy if you have a bit of kink in both of you I leave it to your imagination.

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  • tessa66

    tessa66

    More than a month ago

    I'm happy to be kinky :-p
    I love those possies lol
    Where's the other 2 positions?

    • AMM.Editor

      AMM.Editor

      More than a month ago

      The other 2 are at the end, they weren't visual positions, just suggestions to try and inspire people to try something different.

    • tessa66

      Account Closed

      More than a month ago

      haha oops i do have my blonde moments i see it clearly now :-/

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  • BlkMalOdy

    BlkMalOdy

    More than a month ago

    Love to see a girl on top always the good view and feel

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  • dangerandplay

    dangerandplay

    More than a month ago

    How did the author miss Bent over a Headstone in a Graveyard?
    It's a first date special.

    Reply
  • Anaconda0123

    Anaconda0123

    More than a month ago

    Actually I call that a normal night .. haha

    • Bigheartedgirl

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      More than a month ago

      A normal night what's normal about that

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  • sensualover122

    sensualover122

    More than a month ago

    THE MERMAID
    Tools you'll need: you left out.... one wet pussy!

    Reply
  • Cheekygirl1810

    Cheekygirl1810

    More than a month ago

    Great positions!

    Reply
  • SlapnTikle

    SlapnTikle

    More than a month ago

    Partner laying face down, arched back, her hands restrained outstretched in front of her with my left hand. Right arm round her waist and my right hand firmly on her mound supporting and pulling to meet my thrusts...fingers free to play with her clit and labia...
    Any practical demonstrations...contact me on....

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  • Suki69

    Suki69

    More than a month ago

    I always thought these positions were normal sex.....

    • AMM.Editor

      AMM.Editor

      More than a month ago

      It's not what you do, it's the way that you do it :-)

    • Austphil

      Account Closed

      More than a month ago

      Any one who would class these as kinky really needs to get out more.

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  • Bigheartedgirl

    Bigheartedgirl

    More than a month ago

    All great positions

    But doggy is always the best

    • NudeNomad13

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      More than a month ago

      it is a favorite

    • HORNYSYDMAN

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      More than a month ago

      I agree doggy is the best

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